ORAL SERVITUDE - redux

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I totally get that...having fun with it. Laughing tigether is just as connecting as sex. Combine the two and it's so good!

Heheh.....getting in my head again, huh?

Exactly though.....that is the kind of relationship I want. Yes...to have wonderfully, wicked, depraved sex and if involved in the D/s scene, having fun scenarios together, but joy is one of those things you can't control and if something funny happens, I'd love it if we could pause things, appreciate the humor and not have that mess up the mood, only enhance things and make it better for us both.
 
:). I think this is great when acheived. Laughter sex is just wonderful and fun and fresh.

I do not personally favour the times when we laugh so much we are forced to stop fucking. And, very personally, I do not find laughter humour good for me in any bdsm type engagement G and I share. For me it kills the mood....and takes it to something else. Something else is good too, we have done it very happily for a long time before this, but when the mood is ruined for what I had got wet for, i find it hard to move on.

One of the things about real worship though, I think, ...for me, is the acceptance that it is not scripted or forced or false. And so, I prefer our mood when broken for this, is broken by laughter than an alternative such as disappointment or frustration. Thus I accept humour as the gift to receive from that encounter at that time.

Yes, yes, yes....oh fuck yes. ^this.

Things should be natural and if laughter happens to arise, then it either enhances the mood or becomes it's own thing. And if something bad happens, then I'd want a partner who I know that even though it may take longer than I'd like and "ruin" the moment, eventually things would be ok between us. Basically that no matter what, we'd enjoy time together and that it really couldn't get ruined when it's all said and done.
 
We laugh during sex occasionally, sometimes in a scene too. Usually it comes from him really relaxing and enjoying himself, doing something and having fun with my reactions. If the play gets too light hearted he can always lay into me a few times to bring us back. We try not to take ourselves too seriously.

As for an oral story, I was lying on my stomach on our bed while he fucked my mouth. He said something that made me giggle and proceeded to do a deep thrust. Now, I gag sometimes, but I've never gagged and giggled with a cock down my throat while on my stomach. I ended up throwing up on him a little, enough to get on the side of the bed and the floor. He felt so terrible and I couldn't help but laugh hysterically. We paused and cleaned up and changed the sheets. With some coaxing on my part I assured him I was fine and we continued. We still laugh about it from time to time, and he's a bit more mindful when he thrusts deep.
 
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Yes, yes, yes....oh fuck yes. ^this.

Things should be natural and if laughter happens to arise, then it either enhances the mood or becomes it's own thing. And if something bad happens, then I'd want a partner who I know that even though it may take longer than I'd like and "ruin" the moment, eventually things would be ok between us. Basically that no matter what, we'd enjoy time together and that it really couldn't get ruined when it's all said and done.

The stuff I like generally hurts or involves humiliation so sometimes that's pretty heavy in terms of my mental state. The end goal in those situations is to let go, take the places that hurt and feel it spread through me as warmth, to get that adrenaline rush.

I've realized, over time, that I don't always need to have that intensity. I don't have to cry every single time. That feels good for sure but laughing about a plug flying out of my butt or his cock thwacking me in my eye makes it a lot more fun.

I like this picture - they seem relaxed, having fun. I like her body. And his :)

http://imgur.com/9avV1sP

My oral fiasco was giving someone a blow job when I had a nose ring. His hair got caught in the stud. I started laughing - he didn't really appreciate the timing of it but I didn't know what else to do. I'd been trying to manipulate his hair out of it; I'm sure he thought I was insane trying all these new moves. Finally, with a mouth full of cock I had to mumble through what the situation was. It's not like it was one little hair, it was weird how a bunch got wrapped around it. He just reached down and gently pulled. I was so mortified I'd yank either my piercing out or his hairs but I'm glad we could both laugh about it.
 
Is this a glory hole situation or am I seeing this wrong?

http://i.imgur.com/exewOwjl.jpg


Is anyone interested in that kind of encounter? Have you done it?

No...the setting is too elegant for a gloryhole. That's a highboy dresser or chest of drawers on the left and she is reflected in a beveled mirror.

Either the photographer wanted to highlight her beauty, or the guy she's pleasing wanted to remain anonymous.

I've serviced MANY men through the gloryholes in adult bookstore video booths over the years and THIS shot doesn't have that gloryhole ambiance.

But for me...for sheer sexual pleasure and delicious submissiveness, there is NOTHING as intense as inviting an unseen and unknown stranger to put his cock through the gloryhole so you can give him the sexual pleasure and release that he needs! When sucking cocks at the gloryhole, the STRANGER'S sexual pleasure and satisfaction is PARAMOUNT, and your pleasure is purely derived from his!!!

To me, this is the very essence of "oral servitude!" 💓
 
No...the setting is too elegant for a gloryhole. That's a highboy dresser or chest of drawers on the left and she is reflected in a beveled mirror.

Either the photographer wanted to highlight her beauty, or the guy she's pleasing wanted to remain anonymous.

