Humiliation?

[eroticspank]

A friend I have been having a discussion about life. I doubt our simple thoughts will end up in a university library, but this one seems to relate to what you said;
Often we feel confined to feed only the life that faces outside to the world in which we find ourselves...but what to do with the other life facing inward? Is the one more real than the other, or is it simply that we feed one more often and it grows stronger? Perhaps the truth is that both lives are equally valid, and should be tended to with equal care? And just maybe, in some future day, the two are finally able to join into one and dwell both within and out. Perhaps the words; honest and whole can describe what I am thinking...or maybe just 'peace in heart and soul'?

Maybe it wouldn't be wrong to at least look inward to that future "some day" where the image of a "normal life" dwells, and then feed it a bite or two and let it out to play? Most of us have these two lives, I think. The task seems to be; getting them to be friends.

Well said once again...I feel like maybe this last paragraph the words could be put in a poem, causing the reader to be reminded in a way, of the all the important things you say.

ES

 

[yukonnights]

yukonnights
sterculius
eroticspank

you're all amazingly hot in what you write.

thanks for being so open!

Well said once again...I feel like maybe this last paragraph the words could be put in a poem, causing the reader to be reminded in a way, of the all the important things you say.

ES

I'm starting to feel my brain freeze up now, your kind words make a part of me glow...but then, there's the pressure...the cover-up...the what if, when they find out the truth

But for now, I'll continue the ruse and say; Thank you, to both.

 

[cookiecat]

I'm starting to feel my brain freeze up now, your kind words make a part of me glow...but then, there's the pressure...the cover-up...the what if, when they find out the truth

But for now, I'll continue the ruse and say; Thank you, to both.

Humiliating, isn't it?

 

[Hansdrexler]

Wife with a woman

I'd to be humiliated by a lesbian or bi woman who's seducing my straight wife. I wish a woman would befriend my wife with the intention of seducing her to being her lover. I'd love to be mocked and taunted by my wife's lover who makes me kiss her butt and feet as my wife watches. My wife's lover proves to my wife that she is the better lover.

 

[turnofthepaige]

I'm starting to feel my brain freeze up now, your kind words make a part of me glow...but then, there's the pressure...the cover-up...the what if, when they find out the truth

But for now, I'll continue the ruse and say; Thank you, to both.

I think you really touched on something there, the cover-up that most of us have that shield our inner selves from the outside world. Most of us have sides of us that we keep mostly to ourselves or share with just a few for many reasons, and part of the thrill to that inner self is in how taboo those thoughts are. Especially for us submissives, the thought of the humiliation in being outed can be so scary but also add to the thrill of those thoughts.

Now it would be nice if we could share our inner, and in many cases our true selves to others, but we know society doesn't work that way which is why that cover-up exists to begin with. It's just such a delicate balance that I try to seek between keeping both my inner and outer selves happy.

 

[turnofthepaige]

Yes there's different things that I like about this subject. Just haven't explored everything yet. It doesn't take much to make me blush at all. I love when certain things is being said to me and I have to repeat it back to them. They continue to tell me to say them over and over again. By the end of it I'm very very embarrassed and excited at the same time. Sure there's other forms of humiliation that I'll enjoy. Just haven't explored much of this area quite yet. I'm sure in time it will be though.

This is a powerful turn-on for me is having to repeat things that could be humiliating back to a dominant. In my experiences with submission and mind control, the more you repeat something the more powerful that thought is in your mind.

For example, if a Dominant has you repeat over and over that you are a sissy cocksucker the more that thought takes over your mind. It can have a powerful impact almost lIke being brainwashed which is such a hot button for me.

 

[yukonnights]

Humiliating, isn't it?

Smarty pants...trying to sexualize my humiliation at being a fraud

 

[NaughtyKitty06]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

I love being the one to humiliate - in the right situation.

 

[dead_niinja]

I love being the one to humiliate - in the right situation.

You mean you would humiliate a male?

 

[JayG88]

I'm naturally submissive in bed so I like being dominated. Humiliated 'yes' but only really through words / name calling. I'm not into the seriously nasty stuff. I think I'm pretty tame in my tastes compared to some!

 

[AmberSweet]

I'm into mild verbal humiliation

I'm very kinky and something about the dirty things a man can say turns me on greatly. Being owned by a man thats kinky, being told "i'm his personal slut" just makes me wet. Anyone wants to kik, pm me

 

[NastyDom40]

I find Humiliation in each its forms, quite intriguing. I would add that any thing that falls under the category of power exchange will be a huge thrill for me

 

[Hansdrexler]

I love being the one to humiliate - in the right situation.

