Wife's signals she want's sex

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How does your wife let you know she's horny and wants sex? we've been married 33 yrs, and she's initiated sex twice during that time. Once at a hotel sauna, the control was outside the door, when I came back in,she had pulled her top down, I couldn't get her back to the room fast enough. The second time involved a "spa experience" at the house,hot bath,aromatherapy, then bedroom. Most times I initiate, usually by starting a back rub, then gradually moving around to her breasts, not successful every time tho....
 
We' ve been married over 30 years, and I am almost always the one who mentions sex. Occasionally, she will ask, "Are we fooling around tonight?" Of course, my answer is "yes." Once in the past, she came into the den wearing a sexy black gown and without saying a word she knelt if front of me, took out my dick, and started giving me a blow job. Another time, she came in from drinking with her friends. I was already asleep because I had to get up early the next morning. She stripped and climbed under the sheets, totally nude, and straddled my body, asking, "You wanna fuck?" Ah, I miss the old times.
 
How does your wife let you know she's horny and wants sex? we've been married 33 yrs, and she's initiated sex twice during that time. Once at a hotel sauna, the control was outside the door, when I came back in,she had pulled her top down, I couldn't get her back to the room fast enough. The second time involved a "spa experience" at the house,hot bath,aromatherapy, then bedroom. Most times I initiate, usually by starting a back rub, then gradually moving around to her breasts, not successful every time tho....

I would try to strike up a conversation but it all seems pretty pointless...
 
I'm not trying to troll the thread or to be condescending, but why no mention of body language?
After all, 90% of communication is non-verbal
 
Only for deaf/blind people...:rolleyes:

lol…
But seriously. The OP comes across to me as being an IT guy . Unless he's just trolling the forum, of course. :)
Advice from a former nerd: read erotic stories, and you'll pick up a few things
 
lol…
But seriously. The OP comes across to me as being an IT guy . Unless he's just trolling the forum, of course. :)
Advice from a former nerd: read erotic stories, and you'll pick up a few things

But...2010...and that name is to die for. :)
 
I read carlsnake like he forgot the d on the end. Carls nake(d)
 
I am not anyone's wife, but the way I signal is to say I want you, I want sex, kissing them with a full body hug, rubbing them with my ass while they are standing behind me, me telling them exactly what I would like to do or have done to me, even hugging them from behind and saying "wanna come back to my place?"
I am pretty direct.
Back rubs are a decent way toward sex, because it slows me down enough to concentrate on sex, but any guy who goes directly from rubbing my back to handling my breasts is a complete turn off. Old fashioned making out tends to lead more to sex that going directly for my breasts.
Focusing immediately on genitalia seems to be more of a male turn on than female one.
With specific lovers, I have physical or verbal clues, that are kind of Pavlovian in nature. There are things I do during sex, maybe a voice, noise or an action, that becomes kind of a touch key. These are things I can do in public and no one else knows. They also have these things for me.
I also like to attack willing guys in elevators, or pull them into spaces to kiss, or grope a bit.
 
Back rubs are a decent way toward sex, because it slows me down enough to concentrate on sex, but any guy who goes directly from rubbing my back to handling my breasts is a complete turn off.

This is why my unique seduction method of rubbing her breasts first, then going to her back has been moderately successful. ;)

I also like to attack willing guys in elevators, or pull them into spaces to kiss, or grope a bit.

*Note to self: Remember to take Noor on a date to One World Trade Center when she visits here, whisk her in an elevator before everyone else can embark and push the top floor button first.*

:D
 
This is why my unique seduction method of rubbing her breasts first, then going to her back has been moderately successful. ;)



*Note to self: Remember to take Noor on a date to One World Trade Center when she visits here, whisk her in an elevator before everyone else can embark and push the top floor button first.*

:D

Careful Zumi ;)
 
I am not anyone's wife, but the way I signal is to say I want you, I want sex, kissing them with a full body hug, rubbing them with my ass while they are standing behind me, me telling them exactly what I would like to do or have done to me, even hugging them from behind and saying "wanna come back to my place?"
I am pretty direct.
Back rubs are a decent way toward sex, because it slows me down enough to concentrate on sex, but any guy who goes directly from rubbing my back to handling my breasts is a complete turn off. Old fashioned making out tends to lead more to sex that going directly for my breasts.
Focusing immediately on genitalia seems to be more of a male turn on than female one.
With specific lovers, I have physical or verbal clues, that are kind of Pavlovian in nature. There are things I do during sex, maybe a voice, noise or an action, that becomes kind of a touch key. These are things I can do in public and no one else knows. They also have these things for me.
I also like to attack willing guys in elevators, or pull them into spaces to kiss, or grope a bit.

How 'bout backrub straight to pussy-grope?

I'm asking for a friend.
 
Bullshit.

Guys, when you want to fuck you wife, tell her what you want her to do.

Waiting for signals? Retards.... just grab her pussy and tell her whats going to happen.
 
Dear me! Just because we initiate doesn't mean we don't welcome invitation ( from the right person) too. It's not an either/or situation Lance.

Women who initiate are a pain in the ass.

They're the same ones who want to pick the movie.

Notice how on Lit, the "couples" consist of women who post and their men aren't allowed to be here?
 
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