When a white man, Sr71plt calls a black woman a "black bitch" is it racist?

[about_average]

Half of the posts on this thread are on ignore.

I don't recall the specifics on why, ....

Because I called you on it in one of your other "I'm a victim" threads.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I dont remember the bnb scandal other than she went after Taltos....But I never even heard much about that.


I think that was all handled off the board for the most part.

The confession, when she got caught trolling her own friends (says it was a shared troll job, who knows):

Yep. Sean's right. A few years ago, I was chatting in IM with another Litster (who shall remain nameless) and we thought it would be funny to create a troll to fuck with some people. It was a nasty little thing, had stuff to say to many different people...including me. I used it, and two other people used it, as well.

Someone I later became friends with suspected the truth and asked me about it, and I denied it because I didn't want to lose her. Denied it right up to the moment when she was at my house and was logging on to Lit to check her own account, and the autofill plugged in the name of the very troll about which she'd questioned me. I was caught red-handed...so, in an attempt to salvage something with her, I gave her the password and allowed her to go in and change it so that no one would have access to it again. My behavior cost me a good friend. It sounds cheesy to say I learned my lesson, but that's exactly what happened.

The last post was made almost two years ago, and the last few posts weren't even mine. End of story.

So yeah...ask me about my alts and trolls.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

Not that I actually called you one. But for the sake of the argument...

If the shoe fits. But bear in mind that it's a word with pretty contextual connotations.

Don't dance. Are you saying that "black bitch" is an appropriate phrase for a white man such as yourself to use or not? A simple yes or no.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

I remember the BNB scandal. It put an end to several friendships and multiple relationships. I use multiple, kindly.
Eventually, one usually fucks up the alt game. Even the best of the best.

People do it all the time, use alts to go after their own friends. I know when it is being done to me hence the heavy number of ignored posts on this thread.

Everyone fucks it up eventually.

Better to just say what you have to say under your own handle.

Even when that makes me a "black bitch" to white men who think I keep stepping out of my lane. There is a roll call of such men right on this thread.

 

[toubab]

I was just trying to think of a scenario where it would be appropriate for a white man to call a black woman a black bitch. Nothing came to mind.

 

[zipman]

It's a racist comment.

It could just have easily been stated as that "hard bitch persona" without losing any of its meaning.

When your justification is a stereotype, you're generally in trouble.

 

[Conager]

It's a racist comment.

It could just have easily been stated as that "hard bitch persona" without losing any of its meaning.

When your justification is a stereotype, you're generally in trouble.

So my friend Jamal from Cleveland tells me.

 

[RoryN]

The person she's referring to isn't even American nor was his comment worthy of a Funk rant.

When Funk goes after someone with a racist comment that I either see or have pointed out to me, I'll call her out on it. But what you quoted seems like pretty small potatoes in comparison.

 

[Hashfag45]

Don't dance. Are you saying that "black bitch" is an appropriate phrase for a white man such as yourself to use or not? A simple yes or no.

If you're black and you're a bitch, then yes. Just like how you say white progressives. Same shit.

 

[LadyFunkenstein]

When Funk goes after someone with a racist comment that I either see or have pointed out to me, I'll call her out on it. But what you quoted seems like pretty small potatoes in comparison.

He is on ignore but it's a pretty good guess there was no racial slur in whatever he quoted.

 

[Hashfag45]

What the fuck are you talking about you brain dead fuck?


Please change your name to Hypocrite.

We have been through this several times, I do not nor have I ever encouraged personal attacks on this site. You can't even find ONE instance of me doing so because it doesn't exist. What you can find is me admonishing my own friends for some of their behavior. Even though I'm not anyone's mom here, or their morality keeper I do feel comfortable enough telling a few that things have gotten out of line.

You on the other hand want to tout the "smarts" of your blatantly racist buddies but you want me to attack a poster that I'm 99% sure is Nipples McGee when I couldn't fucking stand him in his original, or sort of original screen name. We are not friends, whoever is behind those alts doesn't seem to be a friend to anyone.

You view this site and the people on it with some oddly colored glasses and that's your right to.

I might not be non-biased, as if anyone exists on this site for more than a day who isn't biased, but I'm not stupid nor am I racist or xenophobic. You know nothing about me, clearly, to even try to paint me with that brush.

