Lost my mojo...

[harrlequin]

So.

What do you do when you turn into your parent? Lost my mom three years ago and in that time I have turned into her.

thirty pounds, instant and ongoing menopause, sexless marriage - some of the shit coming out of my mouth these days makes my inner child cringe.

Stopped going out on my Friday night...

Gah.

 

[Christobal]

I try to remember their good parts and not repeat their bad parts. They were just people doing what they could. What made you gain thirty pounds so quickly?

 

[Hard_Rom]

Pray the kids move out before its too late for you?!

 

[Disgustipated]

I try to remember their good parts and not repeat their bad parts. They were just people doing what they could. What made you gain thirty pounds so quickly?

That's only 10lbs a year, mathmatics professer.

 

[Ms_Ann]

So.

What do you do when you turn into your parent? Lost my mom three years ago and in that time I have turned into her.

thirty pounds, instant and ongoing menopause, sexless marriage - some of the shit coming out of my mouth these days makes my inner child cringe.

Stopped going out on my Friday night...

Gah.

It's always in the last place you look.

 

[harrlequin]

I try to remember their good parts and not repeat their bad parts. They were just people doing what they could. What made you gain thirty pounds so quickly?

Docs took what was left of the lady bits i still had. Kinda like what happens to dogs when you neuter them.

Actually l know mom did the best she could. It's why she died at home ( my place) instead of some care home. But I was always terrified of turning into one of those fifty-something women who just lost interest in all the fun stuff. Doesn't help that my thermostat thinks it's a yo-yo. Sure enough, I turned into that woman. Too damn tired taking care of everyone else with no- one taking care of me.

 

[harrlequin]

That's only 10lbs a year, mathmatics professer.

The weight took less than a year. Just about the time it took for me to decide to stop mourning and start living again.

 

[harrlequin]

Pray the kids move out before its too late for you?!

Just had my one and only move in, actually.

 

[harrlequin]

It's always in the last place you look.

Maybe it's under the bed with the tumbleweeds

 

[thør]

Maybe it's under the bed with the tumbleweeds

In Annie's room, behind the clock.

 

[Wings]

You can get it back if you want to. Investigate hormone therapies, get back into doing a hobby, masturbate more, move your body at least once a day, get a new hairstyle, read some trashy books, go on a mini vacation.


You have to want to live a full life and that might mean some help from drug therapies.

 

[harrlequin]

In Annie's room, behind the clock.

Heyyyy, Handsome, how are you!

 

[Ms_Ann]

Maybe it's under the bed with the tumbleweeds

I just went and read all your old threads. Hope you don't mind.

 

[thør]

Heyyyy, Handsome, how are you!

I'm good.

Sounds like you've been better.

 

[harrlequin]

You can get it back if you want to. Investigate hormone therapies, get back into doing a hobby, masturbate more, move your body at least once a day, get a new hairstyle, read some trashy books, go on a mini vacation.


You have to want to live a full life and that might mean some help from drug therapies.

If I take hormones they will have to take my breasts, too.

I do masturbate. Once a week? I might have to look at my meds, but I think it's social intercourse I 'm missing.

 

[harrlequin]

I just went and read all your old threads. Hope you don't mind.

Find anything interesting?

 

[harrlequin]

If I take hormones they will have to take my breasts, too.

I do masturbate. Once a week? I might have to look at my meds, but I think it's social intercourse I 'm missing.

I'm good.

Sounds like you've been better.

Yup. Oh well. I've always been a fighter. I'll get out of it

 

[thør]

Yup. Oh well. I've always been a fighter. I'll get out of it

There ya go!

 

[Aquagal]

Exercise outdoors. Walk. Anything. Soak up the Vitamin D. Good for mental and physical health. Nature's Prozac.

 

[Ms_Ann]

Find anything interesting?

Some of those people are still here but their names have changed to protect the guilty.

 

[Debbie]

If I take hormones they will have to take my breasts, too.

I do masturbate. Once a week? I might have to look at my meds, but I think it's social intercourse I 'm missing.

Join a book or a gardening club. Volunteer at an animal shelter. Join a walking group.

 

[Christobal]

Docs took what was left of the lady bits i still had. Kinda like what happens to dogs when you neuter them.

Actually l know mom did the best she could. It's why she died at home ( my place) instead of some care home. But I was always terrified of turning into one of those fifty-something women who just lost interest in all the fun stuff. Doesn't help that my thermostat thinks it's a yo-yo. Sure enough, I turned into that woman. Too damn tired taking care of everyone else with no- one taking care of me.

I took care of my best friend dying of cancer in my home until she died in my home. It was an exhausting experience. Between incontinence and dementia it was a soul draining thing to do. It took me awhile to get over it. Maybe you are still dealing with that.

I had to make myself go out and have fun. At first I wasn't having much fun but then just getting out started a change. It was baby steps that led to a bigger change. Your mojo isn't gone it's just been beaten down a bit.

 

[Lunation]

If I lost my sex drive I don't think I'd want it back.

If you kept the drive but lost the ability that would suck. But losing the desire seems like waking up one day and never needing to eat again. Sure, steak was good, but you don't crave food anymore and you have a lot more time and energy to do other shit.


I would suggest planning and executing a bank heist.