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[txwife594]

Almost every time we have sex hubby will stretch me out before we fuck. He usually puts lube all over his hand and sticks in at least four fingers to the knuckles or uses a huge dildo on me for a while then fucks me. He tells me how he likes having sex with my big pussy. He is average size by the way. He has me.Pretty stretched after doing this every time we have sex for a good while. Is it normal for guys to want to fuck a big loose pussy?

 

[screwher]

My wife

My wife's a smaller woman with a tight, tiny pussy. I'm thrilled with it.

 

[txwife594]

Does he have some kind of fetish about it?

 

[jays78]

Does he have some kind of fetish about it?

I do that too sometimes with my wife. I like to think that a guy has fucked her all day before I got his sloppy seconds. Maybe he wants you to get fucked by another man.

 

[ardeeo]

I do that too sometimes with my wife. I like to think that a guy has fucked her all day before I got his sloppy seconds. Maybe he wants you to get fucked by another man.

I have that same fantasy.

 

[txwife594]

So you think he does that because he is fantasizing that I have been fucked?

 

[MadeHerGape]

I have been doing the same thing with my wife for almost 13 years now. At first I wondered if I was weird, but "research" online shows there is a huge community of people who prefer their pussy sloppy.

For me, it's both a physical and intellectual thing; the feel of her hole lax and wet is astounding. But the knowledge that she had a huge whatever inside her, and the visual aspect of seeing her intricate folds grasping and clinging to a huge _____ as it moves in and out, and then the gape when ________ pulls out, is a massive turn on.

For her, she is reluctant to admit to her interest, which I think has more to do with social norms and her playing coy than acceptance. Whenever she needs a good cum, or is struggling to get there, if I get out one of her huge toys and slide it in, she blasts off within 1-2 minutes. To date we only use toys (Holmes is biggest, have a couple bigger working towards) and the occasional object (bottle veggie etc), but she has admitted to an interest in a fist, but I have dinner plates for hands and she is tiny, not sure it will happen.

I also agree with another poster that the idea of being "next in line" is hot, and we've played around with the scenario using her toys etc.

You didn't say anything about how you feel about it. Can you tell a difference? Good or bad? If you like it, and he prefers it, awesome. If you don't mind stretching out for him and he's returning the favor by meeting your needs in another way, great. If you can tolerate it once in awhile because you care about your partner, and he is appreciative, that's good of you. But if you don't like it, he should respect that. If my wife said no more, I would be disappointed but it wouldn't be earth shattering.

Fetish? Or preference? Does it matter? As long as everyone cum's and doesn't get hurt, who cares?

 

[Bigspurt]

Almost every time we have sex hubby will stretch me out before we fuck. He usually puts lube all over his hand and sticks in at least four fingers to the knuckles or uses a huge dildo on me for a while then fucks me. He tells me how he likes having sex with my big pussy. He is average size by the way. He has me.Pretty stretched after doing this every time we have sex for a good while. Is it normal for guys to want to fuck a big loose pussy?

I am just a little larger than normal with what I have been said is "nice girth" and I prefer to be "held tight" by the pussy I am fucking. I am very uncomfortable using a "standard" condom. They constrict me. Trojan Magnums are my choice.

One of the ultimate pleasures of sex is the first entrance into a vagina. Nice and tight as it opens up to accept my cock.

 

[Bigspurt]

So you think he does that because he is fantasizing that I have been fucked?

The sloppy seconds effect is easily accomplished with a good lube.

 

[bluemoves01]

Easy really.

Ever thought to ask him?

 

[Dreamer110]

The sloppy seconds effect is easily accomplished with a good lube.

But much more fun with the real thing!

 

[Rtub501]

First, I have fantasized about seconds. Usually after I have made her cum and filled her pussy. Feeling her wet pussy get me hot and she gets a second ride.

Second. This is simple, talk to him! Ask what he likes, be open with him, share one of your fantasies first (ie another woman, spanking, public sex). Don't be laugh at his but if its something you don't like or will not even consider tell him. Men are easy... tits and beer.

If women tell us what yhe like or want or need sexually, we will be like a dog on a bone.

