Ass play........what's the big turn on??

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It seems that by the posts here and the [current] trend of porn now that there are lots of men/women that are seriously into ass play.............fucking, licking, ATM and other variations of that. I've been with a few women that urge me to do it and I've tried it to please them but have never felt comfortable with sticking my cock or tongue into an orifice where the waste of previous food exits the body. The smells, tastes, and sanitation risks have always turned me off and viewing it on porn is a turn off as well.
Are there others that feel same?? What's the big deal in stickng your cock into a dry hole when there are 2 other wet options that taste much better and are much cleaner.
Just wondering................
 
If it is done right, it shouldn't be dry as it stimulates glands. There are more nerve endings in that area so it is easier to feel the man inside. It is usually tighter which gives the man more stimulation. I suppose for some there is the sense of taboo. You can't get pregnant. I am sure there are more answers.

The downside is that, if not done right, it can give you gas as the man can pump air in. Some people get a slight case of diarrhea afterwards especially if sperm is shot up the ass. If the man doesn't go slow at first or the woman is not aroused, it can be painful. Do it too often when you are young and it can lead to difficulty with bowel control when you get older (you would have to do it a lot on a regular basis). There is a high level of trust needed to make it good for both people.

The upside is that level of trust is arousing One gets very intense orgasms. :)
 
It seems that by the posts here and the [current] trend of porn now that there are lots of men/women that are seriously into ass play.............fucking, licking, ATM and other variations of that. I've been with a few women that urge me to do it and I've tried it to please them but have never felt comfortable with sticking my cock or tongue into an orifice where the waste of previous food exits the body. The smells, tastes, and sanitation risks have always turned me off and viewing it on porn is a turn off as well.
Are there others that feel same?? What's the big deal in stickng your cock into a dry hole when there are 2 other wet options that taste much better and are much cleaner.
Just wondering................



For me it's the taboo of it! I have always been an ass man and have always been turned on with rimming and anal! Though I have yet to fuck a woman in the ass. I also Like a woman's tongues, toys and fingers in my ass.

Now I have to ask it's a valid point with not wanting to eat where someone shits! But you will eat where they piss? If they are clean then go for it! A woman who can't keep clean! Well I won't kiss them never mind lick their ass. Nor would I expect them to do it for me!

As for fucking an ass. Well that again is taboo, and in my mind hot as hell!

KC
 
It seems that by the posts here and the [current] trend of porn now that there are lots of men/women that are seriously into ass play.............fucking, licking, ATM and other variations of that.
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What's the big deal in stickng your cock into a dry hole when there are 2 other wet options that taste much better and are much cleaner.

I'm very big into ass play but have no idea what you're talking about. To me ass play means pushing a condom-wearing strap-on inside my husband's well-lubed, well-cleaned asshole. Or a prostate toy. Or my fingers. And yeah, occasionally I even use my tongue down there. And newsflash: there's nothing dry or unclean in any of it, nor are there "two other options" available. Nor do I have a cock.

To each their own. If you aren't into something then don't be, but please don't make any silly assumptions like you just did.
 
My wife loves a little ass play on her. My fingers, tongue, and cock are no strangers down there. But she never returns the favor. Which I'm good with.
 
I'm very big into ass play but have no idea what you're talking about. To me ass play means pushing a condom-wearing strap-on inside my husband's well-lubed, well-cleaned asshole. Or a prostate toy. Or my fingers. And yeah, occasionally I even use my tongue down there. And newsflash: there's nothing dry or unclean in any of it, nor are there "two other options" available. Nor do I have a cock.

To each their own. If you aren't into something then don't be, but please don't make any silly assumptions like you just did.

You are the best
 
There is so much to say about this but I'm too tired so I'll stick with one point that hasn't been mentioned yet..

