Ask Me a Question v. 4.28.16

[LallyH]

My dogs happy whine for joy when I come home after work.

What is your favorite leisure activity?

Walking in the evening, just as the sun is beginning to set.

Favourite meal?

 

[clark_kent]

Walking in the evening, just as the sun is beginning to set.

Favourite meal?

A really good hamburger with a side of fries or corn on the cob.

Favorite sex toy?

 

[biseattlegirl]

A really good hamburger with a side of fries or corn on the cob.

Favorite sex toy?

My brain.

TV or movie character that most emulates your life?

 

[Paul_Chance]

My brain.

TV or movie character that most emulates your life?

That is a tough one - I've led an unconventional life, so aspects of certain characters I can relate too, but nothing really tracks to the entirety. I definitely related to George Clooney's character in "Up In The Air".

What TV character's life would you most want to emulate?

 

[pkinginva32]

That is a tough one - I've led an unconventional life, so aspects of certain characters I can relate too, but nothing really tracks to the entirety. I definitely related to George Clooney's character in "Up In The Air".

What TV character's life would you most want to emulate?

Magnum P.I. He was cool and not cool at the same time....But really cool...

What band would you like to see tour this summer?

 

[biseattlegirl]

Magnum P.I. He was cool and not cool at the same time....But really cool...

What band would you like to see tour this summer?

I don't konw, I've never been to a concert and don't really listen to current music.

Who is your favorite band or singer of all time?

 

[Paul_Chance]

I don't konw, I've never been to a concert and don't really listen to current music.

Who is your favorite band or singer of all time?

I have to go with Warren Zevon. That guy was just too awesome.

What song is there that, when you hear it, you must dance?

 

[pkinginva32]

I have to go with Warren Zevon. That guy was just too awesome.

What song is there that, when you hear it, you must dance?

Oh god..That would be Paradise by the Dashboard light.
Meatloaf, It's not just for dinner.



What movie do you stop on when flipping channels every time?

 

[Paul_Chance]

Oh god..That would be Paradise by the Dashboard light.
Meatloaf, It's not just for dinner.



What movie do you stop on when flipping channels every time?

Serenity or any episode of Firefly calls for an instant stop.

What movie stands out as the most horrible movie you've ever seen?

 

[pkinginva32]

Serenity or any episode of Firefly calls for an instant stop.

What movie stands out as the most horrible movie you've ever seen?

Kung Pow, enter the fist. Took my daughter and her friend in junior high school. It truly is the worst movie ever made.....

What's your go to drink of choice when you are out socializing?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Kung Pow, enter the fist. Took my daughter and her friend in junior high school. It truly is the worst movie ever made.....

What's your go to drink of choice when you are out socializing?

Beer usually. Sometimes scotch.

Where do you drink?

 

[pkinginva32]

Beer usually. Sometimes scotch.

Where do you drink?

Home, My buddies Brewery. We have a place called Kaghney Brothers too.

Where's your favorite place for a first date?

 

[Paul_Chance]

Home, My buddies Brewery. We have a place called Kaghney Brothers too.

Where's your favorite place for a first date?

I like to go to a little Japanese place here - great for first dates. It is quiet, intimate, excellent food and service, perfect for the "getting to know you" phase.

Where's your favorite place for the "first sexual encounter" with a new date?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I like to go to a little Japanese place here - great for first dates. It is quiet, intimate, excellent food and service, perfect for the "getting to know you" phase.

Where's your favorite place for the "first sexual encounter" with a new date?

I don't know. With the right man, the first sexual encounter may not include sex at all. Maybe under a blanket of stars lit by a full moon.

How would you describe the best way to solicit a first kiss?

 

[clark_kent]

I don't know. With the right man, the first sexual encounter may not include sex at all. Maybe under a blanket of stars lit by a full moon.

How would you describe the best way to solicit a first kiss?

Lean in close. If she doesn't back away repulsed, then I may be onto something.

Will you kiss and tell?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Lean in close. If she doesn't back away repulsed, then I may be onto something.

Will you kiss and tell?

Generally not.

Who knows your secret?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Generally not.

Who knows your secret?

