Challenges

[LonesomeSwitch]

Hello again. So with Valentine's Day coming up soon I wanted to do something different for my lady. She mentioned about doing challenges that I find online. Thing is I'm a tad bit lazy and I wouldn't know what to look for. So instead, I figured I'd ask you, my lovely people of the forums. Give us various challenges to do. We are both switches so just about anything goes. It can be receiving punishments, positions and locations, anything. Obviously I plan on filtering out ones we are incapable of doing g or not interested in. And perhaps afterwards I'll post up again about which ones we did and how they turned out.
Thanks for the help lovelies~

 

[subkitty643]

Hello again. So with Valentine's Day coming up soon I wanted to do something different for my lady. She mentioned about doing challenges that I find online. Thing is I'm a tad bit lazy and I wouldn't know what to look for. So instead, I figured I'd ask you, my lovely people of the forums. Give us various challenges to do. We are both switches so just about anything goes. It can be receiving punishments, positions and locations, anything. Obviously I plan on filtering out ones we are incapable of doing g or not interested in. And perhaps afterwards I'll post up again about which ones we did and how they turned out.
Thanks for the help lovelies~

It is very difficult to make such a reccomendation not know what gets either of you going. It is very personal and what you consider a challenge may be nothing special for me. Maybe see if there is a sexy game or book available with some ideas that you could enjoy together. Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your Valentines Day!!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[SissySalina]

sissy would like both of you go out to an expensive restaurant only you wear a collar with a leash attached in her hand.

 

[MeekMe]

sissy would like both of you go out to an expensive restaurant only you wear a collar with a leash attached in her hand.

^^^Here's a great way to get denied service. I suggest NOT blatantly being assholes in an establishment expensive or not.

 

[LonesomeSwitch]

It is very difficult to make such a reccomendation not know what gets either of you going. It is very personal and what you consider a challenge may be nothing special for me. Maybe see if there is a sexy game or book available with some ideas that you could enjoy together. Best of luck and I hope you enjoy your Valentines Day!!

So I actually went put not too long after this to my local toy shop and found the 1,000 sex games set and bought that. Definitely looking foward to playing it. Normally I would have put up a list of kinks as well, but this is also mostly for something new for us to try and break out of the comfort zone a bit. I tend to find if I put up a list of our kinks people try and line it up with those. But if I omit them, people list things that they do. So I figured it'd be an easier way of doing it.
Thank you for your suggestion~

 

[LonesomeSwitch]

sissy would like both of you go out to an expensive restaurant only you wear a collar with a leash attached in her hand.

Perhaps the leash and collar wouldn't be a grand idea in the restaurant I intend on taking her too. However, we do have a set of vibrating panties perhaps I can find a remote control anal vibrator and just swap the remotes to randomly turn them on during dinner? That'd be interesting ~
Thank you for your suggestion~

 

[LonesomeSwitch]

I challenge you to put your laziness aside and find something yourself that would appeal to your partner.

Well its in part to my laziness. But also mostly because I'm looking for new stuff for us to do to break out of the comfort zone and try new things. I just wouldn't know what to look for really, so getting challenges from you lovely people out here would definitely help us find new stuff. However I have also been trying to come up with ideas in my spare time as well, using the only 2 bdsm books I have (Screw the Roses, and SM101) in my spare time. So many things I want to do and make, but so little space to do so. I've been fantasizing about making a St Andrews Cross for months. Just trying to make it collapsible, safe, and space/time/money efficient.

 

[LonesomeSwitch]

^^^Here's a great way to get denied service. I suggest NOT blatantly being assholes in an establishment expensive or not.

Indeed. I do try and stay away from being kicked out of restaurants. I know you are weary of giving people challenges and punishments, but I was wondering if you perhaps had a suggestion? I see you a lot in the comments (maybe it just so happens that I read the same threads you do) and you seem to have tried a little of everything. If you don't feel comfortable I understand. Just curious is all~

 

[S3xSlav3]

No clothing allowed when at home or in the car. Yes drive everywhere naked. No panties or underwear allowed while at the restaurant. While at the restaurant use the restroom to edge. Send pictures back to the other person still sitting at the table.

 

[MeekMe]

Indeed. I do try and stay away from being kicked out of restaurants. I know you are weary of giving people challenges and punishments, but I was wondering if you perhaps had a suggestion? I see you a lot in the comments (maybe it just so happens that I read the same threads you do) and you seem to have tried a little of everything. If you don't feel comfortable I understand. Just curious is all~

I typically don't like to give these kinds of suggestions because it is so general and the kinds of things I do are either not very "exciting" or they tend to be things I feel uncomfortable giving as a suggestion without knowing if the person has any prior knowledge of the suggestion. I can say that my activities are rather mundane in terms of "challenges" and that I appreciate a simple command more than anything particularly physical. I also avoid "punishment" as it's not particularly helpful for me in my life.

If I think of something I'll make another post.

No clothing allowed when at home or in the car. Yes drive everywhere naked. No panties or underwear allowed while at the restaurant. While at the restaurant use the restroom to edge. Send pictures back to the other person still sitting at the table.

Can you go one post without suggesting something that appeals strictly to your exhibitionist fantasy? At this point you talk about it so much that I highly doubt your wife has you doing these things. These are the posts of desperation.

How do you actually go anywhere and look even a little decent? What do you do when you get to your destination after a car ride naked? Do you just wear sweat pants all day? Are your only trips out to Wal-Mart in the middle of BFE?

 

[S3xSlav3]

Can you go one post without suggesting something that appeals strictly to your exhibitionist fantasy? At this point you talk about it so much that I highly doubt your wife has you doing these things. These are the posts of desperation.

I have not been on this site in weeks? So the two post in a row about the same idea cannot be similar in nature?

As for driving naked... its not hard to keep your pants in the back seat. I slip my shoes off, put my pants on and put my shoes back on. We have tinted windows so no one notices. Even if they did... who cares. I have seen people changing clothes in a car. Its not an uncommon thing.