Sexy. Want Sexy woman to humiliate me please.

 

[eroticspank]

I need degradation and humiliation with sex, it doesn't get me wet which is fine as I am into orgasm denial, but it just feels right to be crying as a guy or guy's fuck me. And I know why and that its messed up but in a weird way I enjoy it, I don't enjoy normal sex at all, I don't want to cum. I want the man to use me to cum.. I get off on misogyny, on feeling second class.

I might look into curing this if possible later on to have a normal life one day.

When we live alone and are by ourselves we only see the world in our own eyes. Some do this to avoid confrontation from others, like in a relationship. But there are times when our own eyes don't always see ourselves in a good light or we just don't see what others see.

There are times when your sexual partner shares with you his or her desire for you and your body, that you see yourself in a different light. That light can bring about confidence in your self and see things you have not seen before. Something you thought was ugly, may appear much more attractive when you see how it effects your partner's arousal...like a very hard dick.

Your normal life may be as simple as meeting someone like this above that helps you see yourself differently and accepts/enjoys your fetish for humiliation.

ES

 

[newfronts68]

I'm sure this is somewhat cliche, but I'm into small penis humiliation, from either men or women. And if I'm talking to a guy that's smaller than me, I'm always happy to dish it out.

 

[eroticspank]

I'm naturally submissive in bed so I like being dominated. Humiliated 'yes' but only really through words / name calling. I'm not into the seriously nasty stuff. I think I'm pretty tame in my tastes compared to some!

That is what I like about this thread. There is a wide range of interests all under the same umbrella of humiliation. My latest Humiliation fantasy involves being made to cum too soon by my mate, like before she does, and then humiliated for it. I find the whole scenario good fun and sometimes even hilarious. When we are making love if she plays with my nipples or reaches around and plays with my balls, I know she is trying to make me cum. It is something we both know that does the trick. So if I look at her when she is doing that and I can tell she is not close, I know what she is trying to do. I tell her to stop but she gets a mischievous look on her face and keeps doing it. It becomes a challenge or a competition then and many times I lose.

She plays the role perfectly, telling me not to cum while using her body to make me. She enjoys the power of her ability to get me to lose control. It is fun and at the end I get humiliated and she gets my full attention so she can have her orgasm.

ES

 

[staciliv]

I'm naturally submissive in bed so I like being dominated. Humiliated 'yes' but only really through words / name calling. I'm not into the seriously nasty stuff. I think I'm pretty tame in my tastes compared to some!

Nasty stuff? Personally I'd like to be the girl in your av...

 

[sterculius]

My earliest sexual activity was performing oral on my best friend Larry. What began as jerk off sessions eventually ended up with me becoming his personal cocksucker. The basis behind this evolution was the large disparity in the size of our cocks. His cock was huge while mine was,and still is quite small. It excited me to hear him making fun of my pathetic little cock whenever I gave him a blowjob. My wife enjoys teasing and ridiculing me because of my small penis and telling me about the much bigger cocks of her previous husband and former boyfriends. The extreme arousal I experience as a result of this humiliating treatment has become an indispensable part of our foreplay and assists me in achieving and maintaining a 3 1/2 inch erection.

 

[eroticspank]

Nasty stuff? Personally I'd like to be the girl in your av...

I would like to be the guy!

ES

 

[staciliv]

I would like to be the guy!

ES

Would dinner and a movie be too much to ask?

 

[eroticspank]

Would dinner and a movie be too much to ask?

It would be my pleasure!

ES

 

[backtolit]

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[Miasorrow]

Two lives

Often we feel confined to feed only the life that faces outside to the world in which we find ourselves...but what to do with the other life facing inward? Is the one more real than the other, or is it simply that we feed one more often and it grows stronger? Perhaps the truth is that both lives are equally valid, and should be tended to with equal care? And just maybe, in some future day, the two are finally able to join into one and dwell both within and out. Perhaps the words; honest and whole can describe what I am thinking...or maybe just 'peace in heart and soul'?

Maybe it wouldn't be wrong to at least look inward to that future "some day" where the image of a "normal life" dwells, and then feed it a bite or two and let it out to play? Most of us have these two lives, I think. The task seems to be; getting them to be friends.

 

[pensivepoet]

I think it's an art
It's hard to find someone who does it well
But when you do.....

 

[sterculius]

In the same way that the opposite of love isn't hate but indifference, maybe humiliation is preferable to being ignored. At least you are the center of attention while being derided and made fun of. Having a small penis gets me noticed and confers upon me a certain degree of distinction, albeit negative.