Cuckolding or open relationship?

DeeDeeCO

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Me and my sister were asked to speak at a married women's social meetup recently. The topic of the evening was Open Relationships. The women at the meetup were ages 25 to 60 or so. The big question on everyone's mind was, "How do you make it work?"

The first question I asked everyone was, "How many of you are 100% satisfied with the sex you're getting at home?" No one raised their hand.

The second question I asked was, "How many of you have thought about sex with another man, other than your husband?" Their hands raised slowly, but all hands raised.

The third question I asked was, "How many of you have husbands who like to look at porn?" Everyone looked around, and most all hands went up.

We explained that for a relationship to work, openly, the relationship has to have trust already in it. You have to be solid in your relationship, and you both have to be mature for this to work.

I explained that, for women, having an open relationship helps because she has the freedom and ability to enjoy sex with other men. This helps on so many levels. It helps a wife retain her self esteem, her feeling of self worth, the feeling that she is still attractive and desirable.

My sister told everyone that she lives with me and my husband. She told them that my husband being able to see her and I both with other men has not only helped our relationship, but it has helped their relationship as well.

One woman asked if what we had was a cuckold type of relationship. I told her that cuckold relationships take on many forms. I admitted that ours could be considered a cuckold relationship, but I still enjoy sex with my husband, especially after I have been with other men.

Another woman asked my sister if she ever had sex with my husband. She admitted that she had and does, at times. Another woman added that my husband must be an amazing man to be able to satisfy both of us. My sister and I smiled at each other.

We both explained that my husband is not well sized, in any way. And that sexually, my husband was more of a voyeur. We explained that my husband prefers to watch, yet, he can be very sensual.

Another woman asked me how I could let my own sister have sex with my husband. I explained to her that I love my sister and my husband. And I trust them both. My sister added that sometimes it just feels right.

During a break, a woman approached me and told me that her husband had asked her to have sex with a friend of theirs. She admitted that she had thought about it many times. She was afraid that if she did that her husband would see her differently. And I told her she was right.

I told this woman that a husband will always see his wife as more attractive when she has sex with other men. It just works out that way. I also told her that the friendship between her husband and this friend would strengthen as well.

The meetup turned into a Q&A about the men me and my sister have been with, how many times, how big they were, etc. It seemed to me the reason we were asked to speak at this meetup was because these women had all had thoughts of opening their relationships to include other men.

I think this is becoming more and more popular. And I hope I'm right.
 
Me and my sister were asked to speak at a married women's social meetup recently. The topic of the evening was Open Relationships. The women at the meetup were ages 25 to 60 or so. The big question on everyone's mind was, "How do you make it work?"

The first question I asked everyone was, "How many of you are 100% satisfied with the sex you're getting at home?" No one raised their hand.

The second question I asked was, "How many of you have thought about sex with another man, other than your husband?" Their hands raised slowly, but all hands raised.

The third question I asked was, "How many of you have husbands who like to look at porn?" Everyone looked around, and most all hands went up.

We explained that for a relationship to work, openly, the relationship has to have trust already in it. You have to be solid in your relationship, and you both have to be mature for this to work.

I explained that, for women, having an open relationship helps because she has the freedom and ability to enjoy sex with other men. This helps on so many levels. It helps a wife retain her self esteem, her feeling of self worth, the feeling that she is still attractive and desirable.

My sister told everyone that she lives with me and my husband. She told them that my husband being able to see her and I both with other men has not only helped our relationship, but it has helped their relationship as well.

One woman asked if what we had was a cuckold type of relationship. I told her that cuckold relationships take on many forms. I admitted that ours could be considered a cuckold relationship, but I still enjoy sex with my husband, especially after I have been with other men.

Another woman asked my sister if she ever had sex with my husband. She admitted that she had and does, at times. Another woman added that my husband must be an amazing man to be able to satisfy both of us. My sister and I smiled at each other.

