Ladies how rough is to rough.

[jamper1957]

Just wondering ladies. From my last post it appears a lot of you like it aggressive. What is your point of to much?

 

[LauraWilling]

For me it needs to stop when they start putting big bruises on me, break the skin or really start hurting me where it changes to pain from sexual abuse. As a sub, I always leaned toward a form of sexual abuse, but not the other. Mostly I love being used for a man's or men's pleasure.

 

[CuttingEdge]

I have never found that out with my wife. I love her so much that even though she LOVES rough sex like choking, spanking, and bondage, I let up. I could never hurt her...

 

[CharityLynn]

Just wondering ladies. From my last post it appears a lot of you like it aggressive. What is your point of to much?

Blood, sprains or broken bones. If any of those happen, it's too much. I don't like being bruised either, but I can tolerate it so long as it's only incidental. I do love to have my hair pulled and my mouth fish hooked though. And hard pounding is divine, in any hole.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D(.)(.)

For me it needs to stop when they start putting big bruises on me, break the skin or really start hurting me where it changes to pain from sexual abuse.Mostly I love being used for a man's or men's pleasure.

Dollie-- This.

 

[jamper1957]

Thank everyone who has responded so far. It looks like as long as their is no damage is done you ladies love it rough. I myself really enjoy a good hard work up a sweat fuck. Lets keep this going be honest ladies and thank you.

 

[Kantarii]

The only way I could tell when rough was just rough enough was when I had to waddle like a penguin to the bathroom after having my ass pummeled. Anything less than that, I was getting short changed on someone's promise.

 

[Rachel_X]

Ever seen the aftermath of Klingon sex?
Sometimes that's a bit tame in my view.

 

[sterculius]

I love being very roughly and impersonally throat fucked!! I'm unable to breathe with a thick cock forced all the way down my throat, but I love the erotically exciting and thrilling sense of subjugation and vulnerability that accompanies being "used" this way. It thrills me to know that the guy fucking my throat is unconcerned for my comfort or welfare. That I exist only to facilitate his orgasm and to serve as a convenient receptacle for his ejaculate and that my feelings are completely irrelevant. I love being a cocksucker!

 

[Penuche]

It varies, and it's at least partly affected by how aroused or relaxed I am.

 

[destined]

Thank everyone who has responded so far. It looks like as long as their is no damage is done you ladies love it rough. I myself really enjoy a good hard work up a sweat fuck. Lets keep this going be honest ladies and thank you.

So long as there are no permanent injuries, scars, infections, broken bones or sprained joints or loss of hair, I would be open to any consideration

 

[Arianne6947]

So long as there are no permanent injuries, scars, infections, broken bones or sprained joints or loss of hair, I would be open to any consideration

I agree with the above statement, lets just add snuff to that, some bruising is ok

 

[jamper1957]

It appears most of you ladies want your man/men to be very aggressive. Like a have said before I like it when we both work up a good sweat.

 

[SquirtnBrat]

Ever seen the aftermath of Klingon sex?
Sometimes that's a bit tame in my view.

Worthy of a gold star!

 

[babslovesherdaddy]

I like bruises on my butt, not anywhere else though. A bruise on my butt is like a trophy that I get to keep for a few days. Or longer, if I can get a picture.

 

[cookiecat]

I love being very roughly and impersonally throat fucked!! I'm unable to breathe with a thick cock forced all the way down my throat, but I love the erotically exciting and thrilling sense of subjugation and vulnerability that accompanies being "used" this way. It thrills me to know that the guy fucking my throat is unconcerned for my comfort or welfare. That I exist only to facilitate his orgasm and to serve as a convenient receptacle for his ejaculate and that my feelings are completely irrelevant. I love being a cocksucker!

ooh - this is amazing. I want to quote it in the Oral Servitude thread in the bdsm section... Would you mind????

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1334532

 

[cookiecat]

Rough sensation play is good - hair pulling, spanking, nipples pulled. I like the alternating confusion between twisting a nipple then licking it gently can bring. Having my brain try to keep up my pussy as those conflicting sensations adds to my arousal.

