Finding people for kinky scenarios

[LostBabygirl3489]

Hello everyone. So I know I will probably get told to try FetLife to meet possible people for my kinky fantasies/desires, but I have tried on there in the past and I get an overwhelming amount of people that give off an abusive/mean aura. It doesn't help that I get messages from women all the time warning me to be careful and look out for so and so on there. That's a big reason why I haven't tried any of my fantasies. I'm just hesitant and very cautious. So I guess my question is where else should I look? I think I will try going for an MFM first since I really want to try that out. Lately I really want five guys to come on me but I think that will have to wait.

 

[cumon69]

Hello everyone. So I know I will probably get told to try FetLife to meet possible people for my kinky fantasies/desires, but I have tried on there in the past and I get an overwhelming amount of people that give off an abusive/mean aura. It doesn't help that I get messages from women all the time warning me to be careful and look out for so and so on there. That's a big reason why I haven't tried any of my fantasies. I'm just hesitant and very cautious. So I guess my question is where else should I look? I think I will try going for an MFM first since I really want to try that out. Lately I really want five guys to come on me but I think that will have to wait.

have you done any group or 3 ways

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

have you done any group or 3 ways

I've done two FMFs, they weren't very good though. One was with my ex-gf and the other one was with a couple.

 

[cumon69]

I've done two FMFs, they weren't very good though. One was with my ex-gf and the other one was with a couple.

what made them not good ?

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

what made them not good ?

Honestly one involved drugs so that's never good and the other one we just didn't click.

 

[KayceeCharles]

Probably a Fetlife group event, just so socialize with fellow kinksters and kinkstresses. Once you know them well enough, they can refer you to reliable people who can help you plan and play out the scene.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

Probably a Fetlife group event, just so socialize with fellow kinksters and kinkstresses. Once you know them well enough, they can refer you to reliable people who can help you plan and play out the scene.

Thank you dear! I will look for one in NYC.

 

[cumon69]

Honestly one involved drugs so that's never good and the other one we just didn't click.

usually best to remember it