We both explained that my husband is not well sized, in any way. And that sexually, my husband was more of a voyeur. We explained that my husband prefers to watch, yet, he can be very sensual.

Another woman asked me how I could let my own sister have sex with my husband. I explained to her that I love my sister and my husband. And I trust them both. My sister added that sometimes it just feels right.

During a break, a woman approached me and told me that her husband had asked her to have sex with a friend of theirs. She admitted that she had thought about it many times. She was afraid that if she did that her husband would see her differently. And I told her she was right.

I told this woman that a husband will always see his wife as more attractive when she has sex with other men. It just works out that way. I also told her that the friendship between her husband and this friend would strengthen as well.

The meetup turned into a Q&A about the men me and my sister have been with, how many times, how big they were, etc. It seemed to me the reason we were asked to speak at this meetup was because these women had all had thoughts of opening their relationships to include other men.

I think this is becoming more and more popular. And I hope I'm right.

You're banging your sister, aren't you? :)
 
This always happens around the holidays. Families get together. Alcohol flows and before you know it, the clothes come off and we get to hear about it. :)

Yes. I can't tell you how many holiday seasons I found myself banging my sister while my wife was in a hotel banging another stranger.
Damn Christmas spirit!!!
 
Everyone talks shit but what they do is pretty consistent with tradition. Tradition works, and most of us grow wiser with time.

Most become broken down ugly mother fuckers in time. Time steals your hair and teeth.

I suspect much of the cheating is do-over after the wife or husband is caught playing stupid shit, and they need someone who doesn't know what they did. The new maqn doesn't know how fuggin dum you are.
 
Me and my sister were asked to speak at a married women's social meetup recently. The topic of the evening was Open Relationships. The women at the meetup were ages 25 to 60 or so. The big question on everyone's mind was, "How do you make it work?"

The first question I asked everyone was, "How many of you are 100% satisfied with the sex you're getting at home?" No one raised their hand.

The second question I asked was, "How many of you have thought about sex with another man, other than your husband?" Their hands raised slowly, but all hands raised.

The third question I asked was, "How many of you have husbands who like to look at porn?" Everyone looked around, and most all hands went up.

We explained that for a relationship to work, openly, the relationship has to have trust already in it. You have to be solid in your relationship, and you both have to be mature for this to work.

I explained that, for women, having an open relationship helps because she has the freedom and ability to enjoy sex with other men. This helps on so many levels. It helps a wife retain her self esteem, her feeling of self worth, the feeling that she is still attractive and desirable.

My sister told everyone that she lives with me and my husband. She told them that my husband being able to see her and I both with other men has not only helped our relationship, but it has helped their relationship as well.

One woman asked if what we had was a cuckold type of relationship. I told her that cuckold relationships take on many forms. I admitted that ours could be considered a cuckold relationship, but I still enjoy sex with my husband, especially after I have been with other men.

Another woman asked my sister if she ever had sex with my husband. She admitted that she had and does, at times. Another woman added that my husband must be an amazing man to be able to satisfy both of us. My sister and I smiled at each other.

We both explained that my husband is not well sized, in any way. And that sexually, my husband was more of a voyeur. We explained that my husband prefers to watch, yet, he can be very sensual.

Another woman asked me how I could let my own sister have sex with my husband. I explained to her that I love my sister and my husband. And I trust them both. My sister added that sometimes it just feels right.

During a break, a woman approached me and told me that her husband had asked her to have sex with a friend of theirs. She admitted that she had thought about it many times. She was afraid that if she did that her husband would see her differently. And I told her she was right.

I told this woman that a husband will always see his wife as more attractive when she has sex with other men. It just works out that way. I also told her that the friendship between her husband and this friend would strengthen as well.

The meetup turned into a Q&A about the men me and my sister have been with, how many times, how big they were, etc. It seemed to me the reason we were asked to speak at this meetup was because these women had all had thoughts of opening their relationships to include other men.

