Watching/being watched : foreplay?

[Tribad]

In other threads, I've talked about my fantasy of watching someone masturbate, or having them watch me. But there's one thing I was wondering about. Do most people see this as a kind of "foreplay" before they engage in actual intercourse?

To me, it is an activity in its own right. I would want to watch a woman do it until she'd be satisfied, or to be watched until I'd come. Do some people here see things this way too?

Please discuss.

 

[bunny4med]

In other threads, I've talked about my fantasy of watching someone masturbate, or having them watch me. But there's one thing I was wondering about. Do most people see this as a kind of "foreplay" before they engage in actual intercourse?

To me, it is an activity in its own right. I would want to watch a woman do it until she'd be satisfied, or to be watched until I'd come. Do some people here see things this way too?

Please discuss.

depends. my hubby and i call it putting on a "show". we will mutually masturbate, or provide a single show until completion. but, if work schedules have prevented us from being together a while, it is foreplay. one or the other replaces the persons hand with a mouth. then it's game on.

 

[Tribad]

Thanks.

I gues another way to put it is : would you be satisfied if someone watched you masturbate until orgasm, knowing they wouldn't touch you or engage in intercourse afterwards?

 

[bunny4med]

Thanks.

I gues another way to put it is : would you be satisfied if someone watched you masturbate until orgasm, knowing they wouldn't touch you or engage in intercourse afterwards?

of course i would. we have mutually masturbated in front of each other if we knew we didn't have time for a full blown session. sometimes when we're together, one of us has to get up in a couple of hours to go to work. between this and attacking each other in our sleep, that accounts for 50% of our love life.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Thanks.

I gues another way to put it is : would you be satisfied if someone watched you masturbate until orgasm, knowing they wouldn't touch you or engage in intercourse afterwards?

I would for sure. However if she just watched a bit and then couldn't resist and grabbed it and stroked it, I'd be okay with that too.

Personally I like the foreplay aspect of it because it's such a thrill having eyes on me. Of course at some point I'm going to want to cum.

 

[screwher]

There have been times where during foreplay my wife and I would just touching and rubbing ourselves. Then we'd find ourselves abandoning the idea of penetration and just lay beside each other masturbate together. It's so hot.

 

[MrEd63]

There have been times where during foreplay my wife and I would just touching and rubbing ourselves. Then we'd find ourselves abandoning the idea of penetration and just lay beside each other masturbate together. It's so hot.

What a wonderfully intimate thing to do

 

[Tribad]

Screwher > That sounds nice, but personnally what really turns me on is if only one is doing it, and the other is fully dressed and just watches. To me this is even better than intercourse.

 

[fullservice65]

I like idea of "the watcher" being fully clothed but slowly removing pieces of clothing and increasingly touching his/herself as "the masturbator" progresses. Eventually, they both become watcher and masturbator.

 

[suckonsimon]

We're all so different aren't we. This is not a thing for me at all. Even though the 'watching' of sex is a huge part of my satisfaction. But it's admiring my junk while she is at me with hands and mouth; delighting in her body while I am making her curl and writhe with my attentions. The one aspect of our pleasure which slightly relates to this theme is kinda afterplay: At my age there are times when she is totally sated and I have not cum so we uncouple and lie together, my erection glistening with her juices. I like then to keep it that way, gently playing with myself as she watches. But even then it's never been to completion - as she might want another round after a cup of tea as the Brits do.

 

[crashD]

love to be watched...

foreplay all the way through to the explosive end...

and would love to watch also...