The Straight Guys that Fantasize about Cock Club! Part 2
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When I was reading it I couldn't quite believe he wasn't describing me!
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I was thinking about it today. I don't really want to live out any of the fantasies i post about. If I had one wish i'd just wish for my wife to be willing to discuss and talk about the fantasies. Just getting into the mental aspect of it would be enough for me.
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Im the opposite, the wife and i have discussed it including vids, toys, strap - on.
She likes the fantasy, i want to try the real thing again.
She knows i suck cock back in HS with a friend.
Would like a FWB.
Im the opposite, the wife and i have discussed it including vids, toys, strap - on.
She likes the fantasy, i want to try the real thing again.
She knows i suck cock back in HS with a friend.
Would like a FWB.
You can absolutely tell the build up leading up to having a mouthful of spunk. His cock got harder, muscles kinda contracted and I could taste more precum.
He didn't last long when I started sucking him, maybe 2 minutes before he was shooting his load. Probably anticipation and excitement
I read it last night. Great story! Really made my juices boil. I hope she continues with more entries in this story chain. Lots of potential. Recommended highly!
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Definitely he has skillfully captured the urges, the mouth-watering anticipation, and the road to the self-realization. I haven't yet gotten to the point where someone here says he goes into territory that I admit I haven't had the least inclination toward.
But generally very hot, kudos!!
I've come to the realization that often fantasy is better than reality. I think sex for the most part is anticipation, fantasizing, playful interacting, dreaming, masturbating while fantasizing, and even planning on an encounter. When you think about it, the actual act of sex takes a very small percentage of time between acts of sex (less than 1%?). Far more time is spent THINKING about sex than the actual act, and thinking about it releases those wonderful endorphins as well.
And reality can be harsh. Personalities can be cruel or annoying, smells may be a turn off, performance issues in a casual relationship are very real, STD's are always a concern, and our fantasies are rarely played out the way we want them to.
Then the big question of what to do if you acted out your fantasy and it was an amazing experience that you wanted to replicate. A wonderful event in the past can be a sad thing. And if you value a good marriage, you would have to engage in risky behaviour to replicate that first experience. And if you eventually became obsessed, you'd end up not much different than someone who abuses substance, toward destroying relationships.
So I'm all for fantasy. It's wonderful to engage in. And it would be nice to be able to share them with my wife as well.
And reality can be harsh. Personalities can be cruel or annoying, smells may be a turn off, performance issues in a casual relationship are very real, STD's are always a concern, and our fantasies are rarely played out the way we want them to.
Then the big question of what to do if you acted out your fantasy and it was an amazing experience that you wanted to replicate. A wonderful event in the past can be a sad thing. And if you value a good marriage, you would have to engage in risky behaviour to replicate that first experience. And if you eventually became obsessed, you'd end up not much different than someone who abuses substance, toward destroying relationships.
So I'm all for fantasy. It's wonderful to engage in. And it would be nice to be able to share them with my wife as well.
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VERY well said!!
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This is Part 2 of "The Men who Crave Cock but aren't attracted to Men Club!"
BULLSHIT! If you fantasize about cock and you have a cock, you are bi or gay. Plain and simple!
BULLSHIT! If you fantasize about cock and you have a cock, you are bi or gay. Plain and simple!
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Funny that someone who posts, "Also, just because I LOVE anal play does NOT mean I am into guys" can be so closed-minded to this.
Interesting that you felt compelled to respond to a thread about guys sucking cock, to ostensibly declare your heterosexuality.
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Well I am bored and at work so not like I can play with myself.
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But if you can suggest that any male who desires to suck cock MUST be bi or gay, then certainly any male who would be compelled to read and respond to this thread must be at least bi-curious, wouldn't you say?
I am just curious as to your motivation to post what you did, because it really added nothing to the topic. Boredom isn't really a valid reason.
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Okay now you are just being silly. I will say this and leave it at that. If you are interested or attracted to someone of the same sex, you ARE bi, bi-curious, or gay. Take your pic but in the end it all comes down to the same thing.
As far as my signature, anal play does NOT correlate to homosexuality. The reason many mistakenly do is because of the lack of hole choices for M4M sex. Where with us heterosexual males, we have 3 hole choices. Many of the woman I been with still prefer taking it in the rear.
