I'm going Off On A Rant Here... Dating Sites-Females

[Lancecastor]

Anyway, yeah....fvgarb, online dating can be rugged.

Try POF....Intrigued is still there and she always liked a man with a penis and a wallet.

 

[bronzeage]

It would be interesting to see how many there are.

Some of them aren't public knowledge.

It doesn't count if any of the freaks (you know I love you all but some of you are just nuts) are in a committed relationship to their hand.

I know of 6 couples who met on Lit and were a couple in real time, at least for a while. Three of the couples are still together. Few would recognize the names of those who are still together.

 

[Noor]

Or he could simply rent. Far cheaper and less stressful than yet another romance, marriage and divorce.

He seems happier married, and he doesn't sound bitter about his divorces. Maybe he will get lucky this time.

 

[pensivepoet]

I had a love gone bad (well, several actually) and she went to match.com and struck gold.
Got two! One was an Oracle big shot who was gonna be her snuggle bunny cuz he was "buggy" and he was happy to share the wealth for cuddles.
And she found a poor one she could fuck without fear of herpes.
They all lived happily ever after.
True story.

 

[Que]

I know of 6 couples who met on Lit and were a couple in real time, at least for a while. Three of the couples are still together. Few would recognize the names of those who are still together.

I don't think luck has nuch to offer, but you may be rihht about him prefering serial mnogamy.


There was this crazy redhead that was like that. For some reason she saw me as potential boyfriend material. She got around quite a bit in that small town and I sort of declined. We never got around to consummating. when she was asking me if I saw potential I said we don't even really get along that well can you picture us together at 80? She said oh I never plan things that far ahead.

Myself I don't see any point in monogamy unless it's forever. if the plan is to go your separate ways eventually, why miss out on opportunities along the way?

 

[bronzeage]

I don't think luck has nuch to offer, but you may be rihht about him prefering serial mnogamy.


There was this crazy redhead that was like that. For some reason she saw me as potential boyfriend material. She got around quite a bit in that small town and I sort of declined. We never got around to consummating. when she was asking me if I saw potential I said we don't even really get along that well can you picture us together at 80? She said oh I never plan things that far ahead.

Myself I don't see any point in monogamy unless it's forever. if the plan is to go your separate ways eventually, why miss out on opportunities along the way?

What the fuck are you talking about?

I've had forever monogamy three times now. It turns out, forever is an elastic quantity.

 

[FGB]

Ah, the irony of a guy on a porn board claiming moral superiority to a woman who attends a porn convention.

The point of the whole thing was we would not do well together no matter how much we enjoyed communicating. I cannot handle a relationship with a drug addict & alcoholic and I will not again.

As for the porn well! Let's just say she probably would have relapsed the first month we started dating. I'm not normally naturally Vanilla for long given a choice.

So NOT meeting in person and dating is a good thing...I still say hello how are you on facebook from time to time...

 

[FGB]

The OP believes marriage is the proper venue for fucking. The OP has therefore married (as far as I know) the majority of the women he has fucked. He divorced them all. I was providing helpful advice for the OP. If it also fits your modus operendi, great. If not, it wouldn"t.

Um, no thankfully I think the ratio is something like 4 to 85+ I lost count after that and most were a long ago, I've been out of the dating circuit since like1992

 

[FGB]

Anyway, yeah....fvgarb, online dating can be rugged.

Try POF....Intrigued is still there and she always liked a man with a penis and a wallet.

Yeah...POF keeps deleting my account and it takes three hours to fill out all of that stuff!

 

[sweepthefloor]

Seriously sometimes profiles are like reading the comics...never sure what some of them are about or even if they are supposed to be humorous or sarcastic.

I like the funny ones! I get bored ready the copy paste. Seriously, I just skip to the sex questions.

I put my photos with my hair in hot rollers and no makeup. I think it is all hilarious, but I just use the site to get laid when I want to get laid.

 

[FGB]

And another thing!

Ladies put some thought about the pictures you post,

Those sites need four buttons... Yes,Maybe,NO and OH HELL NO!

Seriously? Fix your hair, put on some make up, and at least TRY to smile, those places are not a police line up!

(I actually let out a small shriek a couple of times!)

 

[FGB]

And I (like many people) have a no photo, no consideration, just keep on going policy ... And never reply to emails,chat or anything else.

And if you can't stand up to a Background or/and a STD check/exam, don't waste my time or yours.

 

[RoryN]

And another thing!

Ladies put some thought about the pictures you post,

Those sites need four buttons... Yes,Maybe,NO and OH HELL NO!

Seriously? Fix your hair, put on some make up, and at least TRY to smile, those places are not a police line up!

(I actually let out a small shriek a couple of times!)

There's reasons those types of pictures are get posted more frequently.

If you want to discover them, it'll enrich your experience with the opposite sex tenfold. But I'm n0t sure you're ready or willing to step through that looking glass, because you might emerge as a Liberal.

 

[FGB]

There's reasons those types of pictures are get posted more frequently.

If you want to discover them, it'll enrich your experience with the opposite sex tenfold. But I'm n0t sure you're ready or willing to step through that looking glass, because you might emerge as a Liberal.

LOL! Thanks for the warning!

 

[patient1]

Hang in there, FGB, and keep us posted. Good Luck!

 

[FGB]

Hang in there, FGB, and keep us posted. Good Luck!

Thanks! it's good to hear from you and say hi to Cheyenne for me!

I trust everything is going well?

 

[sweepthefloor]

And another thing!

Ladies put some thought about the pictures you post,

Those sites need four buttons... Yes,Maybe,NO and OH HELL NO!

Seriously? Fix your hair, put on some make up, and at least TRY to smile, those places are not a police line up!

(I actually let out a small shriek a couple of times!)

I have no desire to post a filtered face selfie photo complete with hair and makeup in order to receive "hello cutie" messages from strangers.

 

[RoryN]

I have no desire to post a filtered face selfie photo complete with hair and makeup in order to receive "hello cutie" messages from strangers.

No one could blame you.

My female friends have shown me messages from guys. Hilarious to horrifying, with very few in between those extremes.

 

[sweepthefloor]

No one could blame you.

My female friends have shown me messages from guys. Hilarious to horrifying, with very few in between those extremes.

I think that's why I started posting the hot-roller head and no make-up thing. I appreciate the hilarious and the horrifying, it's the inability to create complete sentences that disturbs me.

I am not critical of content, it's the lack of content that annoys me. I have come to the realization that the internet for dating purposes is mostly confined to physical need purposes. The love for my life will probably be met while taking out the trash, or on the job, or the dreaded set-up.

 

[sweepthefloor]

Oh the internet and purposes purposes.

 

[tactful]

Odds are, she's a red head.

 

[FGB]

And then there is the "Bait" Pictures.

You click on the profile think ...not bad for her age and find out that picture is twenty years old! and between now and then judging by the three or four more, they might have had a little trouble with Crack, Crystal & Alcohol or a real bad sickness!

And then there is the ones who list an age in the fifties and have the picture of a twenty something in their Public Profile...Yeah not going to go well!

 

[GforGraham]

Did you put the 5'5" in the right spot, perhaps you accidentally put it in as the size of you penis. There the women are wondering how a 6" guy has a 5'5 penis.

 

[doctor_insanus]

https://41.media.tumblr.com/5fa5b717078390a9ab0cf7d3c6637729/tumblr_o5k1w7Mpvm1rg4xulo1_540.jpg

 

[Aglaopheme]

Odds are, she's a red head.

Yeah, what?