The Dangers of Eye Contact

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I am romantically falling for the new kid "Dickie". This was not my intention in the slightest.

I wondered why this is happening. The last new kid and I were involved for five years. I never developed feelings as is happening now.

I think I have figured out why: eye contact. Too much eye contact during sex. Too many hours of lying in bed together, faces inches apart, staring into each other's eyes while discussing personal dreams, hopes, and fears. That was my doing.

So now what? I look away? I have no idea.
 
I am romantically falling for the new kid "Dickie". This was not my intention in the slightest.

I wondered why this is happening. The last new kid and I were involved for five years. I never developed feelings as is happening now.

I think I have figured out why: eye contact. Too much eye contact during sex. Too many hours of lying in bed together, faces inches apart, staring into each other's eyes while discussing personal dreams, hopes, and fears. That was my doing.

So now what? I look away? I have no idea.

Connected, engaged, present-in-the-moment sex is pretty powerful stuff to go fucking around with.

On the other hand there is a very good reason that risk and reward are so emeshed.

I say just go with It. What's the absolute worst that can happen? Either you end up in some heart-wrenching, but ultimately surviable break-up and are rid of him or you accidently live happily ever after, he survives you and has to grieve for you while you bask in validation from Valhalla.

I don't see a down-side.
 
Spend more time on The Tube in London. Eye contact is punishable with up to ten years in prison.
 
Spend more time on The Tube in London. Eye contact is punishable with up to ten years in prison.

I'm terrified of making eye contact on there. Always think it will end up in a knife being whipped out.
 
I am romantically falling for the new kid "Dickie". This was not my intention in the slightest.

I wondered why this is happening. The last new kid and I were involved for five years. I never developed feelings as is happening now.

I think I have figured out why: eye contact. Too much eye contact during sex. Too many hours of lying in bed together, faces inches apart, staring into each other's eyes while discussing personal dreams, hopes, and fears. That was my doing.

So now what? I look away? I have no idea.

That's a large part of falling in love and staying there. Not surprised this is a new sensation for you.
 
I'm terrified of making eye contact on there. Always think it will end up in a knife being whipped out.

I was back in Manc for the first time in maybe ten years a few months ago, seeing The Stone Roses. Weirdly I felt more uncomfortable in my home town than I ever do in London. I'm in scouseland in a couple of weeks, we'll see how that goes.
 
Is it a problem that you're falling for him romantically? If not, then I say enjoy yourself and him.
 
Its a bad idea because he is far too young, has way too much life ahead of him to get into anything serious with me.

But's damn it feels pretty fucking good, as Conager laid out quite well.
 
I am romantically falling for the new kid "Dickie". This was not my intention in the slightest.

I wondered why this is happening. The last new kid and I were involved for five years. I never developed feelings as is happening now.

I think I have figured out why: eye contact. Too much eye contact during sex. Too many hours of lying in bed together, faces inches apart, staring into each other's eyes while discussing personal dreams, hopes, and fears. That was my doing.

So now what? I look away? I have no idea.

Bang him and get it over with... nothing ventured nothing gained I say
 
How young is too young? What is your age difference?
 
I was back in Manc for the first time in maybe ten years a few months ago, seeing The Stone Roses. Weirdly I felt more uncomfortable in my home town than I ever do in London. I'm in scouseland in a couple of weeks, we'll see how that goes.

I doubt Liverpool with feel much different than Manchester. You are a capitol city guy now, it's hard to go back.
 
You are making me wistfull.

I had such a thing twice upon a time with the same girl, counting the rekindling. Tellingly, at the end eye contact was not only missing, but specifically refused.

Since then, I have found myself involved in hot-as-hell (and not) sexual acrobatics with eager, kinky partners, but that intimacy you hint at was not there. Specifically, eye-contact, as I reflect back was missing. Sometimes by circumstance, sometimes by design. The pattern suggests I am seeking the unlikely or unavailable.

I've become nearly an aesthetic as of late, and I hardly notice the difference.
 
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