When something looks really fucking hot you want to fuck it. A sexy, full lipped mouth? You want to fuck it. A nice pair tits? You want to fuck those too. A puffy pink little pussy? Hell yeah you want to fuck that. A gorgeous round ass? OBVIOUSLY YOU WANT TO FUCK IT. Or I do. And have mine fucked-- I have a really sexy ass and in a (possibly creepy) narcissistic way, for as long as I can remember I've admired it in the mirror and every time the thought of "oh God this smoking hot ass would look so good with a cock buried in it" flits through my head.

Plus, and this may be the main bottom line, it feels good. Really good.
 
There is so much to say about this but I'm too tired so I'll stick with one point that hasn't been mentioned yet..

When something looks really fucking hot you want to fuck it. A sexy, full lipped mouth? You want to fuck it. A nice pair tits? You want to fuck those too. A puffy pink little pussy? Hell yeah you want to fuck that. A gorgeous round ass? OBVIOUSLY YOU WANT TO FUCK IT. Or I do. And have mine fucked-- I have a really sexy ass and in a (possibly creepy) narcissistic way, for as long as I can remember I've admired it in the mirror and every time the thought of "oh God this smoking hot ass would look so good with a cock buried in it" flits through my head.

Plus, and this may be the main bottom line, it feels good. Really good.
Totally in agreement with your bottom line. I have never fucked so hard, fast and possibly rough as when my cock was buried in gf's perfect round ass. It was beyond feeling good - there wasn't a power on earth that could have made me stop until I came hard -- and it took a gratifyingly lot of fucking hard work to finally cum.

As you say, Raingirl, it feels good. Really good.
 
You are the best

Ha, thanks! :D

I have to add that when it comes to ass play where I'm supposed to be at the receiving end.... It's a 100% no go. I have a beautiful pussy that likes getting cuddled, slapped, kissed, pounded, fisted, fingered and what not, but I most definitely will not have anything entering my backside. Still that doesn't mean I have any problems doing it to my husband or generally understanding there are girls out there who'd choose to use the backdoor any day of the week.
 
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Because if we all liked the same things and were turned on by the same things, what a horribly dull world it would be!

It doesn't do it for you, that's okay, you don't have to do it.

There's a porn site rule I have for myself - just because it's not my cup of tea doesn't mean it doesn't have the right to not be there. Don't like it, move on. My turn-on video is definitely not gonna be someone else's and if I have to right to my video, they have the right to theirs. :)
 
I used to do a fair amount of anal. Mostly because of pregnancy concerns. These days I would never chose anal as a preference but I do enjoy making my partner feel good so it was something her really wanted to try or a special treat, I can have fun with it. I have never had an orgasm from just anal unless there was some manual stimulation of my clit.
 
The first time my ex tried to play with mine, I rejected it. She told me that I should trust her and that it was something I'd like if I let myself. It took alcohol a couple of days later but she fingered me while giving me a hand job. I protested at first but she persisted and won and I let her. :) It was an incredible orgasm.

We were at the movies a few weeks later and she leaned into me and said, "I'm not going to argue with you about it but I want you to put it up my ass." Then, she sat back and finished watching the movie. I had already been wanting to try it but she was more forward than me. It was really hot.

Probably a combination of the physical reaction and the taboo.
 
It wasn't my cup of tea either, but I was curious about it. Read about it, educated myself then mentioned to Master I wanted to try it. He was more eager and we were both pleasantly surprised. With the right angle and power I can even cum. And I can feel him more when he's in my ass, every throb and pulse. Not what I always want but it's fun from time to time.
 
My bf Greg and I love it! It's erotic and naughty, and I adore having My man worship every inch of My body- especially My ass :p

We play with a "Girls only" rule, so I get all the pleasure ;-) but Greg has his fun too!

I guess its just so hot that he'd be willing to kiss My ass and lick Me all over, I like a finger back there but we don't do anal.. I didn't realize "ass play" wasn't a "big thing" before now?
 
I am absolutely a slave of the man who lets me finger fuck him and suck his anus. I love the aroma of the anus and love sticking my tongue inside. The saltiness and subtle aroma with the combination of sweat and precum is just heavenly.
 
