Mom's with no sex

Moonlove1990

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Just wondering if any other moms have found that once they had a baby their sex life went completely down hill? It was never great, but it's nonexistent now, totally not by my choice.
 
Just wondering if any other moms have found that once they had a baby their sex life went completely down hill? It was never great, but it's nonexistent now, totally not by my choice.

Well yea, cause once you pop out a baby you are no longer a woman, you are a mother.
 
Just wondering if any other moms have found that once they had a baby their sex life went completely down hill? It was never great, but it's nonexistent now, totally not by my choice.

I guess it goes in cycles ... It came back..
 
I think that can be a byproduct of having a baby who will need all your time and attention. It needs communication and planning to change that
 
Have you ever tried waking up your man by jamming your tongue in his asshole?

If not, give it a try.

Report back your findings. I think you'll be very pleased.
 
Hormones. Busy lives. Babies cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh, cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh..............

mum and dad are so tired.


Try and get some adult time by asking friends and family to babysit and go do stuff together. Even if it's just a picnic for a few hours, go for a walk and hold hands, have a coffee and just sit and talk.

It takes effort and attittude - #wantadoittonighthoneycosifindyousexxxy. :)
 
Hormones. Busy lives. Babies cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh, cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh..............

mum and dad are so tired.


Try and get some adult time by asking friends and family to babysit and go do stuff together. Even if it's just a picnic for a few hours, go for a walk and hold hands, have a coffee and just sit and talk.

It takes effort and attittude - #wantadoittonighthoneycosifindyousexxxy. :)


...or, be a dirty girl and post selfies while fingering yourself.
 
Hormones. Busy lives. Babies cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh, cry, poop, sleep, smile, laugh..............

mum and dad are so tired.


Try and get some adult time by asking friends and family to babysit and go do stuff together. Even if it's just a picnic for a few hours, go for a walk and hold hands, have a coffee and just sit and talk.

It takes effort and attittude - #wantadoittonighthoneycosifindyousexxxy. :)

This is the point ... Things are different .. You need to adjust.. Seize the moment... Enjoy getting banged with a Lego brick sticking into you :)
 
Yes. Because after an entire day of having a baby sucking your boobs and grabbing at you, the last thing you want is a man sucking your boobs and grabbing at you.
 
Yes. Because after an entire day of having a baby sucking your boobs and grabbing at you, the last thing you want is a man sucking your boobs and grabbing at you.

on the contrary.. after a day like that , that is exactly what I want.. but sometimes he doesn't see it like that..
 
on the contrary.. after a day like that , that is exactly what I want.. but sometimes he doesn't see it like that..

Oh, so it's him?

Have you point blank asked him?

Maybe try getting a baby sitter, a bottle of wine, and some crotchless knickers. :D
 
Oh, so it's him?

Have you point blank asked him?

Maybe try getting a baby sitter, a bottle of wine, and some crotchless knickers. :D

I think you misunderstand: there is nothing wrong with him.. I was trying to injct some humour... we see that type of scenario differently . harassed, tired woman with messy hair and milky is that needs a fuck.... slightly grumpy woman that doesn't look (or smell?) at her best...
 
I think you misunderstand: there is nothing wrong with him.. I was trying to injct some humour... we see that type of scenario differently . harassed, tired woman with messy hair and milky is that needs a fuck.... slightly grumpy woman that doesn't look (or smell?) at her best...

So if it's not your choice, and there is no problem with him, why are you two not having sex?

:confused:
 
So if it's not your choice, and there is no problem with him, why are you two not having sex?

:confused:

we are.... I was just trying to give some reassurance to the op.. it takes adjustment not necessarily crotchless knickers (nothing against them) or babysitters
 
Just wondering if any other moms have found that once they had a baby their sex life went completely down hill? It was never great, but it's nonexistent now, totally not by my choice.

Longest five weeks, six and half days of my life.
 
Could you possibly arrange two days and one night together? You two haven't had a night alone in months. I also include the last couple of months you were preggers. Time to reconnect. Time to have fun.
 
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