Now, if a person does solo or partner play with someone of the OPPOSITE sex then that isn't gay at all. So you can say I have an open mind, but honestly I accidentally found I enjoy it and been doing some self experimenting since. But no, I never had an interest including a guy; but I have an interest taking a strap-on from a girl. But the girls that would be willing are in my past not present.
So to conclude, it's not the act that dictates your sexual preference, it's the person you do it with. So if you are a guy and mess or even attracted you are not straight. Nothing wrong with that but at least call it for what it is.
Leaving this thread now. Have fun.
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I just have to laugh EVERY TIME this comes up when I hit NEW POSTS...
Why would straight guys, by definition, fantasize about cock?
No straight guy EVER fantasizes about cock.
At the very least he MUST be bi...
Why would straight guys, by definition, fantasize about cock?
No straight guy EVER fantasizes about cock.
At the very least he MUST be bi...
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I know I said I would leave this thread but had to see the replies after mine and all I can say to yours: right?
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A friend of mine was wanting to have anal with his wife. He would fuck her only, she did not want to do it. She felt it would mean her husband was gay. She felt because men have ass holes and that is the way gay guys have sex. Woman have Pussy that are to be fucked. I always thought it was ridiculous, my point is, some people think wanting to perform anal on woman makes you gay or bi.
To me it seems rather insane to make absolute judgments based on one factor. I use to call myself bi. I was talking to a guy, who was gay, after talking to him and learning I primarily only sucked dick, he said that I was not bi. He actually seem to be insulted that I would think, just sucking a dick made someone gay. I never used the term again.
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I did not realize this guy is into being pendtrated, now that really is kind of gay, even if a woman is doing it with a strap-on. It is a substitute for a cock and this is going inside your butt. Sucking cock is only touching your mouth to skin, not putting it in your ass. 
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For the record, I have never disagreed with you. In fact I actually agree with you and BattlingSoul that being straight is defined by only being interested in sexual acts with the opposite sex. By definition, a male wanting cock isn't quite "straight" in the textbook (and outdated) definition. But really there is no such thing as straight because it is completely up to the person doing the labeling. As a fellow strapon fan, you know that many would consider you gay or bi for that. So I would expect you to have more understanding than to come and start "correcting" people on what their fetish says about them.
That is my point. If men who identify as straight want to express their desire to suck cock, then let them. Why does anyone feel the need to chime in if it is supposedly of no interest to them?
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I'm going to (semi)respectfully suggest that we return this thread to its original intention; I've no need or desire to discuss whether it's gay or bi or not to want to suck cock. I just like getting turned on by it. Period. I have no issue with batting a subject back and forth, it's just that whenever anyone posts anything, I get a notification...
thanks
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Well said.
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You could also change your notification frequencies (as far as I've been able to tell, it involves unsubscribing, then resubscribing with different notification frequency)
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i don't get these people who go out of their way to comment on things they have no business commenting on - can't stop them on a public forum - but they are hella annoying
wish there was a way to make a private forum...i've done this on kik if anyone's interested in joining it (must use kik of course)
i'll say this to those 2
im a veteran of the swing scene and have probably been with more women than both combined (not bragging) but now in my mid 30s i'm also interested (but not yet acted upon) some experimentation with another mwm who is curious too ... 2 married guys who love and appreciate their wives but now and then have a few beers and maybe jo or do some mutual jo etc.
i'm not interested in him as a partner which is what a gay / bi man may want ... that's why the word straight is in the title (but i agree with the above - its an outdated definition)
wish there was a way to make a private forum...i've done this on kik if anyone's interested in joining it (must use kik of course)
i'll say this to those 2
im a veteran of the swing scene and have probably been with more women than both combined (not bragging) but now in my mid 30s i'm also interested (but not yet acted upon) some experimentation with another mwm who is curious too ... 2 married guys who love and appreciate their wives but now and then have a few beers and maybe jo or do some mutual jo etc.
i'm not interested in him as a partner which is what a gay / bi man may want ... that's why the word straight is in the title (but i agree with the above - its an outdated definition)