I am absolutely a slave of the man who lets me finger fuck him and suck his anus. I love the aroma of the anus and love sticking my tongue inside. The saltiness and subtle aroma with the combination of sweat and precum is just heavenly.

Yeah...what you said
 
It seems that by the posts here and the [current] trend of porn now that there are lots of men/women that are seriously into ass play.............fucking, licking, ATM and other variations of that. I've been with a few women that urge me to do it and I've tried it to please them but have never felt comfortable with sticking my cock or tongue into an orifice where the waste of previous food exits the body. The smells, tastes, and sanitation risks have always turned me off and viewing it on porn is a turn off as well.
Are there others that feel same?? What's the big deal in stickng your cock into a dry hole when there are 2 other wet options that taste much better and are much cleaner.
Just wondering.
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Since you mentioned porn...Porn has to be extreme for it to make money, for that perv to click and watch. That isn't a reality. Certainly it is practiced by a few (ATM) to which i'm sure the "actors" take every precaution.
Rimming is a fetish of the oral nature that I truly enjoy performing. that said, Mrs is very hygiene contentious....Anal she absolutely loves, gives her the most intense orgasm. No, their ain't no "dry fucking her back-hole...
What it comes down to...Whatever you're comfortable with, and never compare your girlfriend or wife to porn
 
It is nice while I am licking her pussy to just go on down and lick her asshole too. Then I like to start at her asshole and slide my tongue all the way across her taint through her slit and finish by sucking on her clit!
 
It seems that by the posts here and the [current] trend of porn now that there are lots of men/women that are seriously into ass play.............fucking, licking, ATM and other variations of that. I've been with a few women that urge me to do it and I've tried it to please them but have never felt comfortable with sticking my cock or tongue into an orifice where the waste of previous food exits the body. The smells, tastes, and sanitation risks have always turned me off and viewing it on porn is a turn off as well.
Are there others that feel same?? What's the big deal in stickng your cock into a dry hole when there are 2 other wet options that taste much better and are much cleaner.
Just wondering................

Anal play is a new adventure for me. I had always been curious, and the thought of it turned me on. I think because it seemed so naughty.

I can't say that I have been able to really enjoy anal sex to the point of orgasm from it, but I do enjoy touching around my anus during sex, or a well timed finger as I get close to climax. It's very sensitive, and stimulation there heightens the sensations.

Like all things sexual, you do what you want, and avoid what you don't. If you are not into it, then the answer is fairly simple: Don't do it. :)

As for sanitation risks, I try to make sure I am quite clean before engaging.
 
It's no more of a deal than other sexual activity - but that gets people pretty excited too. For me there is an element of the taboo about it which I find exciting. I am turned on when a partner bends over and I can see her pussy and ass. It feels very intimate. I've always really enjoedy licking pussy and being covered in her juices. I think I first heard about analingus from a story I read and the thought of it made me hard instantly. I undeniably wanted to lick a woman's anus. So I followed my desires. I've mostly got a good reaction from partners - it feels good. I have had my butt licked but it doesn't feel amazing for me. I do like to be penetrated though. I was curious how it would feel - why would people do it if it didn't feel good - so I used my finger on myself and liked the sensation. It's not a huge part of my sex life but variety is the spice of life
 
I am absolutely a slave of the man who lets me finger fuck him and suck his anus. I love the aroma of the anus and love sticking my tongue inside. The saltiness and subtle aroma with the combination of sweat and precum is just heavenly.

Ya I love you! :)
 
For me it's just part of the whole sexual experience, but it has to be something my partner really wants. It's not something I beg for unless I am sure that he will enjoy it as much as I do. The only exception to this rule is when I decide to shave a finger up his ass during a blowjob, but I always rub it first to see if he objects.

The majority of my sexual experiences do not involve anal play, so when it does happen it is kind of special.
 
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