I do.

What was one little white lie you told this last week?

 

[clark_kent]

I do.

What was one little white lie you told this last week?

That I wasn't mad when I actually was.

What is your favorite thing to wear?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I do.

What was one little white lie you told this last week?

I told my kids that it was the best father's day ever. It wasn't, but it was pretty great.

Is there anything wrong with little white lies?

 

[PlayfulLittle1]

I told my kids that it was the best father's day ever. It wasn't, but it was pretty great.

Is there anything wrong with little white lies?

By definition (I think) white lies are harmless and told to keep the peace, so no.

Do you lie often?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

By definition (I think) white lies are harmless and told to keep the peace, so no.

Do you lie often?

No, I actually struggled to come up with that one.
It's not that I'm some paragon of virtue.
I just am bad at lying and so it's not very effective and often backfires. Might as well just tell the truth.


What flaw do you have that in many ways makes you virtuous?

 

[Paul_Chance]

No, I actually struggled to come up with that one.
It's not that I'm some paragon of virtue.
I just am bad at lying and so it's not very effective and often backfires. Might as well just tell the truth.


What flaw do you have that in many ways makes you virtuous?

My reptile brain. LOL - what I mean by that is this. As a relative young man I was in a set of jobs that often enough needed me to make "hard" decisions very fast, decisions that could hurt other people (somethings physically, sometimes emotionally). Somewhere in there I learned how to turn off (temporarily) the emotional impact on me of those decisions and do what needed to be done. Fast forward twenty plus years and that ability to switch to the reptile brain allows me to make hard decisions quickly that are "the right thing" - e.g. firing people, disciplining people, providing strong direction without being emotionally tangled in the impact on the other human being emotionally. (No one wants tp be tell them they screwed up and they need to get their shit together or they're going to be replaced - but it has to be done.)

What good trait do you have that sometimes leads you to doing bad things?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

My reptile brain. LOL - what I mean by that is this. As a relative young man I was in a set of jobs that often enough needed me to make "hard" decisions very fast, decisions that could hurt other people (somethings physically, sometimes emotionally). Somewhere in there I learned how to turn off (temporarily) the emotional impact on me of those decisions and do what needed to be done. Fast forward twenty plus years and that ability to switch to the reptile brain allows me to make hard decisions quickly that are "the right thing" - e.g. firing people, disciplining people, providing strong direction without being emotionally tangled in the impact on the other human being emotionally. (No one wants tp be tell them they screwed up and they need to get their shit together or they're going to be replaced - but it has to be done.)

What good trait do you have that sometimes leads you to doing bad things?

I am a stickler for details and getting the facts right. Which often leads me argue with people when probably I simply shouldn't. Also, I'm good at arguing (debate training).


To date, what has been the biggest change in your life?

 

[biseattlegirl]

My reptile brain. LOL - what I mean by that is this. As a relative young man I was in a set of jobs that often enough needed me to make "hard" decisions very fast, decisions that could hurt other people (somethings physically, sometimes emotionally). Somewhere in there I learned how to turn off (temporarily) the emotional impact on me of those decisions and do what needed to be done. Fast forward twenty plus years and that ability to switch to the reptile brain allows me to make hard decisions quickly that are "the right thing" - e.g. firing people, disciplining people, providing strong direction without being emotionally tangled in the impact on the other human being emotionally. (No one wants tp be tell them they screwed up and they need to get their shit together or they're going to be replaced - but it has to be done.)

What good trait do you have that sometimes leads you to doing bad things?

I am very courageous. Sometimes that can get me in trouble or I make goals that are hard to achieve...

What is the third thing you notice about a potential mate?

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I am very courageous. Sometimes that can get me in trouble or I make goals that are hard to achieve...

What is the third thing you notice about a potential mate?

LOL...sits dormant for nearly 2 hours...then we answer at exactly the same time!!!

Well, I don't know. I usually notice ass/hips, boobs and smile, but the order varies depending on situation.
Of course, in some cases it's more intellectual if she's on Lit. Then it's sense of humor, intellect, and kindness, but again, order can vary.


Mine above; biggest change in life to date?