Huge Thank You

[NewSubQuestions]

Hey guys I hope it's ok to do this. I don't really have a question right now...actually to be honest what I should say is that I don't have any questions that I'm brave enough to post yet. What I do want to say however is simply Thank You! Thank you for being real people with real question and Thank you for being supportive of one another!!! I have had a really difficult day and when that happens to me I start to question myself, blame myself, and think about things I can't change. I can't eat or sleep and I start to feel bad about the person I am. So here I am reading your post like I do every night before I go to sleep (it's a habit now) and as I'm reading your post I start to feel more human. I start to feel that the possibility of finding what I want are still real. I start to feel like a normal person who yep wants to be controlled in all the right ways yet can still be a good mom! Your stories and kink and questions keep me going and keep me believing! Your post help me believe in myself again and sometimes that's a hard thing to do! Your normal people with normal relationships (with kink) and I don't feel so much like a crazy person anymore when I see our similarities. This journey is just starting for me and I have yet to find what I need from it but I'm so glad to have someplace I can come and be supported and uplifted. I'm posting this with risk of sounding completely corny but I don't care and that is yet another growing sign. I humbly hope to get to know you guys better

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

I know what you mean I have been thankful for many people here over the years, both by example and through interactions. In regards to being brave enough to post questions I'll just say this. We don't know you in real life (at least, not that I know of ) and we aren't going to show up at your work with awkward comments or come by your house to convert you to some other way of thinking. So, go ahead and ask away! Start new threads, post in existing ones, say whatever you please. That's what this place is here for, after all.

 

[NewSubQuestions]

see Love you guys No questions at the moment. I'm sure I'll warm up to the idea eventually. It's more complicated then I can explain right now but to be vague I suppose what is hurting me today is my total consumption with BDSM. I feel I like I have wanted it so badly for so long that the mere glimps of it sends me into uncontrollable frenzies. Perhaps "sub frenzy". I think I seen on here someplace. That is probably way more wordy then it needs to be and won't make any sense to any other human being lol. I have had a small taste of this world. And how I thought I was suppose to act or my view of this world have changed. I now realize most of you are just normal people with mostly normal relationships who like BDSM. That just like any other world even Doms are not perfect. That there are no "real" sub ways. It's just a matter of finding something that will work me.

 

[Erik_A]

see Love you guys No questions at the moment. I'm sure I'll warm up to the idea eventually. It's more complicated then I can explain right now but to be vague I suppose what is hurting me today is my total consumption with BDSM. I feel I like I have wanted it so badly for so long that the mere glimps of it sends me into uncontrollable frenzies. Perhaps "sub frenzy". I think I seen on here someplace. That is probably way more wordy then it needs to be and won't make any sense to any other human being lol. I have had a small taste of this world. And how I thought I was suppose to act or my view of this world have changed. I now realize most of you are just normal people with mostly normal relationships who like BDSM. That just like any other world even Doms are not perfect. That there are no "real" sub ways. It's just a matter of finding something that will work me.

Absolutely! Just one small step at a time...like riding a bicycle!
Happy with any support that will help you past your training wheels!

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Erik_A]

Thank YOU for joining us.

Looking SO forward to hearing about your journey!

 

[SpunThings]

see Love you guys No questions at the moment. I'm sure I'll warm up to the idea eventually. It's more complicated then I can explain right now but to be vague I suppose what is hurting me today is my total consumption with BDSM. I feel I like I have wanted it so badly for so long that the mere glimps of it sends me into uncontrollable frenzies. Perhaps "sub frenzy". I think I seen on here someplace. That is probably way more wordy then it needs to be and won't make any sense to any other human being lol. I have had a small taste of this world. And how I thought I was suppose to act or my view of this world have changed. I now realize most of you are just normal people with mostly normal relationships who like BDSM. That just like any other world even Doms are not perfect. That there are no "real" sub ways. It's just a matter of finding something that will work me.

Rock on. I admire your self awareness and willingness to learn. Don't worry about being wordy here, it's a common occurrence.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[Collar_N_Cuffs]

Today I drove to my nearest market town. It was a cold drive in this horrid grey weather. A friend and I were texting so I had to keep pulling over because I didn't want the conversation to stop and I do not drive and use my phone.

It's a pretty boring journey

Giggling again!

 

[Runnerwrites]

Hey guys I hope it's ok to do this. I don't really have a question right now...actually to be honest what I should say is that I don't have any questions that I'm brave enough to post yet. What I do want to say however is simply Thank You! Thank you for being real people with real question and Thank you for being supportive of one another!!! I have had a really difficult day and when that happens to me I start to question myself, blame myself, and think about things I can't change. I can't eat or sleep and I start to feel bad about the person I am. So here I am reading your post like I do every night before I go to sleep (it's a habit now) and as I'm reading your post I start to feel more human. I start to feel that the possibility of finding what I want are still real. I start to feel like a normal person who yep wants to be controlled in all the right ways yet can still be a good mom! Your stories and kink and questions keep me going and keep me believing! Your post help me believe in myself again and sometimes that's a hard thing to do! Your normal people with normal relationships (with kink) and I don't feel so much like a crazy person anymore when I see our similarities. This journey is just starting for me and I have yet to find what I need from it but I'm so glad to have someplace I can come and be supported and uplifted. I'm posting this with risk of sounding completely corny but I don't care and that is yet another growing sign. I humbly hope to get to know you guys better

I'm kind of new to BDSM too and appreciate your honesty and enthusiasm. It is exciting to discover the passions we never knew we had. I'm learning what I might want and need as a Dom, what is OK, etc. For example, I am a kind and caring person at heart, so if/when I engage as a Dom, it is usually for the purpose of pleasing my sub. Although I enjoy the role for its own pleasures also. I don't know if that makes me weird, or just makes me me...

Anyway, thanks for sharing. Enjoy the journey!

 

[NewSubQuestions]

Sending more love for you guys ️️️

 

[Gwanji16]

So glad you are here and looking forward to following your adventures and sharing ours. Never, ever doubt yourself and your abilities, especially as a mom. Don't let the haters get to you. We think you are great!

 

[S3xSlav3]

Hope you get to the point where you can ask your questions. I sometimes feel alone, nuts and like something is wrong with me. My Master tells me I'm perfectly normal. Thats not always enough. Forums like this can really help make a person feel more common and more typical and less of an outcast.