Telling the parents I like older

[DavidCodeE69]

So just last year I told the parents I was into men. Surprisingly went down well. I, however, have yet to tell them I am into older. I thought it was best to let get used to the idea of me liking older first. What advice would you give for when the time comes to it?

 

[yukonnights]

Perhaps if you remain somewhat vague, but mention that you respect men who are not silly, dangerously immature, more monogamous, etc ( or "whatever term" might reflect the positive contrasts between what you do like and what you don't). The hope is that it would be your parents who suggest an older man...you know, play on the protective instincts of parents, etc.

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Thanks for the reply. Ill give that a try any other suggestions from anyone is welcome also

 

[yukonnights]

Sounds like you have a good relationship with your mum and dad, so that opens the door for some passing comments too. Try to assess their fears as the days go by, and then make little casual comments about how you would soothe those fears.

Not over done, or in a dramatic way....just; "You know, I just need to take it slow and get a feel for all this." Or, "The last thing I want is some kind of weirdo, so I'm not in any rush."

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Relationship is pretty good with the parents. Just thought it was best not to tell them straight away that I am into older. Always have been to be honest. Thought I would wait a while to tell them that one

 

[yukonnights]

Relationship is pretty good with the parents. Just thought it was best not to tell them straight away that I am into older. Always have been to be honest. Thought I would wait a while to tell them that one

Sounds like you have good parents and you care for their feelings...I'm sure it will all be fine

Do you have an older BF yet?

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Nope never been in a relationship or with anyone as of yet

 

[klippert]

you told them your into me....I'm guessing you said "I'm Gay". Your going to be 30 y/o. telling they you're into sex with Older men...not sure you'll surprise them... unless that is your intention

 

[DavidCodeE69]

LOL ... Yeah told them that. Was also wondering if anyone else had that experience and how did it go with their family?

 

[Blueser916]

Step back for a second and assess whether you really need to tell your parents about the particulars of your sexual interests. Probably not, particularly since you are not in a relationship. When you do get into a relationship, just bring your gentleman around to meet the parents, no need to say "I like older men."

 

[DavidCodeE69]

Step back for a second and assess whether you really need to tell your parents about the particulars of your sexual interests. Probably not, particularly since you are not in a relationship. When you do get into a relationship, just bring your gentleman around to meet the parents, no need to say "I like older men."

Well there is going to come a time where I do need to tell them. Was just wondering what where peoples experiences on it how it went for them and so on.

 

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