I'm going Off On A Rant Here... Dating Sites-Females

[doctor_insanus]

Ruh roh.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

You can find true love anywhere, sometimes it is already starting you in the face. Start telling everyone that you are looking and what you are looking for, your stylist, your head hunter, your mechanic, us on Lit... Someone you know may know the perfect person but didn't know you were looking for them. I have seen it happen.

Noor, are you playing matchmaker? I will have to type up a wish list and send you a copy.

 

[Noor]

Noor, are you playing matchmaker? I will have to type up a wish list and send you a copy.

Sure, go ahead, I will see what I can do.

 

[Lancecastor]

And then there is the "Bait" Pictures.

You click on the profile think ...not bad for her age and find out that picture is twenty years old! and between now and then judging by the three or four more, they might have had a little trouble with Crack, Crystal & Alcohol or a real bad sickness!

And then there is the ones who list an age in the fifties and have the picture of a twenty something in their Public Profile...Yeah not going to go well!

Try the gals with no picture.

They are often the best-looking and least problematic.

 

[Pashenry]

Try the gals with no picture.

They are often the best-looking and least problematic.

In my experience on a dating site they looked fine and were normal. One sold vascular testing equipment the other work in county school administration.

 

[Lancecastor]

In my experience on a dating site they looked fine and were normal. One sold vascular testing equipment the other work in county school administration.

Normal? You found 2 that were normal AND fine online?

 

[Pashenry]

Normal? Fine?

Normal? You found 2 that were normal AND fine online?

The ones I dated.......and I found to be normal (For me) in relaltionship to them not having a profile picture on an online dating site? Yes and one was a sales rep for vascular testing equipment and the other worked for a county school. If I remove the no profile pic and add profile pic even more what I consider normal occured.

 

[Cheyenne]

Thanks! it's good to hear from you and say hi to Cheyenne for me!

I trust everything is going well?

Hey there! Yes, everything is going well. Stopped in for a quick post or two today but likely won't be here long. Speaking of Lit couples, we are married long enough that I have to do the math to figure out the number of years... 12+ years at this point. I'll likely never leave Lit completely, only because it is our meeting place. Where everything started...

 

[Avery_Chisholm]

Yeah, what?

I was thinking exactly that.....

 

[richard_daily]

When you treat women like the enemy, you make things harder for yourself in whatever romantic encounters you're trying to have with them.

That's my sage advice for the men in this thread who clearly don't like women, yet want to date them for some reason.

My second piece of advice: get a fleshlight and call it a day.

 

[bronzeage]

When you treat women like the enemy, you make things harder for yourself in whatever romantic encounters you're trying to have with them.

That's my sage advice for the men in this thread who clearly don't like women, yet want to date them for some reason.

My second piece of advice: get a fleshlight and call it a day.

I don't really understand the problem. When my mother died, there were about a half dozen women lined up to take her place. These were women who had known him for about twenty years. They wanted to date him and he had to make some delicate choices, just to prevent hurt feelings.

I'm now the age he was when she died and I'm pretty sure I would be in the same situation if something happened to my current wife. I do not want to be in that situation, but if I were, I wouldn't be alone, unless I chose to be.

 

[FGB]

The OP believes marriage is the proper venue for fucking. The OP has therefore married (as far as I know) the majority of the women he has fucked. He divorced them all. I was providing helpful advice for the OP. If it also fits your modus operendi, great. If not, it wouldn"t.

God I hate to break it to Y'all.

I have only had sex with 85+women...I think four only once. I don't go to church near as often as you would think ...don't need to, although I do like good preaching. I haven't had sex this decade and only resonantly decided to start dating again.

Matter of fact I took a nice lady out for a late lunch Sunday. A widow about ten years younger than myself. May turn out to be dating material and may not.

Background check looks good and I like her. Neither one of us is in a hurry to get serious so we are kind of easing into at least a friendship.