That being said, more extreme pain is something I'll submit to.. I don't LIKE pain. That shit hurts. But I like how it transforms my attitude. I like how I can suffer for someone's pleasure. Like if I can "take" it just a little bit more, if I see how hard my tears make him I'm worthy of his attention, his love.

Broken skin, welts, bruises, a little blood are all ok in the right circumstances, with the right person.

The cathartic experience of letting go, of feeling the pain melt in to pleasure, of having that amazing deep, dark ugly cry and then feeling his arms around me is really connecting.

 

[KimGordon67]

I would say the answer to this question is as variable as the women answering it. I'm still in the process of working out where my limits are (having, at a somewhat advanced age, found someone someone whose happy to engage in that project with me, and who I trust). I'm fine with bruising - I actually like seeing quite clearly where his fingers have been on my breast days afterwards. But there's some things that are hard 'no's', not because of the pain, but because of ... something else. While I love the feeling of a firm hand on my breasts, hitting them (in any sense) is off the table ... but I'm more than happy to have my arse and pussy slapped until they're sore. Similarly, anything to the face is out ... but if he wraps my hair around his hand, I'll pull back against the pressure to increase the sensation.
So I think it depends on what you're getting out of it. For me, it's primarily the physical sensation, and the consequence of that (which, if done right, is almost like a drug), and I love how he reacts to that as well, but I can't handle anything that's really degrading. Other people obviously enjoy that aspect more than the actual pain.

 

[sterculius]

ooh - this is amazing. I want to quote it in the Oral Servitude thread in the bdsm section... Would you mind????

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1334532

Mind??? I'd be honored!

 

[ClassyVal]

The only way I could tell when rough was just rough enough was when I had to waddle like a penguin to the bathroom after having my ass pummeled. Anything less than that, I was getting short changed on someone's promise.

Same for me

 

[live4thebj]

Shit all those that were pain sluts never stopped me and I could take it as far as I want to the point I did leave bruises just to see if they would stop me: they didn't . One in particular I choked her on 3 separate occasions while fucking her either in the ass or pussy (probably the ass) and she passed out and then when she would wake up and then cum. The 3rd time I had to slap her to make her wake-up. After that we realized it was getting dangerous so we stopped.

Another if I bit her hard she would cum. So to say she had a lot of bite marks was an understatement.

Another was taking it all till I fucked her ass, (1st time with another guy and she said it was a total fail). She screamed it's too big take it out (and lets be honest I am average in cocks size). So since she is a sub and I am a dom I screamed "NO...LET YOUR ASS ADJUST". Like a proper sub she shut up, stared at me the whole time, and I fucked her ass till I came.

We later went outside for a smoke and she kept saying over and over again that she now loves anal. I broke her in and she liked it.

Then there was face fucking. I lost count on how many girls I did that to.

 

[LostBabygirl3489]

Every woman is different. We all have different pain tolerances/turn ons. I enjoy getting my breasts slapped but some other women don't enjoy it...the same goes for biting, hair pulling, etc. As long as it's not too extreme. I learned that the hard way when my ex was suckling my nipple and then he gently bit it and I really really liked it...well he continued and he actually dug into the skin, it was pretty scary! Thankfully it didn't get infected and it healed. But yeah. Now I know better. :x

 

[therearenowords]

bruises are cool. blood is not.

 

[jamper1957]

You ladies are the best keep it going if we can.

 

[Joeknoxville]

Every woman is different. We all have different pain tolerances/turn ons. I enjoy getting my breasts slapped but some other women don't enjoy it...the same goes for biting, hair pulling, etc. As long as it's not too extreme. I learned that the hard way when my ex was suckling my nipple and then he gently bit it and I really really liked it...well he continued and he actually dug into the skin, it was pretty scary! Thankfully it didn't get infected and it healed. But yeah. Now I know better. :x

You're so right. While my first wife hated the rougher style, my current partner absolutely loves rough breast and pussy play, obviously as long as its within reason. She especially loves getting slapped on those areas. It's a real turn on for both of us.