 

[Rtub501]

Yes the woman should always cum first

 

[txwife594]

I have been doing the same thing with my wife for almost 13 years now. At first I wondered if I was weird, but "research" online shows there is a huge community of people who prefer their pussy sloppy.

For me, it's both a physical and intellectual thing; the feel of her hole lax and wet is astounding. But the knowledge that she had a huge whatever inside her, and the visual aspect of seeing her intricate folds grasping and clinging to a huge _____ as it moves in and out, and then the gape when ________ pulls out, is a massive turn on.

For her, she is reluctant to admit to her interest, which I think has more to do with social norms and her playing coy than acceptance. Whenever she needs a good cum, or is struggling to get there, if I get out one of her huge toys and slide it in, she blasts off within 1-2 minutes. To date we only use toys (Holmes is biggest, have a couple bigger working towards) and the occasional object (bottle veggie etc), but she has admitted to an interest in a fist, but I have dinner plates for hands and she is tiny, not sure it will happen.

I also agree with another poster that the idea of being "next in line" is hot, and we've played around with the scenario using her toys etc.

You didn't say anything about how you feel about it. Can you tell a difference? Good or bad? If you like it, and he prefers it, awesome. If you don't mind stretching out for him and he's returning the favor by meeting your needs in another way, great. If you can tolerate it once in awhile because you care about your partner, and he is appreciative, that's good of you. But if you don't like it, he should respect that. If my wife said no more, I would be disappointed but it wouldn't be earth shattering.

Fetish? Or preference? Does it matter? As long as everyone cum's and doesn't get hurt, who cares?

I do enjoy it it feels good. I am definitely a lot more stretched than I was. I worry most that he doesn't want it...Dumb I know...it feels a lot different

 

[crashD]

My wife's a smaller woman with a tight, tiny pussy. I'm thrilled with it.

we vote for her....

 

[txwife594]

Does it change anything if I am 5'4 and 100 pounds.

 

[kdb]

Almost every time we have sex hubby will stretch me out before we fuck. He usually puts lube all over his hand and sticks in at least four fingers to the knuckles or uses a huge dildo on me for a while then fucks me. He tells me how he likes having sex with my big pussy. He is average size by the way. He has me.Pretty stretched after doing this every time we have sex for a good while. Is it normal for guys to want to fuck a big loose pussy?

Loose or tight it's all good. I must say it must be a fetish fit him or something. Perhaps he wants to fist you?

 

[KayceeCharles]

If you're enjoying it, who cares?

Though for variety, think about doing it without the hand or the dildo once or twice.

I've been told that some people don't like the super-tight pussy and would prefer a mom with a couple kids... But that's just hearsay.

 

[txwife594]

Loose or tight it's all good. I must say it must be a fetish fit him or something. Perhaps he wants to fist you?

He has basically fisted me. He has gotten his hand in well past the knuckles. He is 6'5 he has huge hands. One time I measured around his hand and it was almost ten inches around.

 

[txwife594]

If you're enjoying it, who cares?

Though for variety, think about doing it without the hand or the dildo once or twice.

I've been told that some people don't like the super-tight pussy and would prefer a mom with a couple kids... But that's just hearsay.

What about a mom with a couple of teenagers who is stretched ?

 

[amysboytoy]

I like a stretched out pussy. I prefer it over tight anytime. I don't know why, but I like it open, sloppy, and loose.

 

[tbearatl]

What about a mom with a couple of teenagers who is stretched ?

Hell yeah

 

[infinity706]

I wouldn't worry too much pussy is designed to grip whatever is inside of it regardless. Of course, if it's really tight, it can even make a guy's cock head too sensitive as he gets ready to cum. A condom can also help with that, but fisting is fun.

 

[txwife594]

Another example was yesterday. We have this thing where when he taps/ lightly pushes on my lower back I bend over and put my hands on whatever is in front of me. He did that at least five times yesterday. Every time he did he put fingers in and stretched me out. Pulling two fingers towards my ass really pulling me open. When we got to bed he put lube all over his hand and came really close to fisting me. He is 6'5 and has huge hands. After all of that he fucked me. Think how loose I was . I did gush all over his hand one of those times he was stretching me. Just thought I would give an example of what I was talking about.

 

[infinity706]

Maybe you'll be getting your first fist soon.