If you stop speaking to it like anything it says deserves a serious response it may die.

 

[toubab]

If you're black and you're a bitch, then yes. Just like how you say white progressives. Same shit.

No way. What is the point of calling a woman a black bitch? She knows she's black, and you know she's black. She may not know she's a bitch, which is presumably why you're informing her of that fact, at least as you see it. Throwing in her race is totally unnecessary, and wrong, in my view.

 

[Lancecastor]

What exactly is the "hard black bitch persona" and how do I embody it?

I've always been more interested in embodying your soft black bits.

 

[hashtag45]

No way. What is the point of calling a woman a black bitch? She knows she's black, and you know she's black. She may not know she's a bitch, which is presumably why you're informing her of that fact, at least as you see it. Throwing in her race is totally unnecessary, and wrong, in my view.

I'm obviously biased because I'm a sucker for intelligent and educated posters.

But all those who keep having a go at LadyF for being 'a bitch' forget one thing:
This website -unlike RL, where gender equality is usually the norm- is a male driven and a highly misogynistic one. Not to mention the subtle, covert racism. Some people have to adapt and adopt certain personnas in order to survive.

 

[BotanyBoy]

This website -unlike RL, where gender equality is usually the norm- is a male driven and a highly misogynistic one.

What kinda crack are you on today?

 

[hashtag45]

What kinda crack are you on today?

I'm not disputing the fact that one sees the reverse too - the entitled mean girls who think that they're special and treat GB men like crap.
Two offsprings of the same phenomenon.

Of course, I'm not referring to you and the majority of other political posters. Youall ( myself too) are 'asexual' as you often like to say, and gender has no bearing in our interactions.

 

[Hashfag45]

What kinda crack are you on today?

3rd world paki crack.

 

[Disgustipated]

He is on ignore but it's a pretty good guess there was no racial slur in whatever he quoted.

It was a different kind of stereotype, no biggie, right? Blanket statements are fun!

 

[CyranoJ]

What exactly is the "hard black bitch persona" and how do I embody it?

I personally don't think you embody a "hard black bitch" anything. I think you have some crazy and disturbing views, mind you -- and I wouldn't be entirely surprised to find that in the broader argument you were having, Pilot was right and you were wrong -- but I wouldn't bring your ethnicity or gender into it. It was indeed lame and kinda casually racist for Pilot to do so.

That said, I would hardly call him a "notable" racist by Lit standards. Not even close.

 

[Hashfag45]

I personally don't think you embody a "hard black bitch" anything. I think you have some crazy and disturbing views, mind you -- and I wouldn't be entirely surprised to find that in the broader argument you were having, Pilot was right and you were wrong -- but I wouldn't bring your ethnicity or gender into it. It was indeed lame and kinda casually racist for Pilot to do so.

That said, I would hardly call him a "notable" racist by Lit standards. Not even close.

But that doesn't play into her oppressed, victim's mentality.

 

[hashtag45]

But that doesn't play into her oppressed, victim's mentality.

Give it a rest, RacistDownSouth.
Alts or no alts, you're a vile, petty disgusting piece of shit, and the realisation of who you really are is starting to sink in for most posters.

 

[Hashfag45]

Speaking of poor, little (read fat) victims...

 

[Liar]

Don't dance. Are you saying that "black bitch" is an appropriate phrase for a white man such as yourself to use or not? A simple yes or no.

"Black bitch" is an inappropriate thing for a man such as myself - or most people - to call someone.

On the other hand, I just used the phrase "black bitch" in the sentence above in a totally appropriate manner.

And there I did it again.

There is no such thing as an inappropriate phrase. Only inappropriate applications.

 

[Liar]

No way. What is the point of calling a woman a black bitch? She knows she's black, and you know she's black. She may not know she's a bitch, which is presumably why you're informing her of that fact, at least as you see it. Throwing in her race is totally unnecessary, and wrong, in my view.

It's certainly distracting from the point, if nothing else.

 

[smoothg103rd]

It wasn't racist. Funk is black and she can sometimes be a bitch. Since when is telling the truth racist? If I call Toubab and Query my white friends am I racist?