I think this is becoming more and more popular. And I hope I'm right.

I didn't wade all the way through this, but I never caught any mention of credentials and qualifications. It sort of sounds like you and your sister were picked at random to go talk to a bunch of women about their sex lives.
Reminds me of the time in college when all the cheerleaders approached me and, well, I don't want to bore you with the details.
 
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A cuckold is a man whose wife cheats without his knowledge or permission. He is held in contempt by those who know of the infidelity because he can't control or satisfy his wife. A man who knows his wife fucks around but doesn't object, and who may be present but not active in her other-sex, is a wittol or willing wimp. In an open relationship, partners agree that they may fuck others, maybe within certain limits; they set their rules. See What Is Cheating? for more.
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Sorry, I dislike seeing wittols claiming the victim's role by calling themselves cuckolds. IMHO the "cuckold lifestyle" is a form of masochism and should be acknowledged as such.

Personal note: Our nephew just filed for divorce from his wife of three years because she fucked around before and after their wedding. He is NOT willing to be either cuckold or wittol. He gets to support their two kids for the next couple of decades anyway. He said, "I"d rather be broke and happy." Most husbands will NOT be happy with cheating wives. My father certainly wans't. Is the desire for strange sex worth destroying a family?
 
DeeDeeCO I wouldn't consider your situation to be a cuckold. Sounds like an open relationship to me. :)
 
I didn't wade all the way through this, but I never caught any mention of credentials and qualifications. It sort of sounds like you and your sister were picked at random to go talk to a bunch of women about their sex lives.
Reminds me of the time in college when all the cheerleaders approached me and, well, I don't want to bore you with the details.

We go to different meetups. Someone from one of the other meetups asked us to speak to their meetup group.

Why I don't post often is because if a person writes fiction, people like reading it. When a person writes about real life happenings, no one believes them, mostly because neither they, nor anyone they know, has ever experienced such a thing.

People are a trip. And I'm just glad the people in my life aren't.
 
DeeDeeCO I wouldn't consider your situation to be a cuckold. Sounds like an open relationship to me. :)

Neither me or my husband consider our relationship a cuckold relationship. We have an open relationship.
 
I also dislike the association by op of open relationships as necessarily cuckolding. Or that all women must think of sex outside marriages for be unsatisfied or even all poly people must. I am very satisfied in my marital sex and relationship.

I don't think all women want sex outside of their marriage. But many do.

And no, just because a man likes seeing his wife have sex with other men, it doesn't mean he's a cuckold. He's more a voyeur.

I know there are many women that are very satisfied with the sex they get or have with their husband. And I think that's great. But many women like something on the side, too.

Most all of our friends are swingers or poly. I am not big on labels, but people are who they are.
 
Why I don't post often is because if a person writes fiction, people like reading it. When a person writes about real life happenings, no one believes them, mostly because neither they, nor anyone they know, has ever experienced such a thing.

People are a trip. And I'm just glad the people in my life aren't.

Yeah it's this place, peeps here aren't necessarily adventurous, they just pretend that they are (mostly), there's few real people here who care about those outside their "click" it's good to keep a healthy 20/80 mix of the "trippers" & the real. That 20% keeps you grounded & reminds you that it's the internet & none of this is really real.
 
It was never my intention to have an intimate relationship outside my primary relationship until I met someone who made me rethink the way I saw things. It was never about being unhappy or dissatisfied with my primary partner, or to just have sex outside of the relationship. It was about a specific person that I was drawn to. Nothing has occurred without the knowledge and consent of my partner, with whom I have a very good relationship. He is not part of my secondary relationship at all. There is no voyeurism or cuckolding, and we do not consider ourselves as being in an open relationship.
 
Neither me or my husband consider our relationship a cuckold relationship. We have an open relationship.

The title of the thread seemed to be a question so I responded. My comment was not a criticism. :)
 
I want a woman to take my wife as her lover and cuckold me. I'd love to cuckold other men.
 
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