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[The13Panther]

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[The13Panther]

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[NOIRTRASH]

I think youre psychotic.

 

[The13Panther]

You don't even know

 

[NOIRTRASH]

You don't even know

I'm a retired psychologist, and youre a sick puppy.

 

[The13Panther]

Prefer cats.

 

[The13Panther]

Any intelligible people?

 

[Bramblethorn]

Back then, I was like, way more sub, and didn't assert myself and I've learned more about myself since, and if I had another opportunity, I'd be more dominant towards them like, I'd tell them exactly what I wanted to do. They probably prefer being talked to that way from what I picked up.
If they read this, they'd probably really hate me for still wondering about this stuff as they made it clear there's no interest.
But, I can't stop wondering, if I was more assertive and felt like I do now, back then, would it have happened differently? Is that what stopped it? Or was it really the reasons they said?

There's no way to know. Sometimes people don't feel comfortable giving their real reasons for rejection - all sorts of different reasons why that can happen, some good, some bad. I know how hard it is to shake the "what if I could go back and do it differently..." but you're going to have to. Take your friend at their word and look for partners elsewhere.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Its impossible to make sense of the OPs opening salvo. Classic thought disorder.

 

[SSue84]

Its impossible to make sense of the OPs opening salvo. Classic thought disorder.

At least they're not prowling sex sites to try and sound smart because no one else will listen.

 

[Nezhul]

Its impossible to make sense of the OPs opening salvo. Classic thought disorder.

I always thought that's what YOU have. What with all the random threads that lead nowhere and look like you just post whatever was on your mind at the moment.