She has had a couple of really bad marriages and the last dude she was involved with kind of died off on her and she is still a little freaked out about it.
Slow and causal works for me. She lives about an hour away.

And Yes we met on a dating site.

 

[Noor]

God I hate to break it to Y'all.

I have only had sex with 85+women...I think four only once. I don't go to church near as often as you would think ...don't need to, although I do like good preaching. I haven't had sex this decade and only resonantly decided to start dating again.

Matter of fact I took a nice lady out for a late lunch Sunday. A widow about ten years younger than myself. May turn out to be dating material and may not.

Background check looks good and I like her. Neither one of us is in a hurry to get serious so we are kind of easing into at least a friendship.

She has had a couple of really bad marriages and the last dude she was involved with kind of died off on her and she is still a little freaked out about it.
Slow and causal works for me. She lives about an hour away.

And Yes we met on a dating site.

Glad to hear you have a decent prospect. Your 85+ number seems excess for the amount of time to me. I wouldn't advertise it.

 

[FGB]

Glad to hear you have a decent prospect. Your 85+ number seems excess for the amount of time to me. I wouldn't advertise it.

I don't but I'm sixty so I grew up in the sixties, seventies and eighties and was married a good many of years so i was out of circulation. This last go around was for sometime like twenty-two years.

So for my age prehaps a little more than average. I wasn't trying to run up a score it just happened.

Hell, my youngest brother went through more than twice that many in one year in the early eighties.

Oh. and Deana has brown hair! and is 5'5" also.

 

[GiaCat]

Now I realize that with Newbies to any kind of Web site that when you post pictures and interact with people mistakes are going to be made BUT…
I had a lady… No, scratch that a woman ask me if I was really five foot five inches tall. WTF? Why would I lie about that?

Female | 5' 10" | Last Activity: Today
I'm looking for a serious relationship or a friendship.

Now keep in mind SHE emailed me! I didn’t even know she existed!
“Are you really only 5' 5"?” And here is what she is looking for.
About the one I'm looking for...

I'm attracted to tall men. Sense of humor is a must.

Hell! Good luck with that! Surprisingly she is divorced!
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And while I’m here and ranting what the hell is with the pictures? Now I really do like guessing games but Damn woman which person is you? And I am looking for a woman to date…Not your dog, horse or grand-kid.

Then there are the ones who contact you and build up an online relationship, decide it’s time to meet and vanish! WTF?

My favorite is the one who decided to come clean instead of meeting up with me on weekend… seems she has a couple of problems she forgot to mention and us getting together would NOT be a good ideal.

Like her being a recovering alcohol and cocaine addict…Oh, I forgot the porn addiction not watching in…participating in! Had it so bad she went to Las Vegas to the porn convention & awards to worship her heroes! Knowing that little tidbit would have saved me time and trouble!

And the list goes on.

She was just kicking the tires

 

[Noor]

I don't but I'm sixty so I grew up in the sixties, seventies and eighties and was married a good many of years so i was out of circulation. This last go around was for sometime like twenty-two years.

So for my age prehaps a little more than average. I wasn't trying to run up a score it just happened.

Hell, my youngest brother went through more than twice that many in one year in the early eighties.

Oh. and Deana has brown hair! and is 5'5" also.

So cool, you match?

 

[dolf]

You seem like a twat.

 

[Noor]

You seem like a twat.

Thanks dolf, love you too

 

[Noor]

Oh and welcome back!

 

[RobDownSouth]

And then there is the "Bait" Pictures.

You click on the profile think ...not bad for her age and find out that picture is twenty years old! and between now and then judging by the three or four more, they might have had a little trouble with Crack, Crystal & Alcohol or a real bad sickness!

And then there is the ones who list an age in the fifties and have the picture of a twenty something in their Public Profile...Yeah not going to go well!

Pro Tip: Look at the THIRD picture in her profile.

Anyone (even me!) can take one good picture, and about half can take two good pictures. Starting with picture number three, you get a better idea of what they really look like.