I've serviced MANY men through the gloryholes in adult bookstore video booths over the years and THIS shot doesn't have that gloryhole ambiance.

But for me...for sheer sexual pleasure and delicious submissiveness, there is NOTHING as intense as inviting an unseen and unknown stranger to put his cock through the gloryhole so you can give him the sexual pleasure and release that he needs! When sucking cocks at the gloryhole, the STRANGER'S sexual pleasure and satisfaction is PARAMOUNT, and your pleasure is purely derived from his!!!

To me, this is the very essence of "oral servitude!" 💓

I thought I might see your reply here - thanks! I agree it was too lovely of a setting.
 
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I suppose whether it's ruined could depend on whether there was ruining going on. :D

Exactly....what may not work for some folks may be just the right thing for others.

We laugh during sex occasionally, sometimes in a scene too. Usually it comes from him really relaxing and enjoying himself, doing something and having fun with my reactions. If the play gets too light hearted he can always lay into me a few times to bring us back. We try not to take ourselves too seriously.

As for an oral story, I was lying on my stomach on our bed while he fucked my mouth. He said something that made me giggle and proceeded to do a deep thrust. Now, I gag sometimes, but I've never gagged and giggled with a cock down my throat while on my stomach. I ended up throwing up on him a little, enough to get on the side of the bed and the floor. He felt so terrible and I couldn't help but laugh hysterically. We paused and cleaned up and changed the sheets. With some coaxing on my part I assured him I was fine and we continued. We still laugh about it from time to time, and he's a bit more mindful when he thrusts deep.

Life's too short to be serious all the time....that's both touching and hysterical that he felt bad about the thrusting backfiring on him ;) and it's good he learned his lesson.

The stuff I like generally hurts or involves humiliation so sometimes that's pretty heavy in terms of my mental state. The end goal in those situations is to let go, take the places that hurt and feel it spread through me as warmth, to get that adrenaline rush.

I've realized, over time, that I don't always need to have that intensity. I don't have to cry every single time. That feels good for sure but laughing about a plug flying out of my butt or his cock thwacking me in my eye makes it a lot more fun.

I like this picture - they seem relaxed, having fun. I like her body. And his :)

http://imgur.com/9V1sP

My oral fiasco was giving someone a blow job when I had a nose ring. His hair got caught in the stud. I started laughing - he didn't really appreciate the timing of it but I didn't know what else to do. I'd been trying to manipulate his hair out of it; I'm sure he thought I was insane trying all these new moves. Finally, with a mouth full of cock I had to mumble through what the situation was. It's not like it was one little hair, it was weird how a bunch got wrapped around it. He just reached down and gently pulled. I was so mortified I'd yank either my piercing out or his hairs but I'm glad we could both laugh about it.

Of course....that release of all the pent up emotions that we have to let go in those safe moments...it's different for everyone but good to know and be comfortable with finding your inner peace.

*chuckles softly* Well it's a good thing that it didn't turn into a "the frank's above the beans" sorta situation...or at least without the bad results.

It's not an oral story, but here's one of my sexual hijinks. I was playing with a friend on cam....we were teasing one another through text, actions and speaking to one another....until the need to masturbate for one another became too much and we played around. i happen to enjoy edging and had done so quite a bit that day, well when I happened to cum, i was on my back, slightly reclined.....needless to say the line from a Christmas Story came to mind "You'll shoot your eye out with that thing!" came to mind as sure enough, I blasted the day's pent up load into my right eye. I just sat there for a moment, then started laughing uncontrollably......she asked what was going on and I explained through breaths. Her reply "Now you know how we feel...."
 
It was about a week ago that he felt me up while I struggled in my silly giggles for a good 20 minutes during the episode I'd originally really wanted to see. But as that came to an end, he strongly urged me up to his bed and he pulled off all of the clothing I had on. Then pushed me to my knees. I used some force to pull off his stiff belt, his pants dropped, and I reached in to pull out a fucking hard cock.

And in that moment of being so clearly commanded, I first felt a pang of defiance in my vulnerability that made me secretly hesitant. But the aching pulse in my vagina started as I let the feeling of him on my tongue overcome what my mind made of it. It felt right to service his cock and revel in how it felt to pleasure him as the submissive.

I had grown up thinking about blowjobs as a terrible, demeaning experience for a woman and never thought it would be an activity I would enjoy. I was wrong. I love sucking cock and I really love to focus on his pleasure.

yes its submissive and yes its erotic, but I find it very powerful at the same time. As a woman, the whole experience is incredible in many ways :devil:
 
yes its submissive and yes its erotic, but I find it very powerful at the same time. As a woman, the whole experience is incredible in many ways :devil:

This. There's a power shift throughout that is incredibly hot.
 
This. There's a power shift throughout that is incredibly hot.

agreed .... and its like every erotic nerve in my body responds as I'm on my knees .. taking him deeper and deeper in my mouth and throat ... so hot :devil:
 
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