Been kinda shy when it comes to sex

[DavidCodeE69]

So I am someone who is kinda shy when its comes to talking about sex. Not sure if it has something to do with the fact that I have yet to experience sex yet. But from talking to a couple of people online it has made me less shy about the topic. Anyone else like this?

 

[saintcero]

Yes. Sounds like me. I learned as much as I could by reading. That helped with the sex part. The 'people' part of having sex is still a struggle. You might learn more if you enable Private Meassaging.

 

[DavidCodeE69]

I have just been having fun chats with people online about sex. Can be fun at times

 

[mtsnowrider]

So I am someone who is kinda shy when its comes to talking about sex. Not sure if it has something to do with the fact that I have yet to experience sex yet. But from talking to a couple of people online it has made me less shy about the topic. Anyone else like this?

Irish, Catholic right?

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Irish, Catholic right?

Yup but not sure what religion has to do with it?

 

[albertaboy]

Yup but not sure what religion has to do with it?

It's kind of a common affliction for us Catholics...guilt that is.

 

[DavidCodeE69]

It's kind of a common affliction for us Catholics...guilt that is.

For me I don't think it has anything to do with religion as I am not a religious person my self

 

[mtsnowrider]

For me I don't think it has anything to do with religion as I am not a religious person my self

Doesn't matter. It's part of the culture. You absorb it without realizing it growing up and it affects you whether you believe in it or not.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny

We're all shy at first. Or we're just heathens acting kool and telling every girl she's a good fuck.
Forget about the sex part and get to know a few girls.

 

[DavidCodeE69]

We're all shy at first. Or we're just heathens acting kool and telling every girl she's a good fuck.
Forget about the sex part and get to know a few girls.

For me it would be into the older man lol. But I get what you are saying

 

[Dam_Fool]

I agree. I haven't had gay sex, but that's...another story. The point is, for some people, like me, it's difficult to discuss. And online, I learned I am not as odd or unusual as I once thought.

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Doesn't matter. It's part of the culture. You absorb it without realizing it growing up and it affects you whether you believe in it or not.

I have never really thought about it from that aspect of things

 

[krissive69]

I'm shy....

 

[Dreamer110]

Like anything else the more you do it the easier it is.

 

[mtsnowrider]

I have never really thought about it from that aspect of things

You just need to make a conscious decision to get past it - which can be easier said than done. Finding someone you are comfortable with and attracted to is the answer. Random, anonymous hook ups probably won't work and will just make you feel like crap . Less horny maybe, but still not good