Do I go the distance?

[mogreene6]

So i met this girl on okcupid (let's call her Emily) and we've been dating semi-long distance (1.5 hours away) for about 4 months. She's amazing, although she has some serious mood swings and still has some residual feelings about her ex (don't know how to feel about that, we started talking 3 days after she broke up with him so it's understandable), but the sex is great and I feel like we usually go well together. Problem is I'm transferring to a university that would put us 3 hours and 20 minutes away and we both feel like that's too far. But I still feel conflicted. Thoughts? Suggestions? Similar stories?

 

[rocket_surgery]

You're a rebound. Sooner you realize that the sooner you can get on with life.

 

[mogreene6]

Possibly, but from what I understand it's pretty normal for her to move on quickly, this is a pretty established pattern

 

[Aquagal]

You're addicted to the good sex, you'll find something new at your next gig.

 

[KingOrfeo]

Possibly, but from what I understand it's pretty normal for her to move on quickly, this is a pretty established pattern

Breaking which seems to me like a dangerous sign.

 

[Hard_Rom]

If an extra 1.5 hours (3 hours return) travelling is an issue then move on. Or decide to meet halfway.

 

[rocket_surgery]

If an extra 1.5 hours (3 hours return) travelling is an issue then move on. Or decide to meet halfway.

Lot to think about first. Does she give really good head and swallow? Does she do anal? Is she ok with a possible fmf 3way? Is she ok with her sister joining in or maybe a swap?

Shit's important, man!

 

[Hard_Rom]

Lot to think about first. Does she give really good head and swallow? Does she do anal? Is she ok with a possible fmf 3way? Is she ok with her sister joining in or maybe a swap?

Shit's important, man!

Gas prices up here are much more than the states. Different value system.

 

[Fala]

So i met this girl on okcupid (let's call her Emily) and we've been dating semi-long distance (1.5 hours away) for about 4 months. She's amazing, although she has some serious mood swings and still has some residual feelings about her ex (don't know how to feel about that, we started talking 3 days after she broke up with him so it's understandable), but the sex is great and I feel like we usually go well together. Problem is I'm transferring to a university that would put us 3 hours and 20 minutes away and we both feel like that's too far. But I still feel conflicted. Thoughts? Suggestions? Similar stories?

I haven't even read down thru this thread.

mogreene6...choose education. This does not mean that you have to break it off with her.

If you both are really in love... she will wait and support you.

If not...at least you haven't lost something so much more valuable than her.

 

[rocket_surgery]

Gas prices up here are much more than the states. Different value system.

Gas prices are more important than an all anal 3way with her sister?

 

[Colonel Hogan]

I'm assuming you had sound reasons for transferring to a new university.

But I could be wrong if you're stupid enough to shit can your educational plans over a girl.

 

[Hard_Rom]

Gas prices are more important than an all anal 3way with her sister?

4 bucks a gallon!

 

[thør]

4 bucks a gallon!

That's only $3 American.

 

[rocket_surgery]

4 bucks a gallon!

I'm sorry dude but your priorities are all out of whack.

 

[Conager]

Tell her that we should see other people before she gets around to telling you that you should see others.

 

[JohnnySavage]

I must disagree.

Banging is more important then education. College will always be there but banging is fickle.

 

[rocket_surgery]

I must disagree.

Banging is more important then education. College will always be there but banging is fickle.

Has to be quality banging tho. Don't end up at McDonalds the rest of your life over a mediocre blowjob.

 

[mogreene6]

Yeah i'm going to the university regardless, that's set in stone, education comes first. I just don't know whether or not I should try to make it work, right now I'm really leaning towards not.'

 

[Lyricalli]

Possibly, but from what I understand it's pretty normal for her to move on quickly, this is a pretty established pattern

So you're the current one in a string of people that she's moved on from quickly. Think about that while you're trying to decide.

 

[Fala]

I'm assuming you had sound reasons for transferring to a new university.

But I could be wrong if you're stupid enough to shit can your educational plans over a girl.

Here Here!!!!! claps!!!!

 

[thør]

Yeah i'm going to the university regardless, that's set in stone, education comes first. I just don't know whether or not I should try to make it work, right now I'm really leaning towards not.'

Do people even go to class in 2017?

 

[girlsmiley]

Yeah i'm going to the university regardless, that's set in stone, education comes first. I just don't know whether or not I should try to make it work, right now I'm really leaning towards not.'

Root it and boot it
Tap and gap
Tap that ass then hit the gas

Long relationships are really tough. Do the right thing by you and be honest with her and everything will be all good.

 

[Fala]

Do people even go to class in 2017?

Gah! Thor, I totally understand your Q.

Given so much is done anymore over the internet or TV as far as education.

However...what is lost..(and I think this is what your sarcasm was)...is the lifelong
healthy experiences of being up front and in person with everybody in your life.

Looking into one's eyes...seeing their body language...witnessing their interactions with other people....

Nothing has had more impact in our survival than experiencel period.

 

[jomar]

3.5 isn't too far if it's done right and often enough.

 

[thør]

Gah! Thor, I totally understand your Q.

Given so much is done anymore over the internet or TV as far as education.

However...what is lost..(and I think this is what your sarcasm was)...is the lifelong
healthy experiences of being up front and in person with everybody in your life.

Looking into one's eyes...seeing their body language...witnessing their interactions with other people....

Nothing has had more impact in our survival than experiencel period.

I'm not a real fan of distance learning.