What pissed you off today? Mark II

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A few things..( I have to vent so my apologies for this and the length

A bit discombobulated as I'm very tired and a bit bleary eyed now.. Here goes...

Finding out the reason I hadn't heard from one of my best friends is because she has been going through a hard time with her H. He Has been hitting her and gave her a bloody nose last week. They are splitting up for good and her state of mind is not as it was. So I'm helping her as much as I can and talking to her on and off.when she feels up to it.and I'm being as attentive as I can. As she is comfortable with.

This being that I haven't responded to many messages on IM's being that notifications are off,or my inbox here.And so just I check periodically. Which seems to have irritated others and I received a few nasty messages on KiK and here from the same person I've only started chatting with a few days ago? And vague posts on the board that may or may not have had to do with it.

Now. Let me say this. My life doesn't revolve around you or anyone but my kids and what I enjoy ! One is the boards and the friends I've made here.and talking to them when each party can. Because we all have life's to attend to. I do not chat constantly nor message others 2, 3,4 or more times a day on here and also IMs. Nor do I get upset if I don't hear from them for half a fucking day,or 2 or more. I know they also have things to do, families to deal with,places to go,and jobs.

So when I don't hear from them,it's all good cause I also have a fucking life. I'm not a 24/7chatter. Nor do we owe each other anything other than what we are willing to give and share with each other. Nor would I expect more than what they can give in friendship.

That being said, if you feel I'm ignorant and lack empathy because I'm fucking busy,overtired and trying to help my friend,whom I love dearly and post here and there on the board in between and have not answered your message.. Obviously you don't know me.(which you don't really)

EVEN AFTER Explaining it's just chatting,and saying It won't be an every day thing.You want to be irked at me and say things in a derogatory manner, in my messages. Acting like an adolescent for no reason.. So Be It. I hereby divorce myself from this possible friendship ! Leave me be please.

And Lastly, Dear messager,Please do not put me in the middle of your online squabbles by asking me to give someone a message from you. I'm sorry dude,I am 45 yrs old I'm not in middle school,I don't know either of you, and I'm not telling her anything.Please find a way to tell her yourself ! Thank you and Good Luck ! I wish you well.

~~End of vent~~
Sincerely,
L:kiss:
 
"incident" in town today: car drove into a pedestrian mall and killed at least three people, including a young child. The usual fuckwits are claiming it was a terror attack, even though police have already ruled that out (sounds as if he may have been trying to evade police after stabbing somebody elsewhere) and I'm not even going to talk about what one of our attention-seeking senators did. :-/

Glad I picked today to work from home, but it's pretty sad.
 
A friend of mine has recently discovered kink and bdsm and has been lucky enough to find a partner. I'm happy for him, I really am.

What I'm not so happy about, is that his primary kink is something that seriously icks me out and he just won't shut up about it. I have told him that I'm happy for him, but I don't want to hear about it, because it's just not my thing and hearing him talk about it makes me feel uncomfortable.

He does respect my request not to talk about it for a while after I remind him about it, but somehow he always circles back to the same topic. This morning we talked about different phone plans and whether A would be better than B, because I'm thinking about changing mine. And he managed to bring even that discussion back to his kink! So annoying!

I get it, it's exhilarating to find your place in the sexual universe, but come on! I wouldn't want to cut ties with him, because he's one of my oldest friends. But it's really getting tedious. :(
 
Being scalded, dirty, getting a few minor chemical burns, and watching a dyed in the wool clown get sworn into office. Where's the Drunk Thread again? :D
 
Hi Elsie! I don't use fetlife either ( we have an account but whether it got cleared out with the changes I haven't checked). Rather than ignore your question or try and answer it as a removed party can I suggest you read the fetlife thread in bdsm talk? It leads, at the end, to some points of political interest that in turn prompted a new thread on porn and politics started by meek me.

will do, thanks.
 
I don't want my dad (or you) to fuck me.

This has happened a few times now, but I guess it finally struck a nerve with me hard enough to where I kinda blew up on the last person that did it, but I am getting people talking to me as if I were the main character in my story, and it is pissing me the fuck off.

There are reasons for this, though; I decided to give my main character my voice, mannerisms, and likeness, so people see the similarities and assume that I want a 'dad' to fuck me. I have people treating me like I'm their daughter in conversations and it's creepy AF. I am not weak willed or frail, I am not a lost puppy, I know what the fuck I am doing, and I know what I want, I don't have an Electral complex. And I don't want that in any way, shape, or form.

So the last time this happened, the person referred to me as "Maddie," which is the name of my main character. And that kinda crossed the line, because the day before, he implied that he was 'Logan,' and that struck a nerve with me because no. No one is Logan. Logan is Logan, and Maddie is Maddie. I am not Maddie, he is not Logan, I am myself and that guy is himself.

This isn't the first time this has happened. I've been having those zero-post forum lurkers coming out of the proverbial shadows and being bold about asking whether I want them to be my daddy and if I like swallowing cum like how Maddie does in my story.

Then I get the whole emphasis that I am being worried for and it is only because they care about me. Like, you don't even fucking know me. I am way more rugged than they are giving me credit for. I don't want or need your concern or caring intentions that, If I naively embraced it, would probably end up with me waking up with a dick in my face or being kidnapped. And I am not in the mood for either, currently.

I don't give a fuck about your tender affection.
http://i.imgur.com/hcZbXHL.gif

If you're looking for a daughter to fuck, I am not her.
If you're looking for a love interest, I am not her.
If you're looking to jerk off, go ahead and do it to my story, but keep in mind that my story isn't a fucking personals ad in the dating section of your local craigslist. It isn't a cry for dick. It's a story, you dingus.
 
Watching someone that I care about burn themselves out for no good reason.
 
Happily, the tsunami of protests this weekend turned my pissedoffedness into energy and connectness. And what anger remained got largely refocused where it rightly belongs.
 
Just one of the many good reasons for the march. The unidentified woman taking the selfie is Senator Amy Klobuchar from MN.

And some people wonder why it took someone with Secretary Clinton's name recognition to get a woman on the ballot for the presidency. :rolleyes:
 
Hearing my entire high school soundtrack on an oldies station this afternoon!
And,
Having one of the over-educated software modelers ask who the singer was and if it was a new song.
 
If told someone feels trapped and lonely, best course of care isn't to only occasionally spot check them.
 
People who say "never again" for a Holocaust memorial while doing their damnedest to make sure it happens again.
 
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