Would you sleep with a married person?

[dirtyolman68]

I think you both make good points. It shows diversity in similar situations. Each is unique in and of itself. The common between the two is lack of communication between married partners. Not for lack of trying on the one side. It's an awfully difficult thing feeling lonely and rejected, and we all have different tolerance levels. There are too many variables in anyones situation to pass judgment from an armchair. If we care enough for each other enough as people, we should take the time to walk in the others shoes so to speak in order to be supportive. Otherwise it's probably best to not say anything rather than risk being destructive.

But that's not what this thread is about is it?

 

[pfflyerhot]

You don't have to be married...

to post on this thread, do you? Please allow me to pick and choose from your posts...

Make a promise? Live up to it.

Right there... in a nut shell. If it's over. It's over. Get out. And, then get your fucking done with someone else. It's the damned deception that blows it for me.

I wouldn't actually do it in real life... I'd like to imagine that I'm a better person than that...

This, for sure...

still... I would HATE having someone treat me like that, so if I'm going to be any sort of decent person, I can't ever do it.

And, most def, this, as well.

Like to think I wouldn't but ive never really been in that position to test my resolve, so you never know

Yep. What Act_Too says, also...

True. Some just reach for the cheating and don't seek improvement.
My wife placed all responsibility for the ills of the relationship on me, not seeing the shared culpability. Each of us was a source of problems - a two way street. But, it's easier to place it all on the other person to justify looking for something elsewhere.
As that situation came out, I worked to fix what I could from my end... as you say. But, what when the other partner resists seeing that they had their shared part of the responsibility for the direction the relationship was taking? What when you see glimmers of hope they'll come to the table to work with you on righting things that require both to right, but more often see them refusing to take ownership? When they outright refuse to participate in counseling for years (then, as a glimmer of hope, say "oh, I think you misunderstood... sure, I'll do counseling")?
It is good for the person to channel what they can into the relationship rather than reaching for cheating as a cop-out. But, there comes a point where you're exhausted from trying to bear the brunt of the work individually. That's kinda where that twisted idea toward the end of my musings comes from... in a way, there's that albeit dysfunctional feeling that life breathed into me from exchanges outside of marriage breathes life into me that I can channel toward keeping going in the marriage.
Right? Nope. I'm not saying it's right. It's just not a simple topic.

Whew. No kidding, huh? I can understand this point of view. It certainly describes how cheating happens... as it all to often does, but ... fuck, man just be straight up about it. Say it. Whatever the hell it is you're NOT saying. Say it. Who knows... you may blurt out, "Honey, I really wanna have sex with Sarah." Her answer? "Great dear, Let's" And ... maybe you go from there... maybe. Don't be afraid to say it... whatever your "it" is.
(I say this in part to remind myself..)
Fucking deception is what gets me...

 

[imready2]

I would never say never as there may be a weak moment... maybe under the infuence or other circumstances!

 

[secret_passion49]

Did It and Loved It!

About 15 years or so ago I had three intimate encounters with married women I met through Yahoo Personals. I was married at the time as well.

I was pretty lucky. The three women were actually quite attractive. And I cannot tell you what a turn on it was to realize you are getting it on with some other clueless, neglectful guy's wife. And getting away with it on my end as well! To this day the now ex-wife has not a clue that these encounters ever happened!

 

[kingkoll]

one of my fantasies is to be with a married woman

 

[bear175]

I slept with a married woman (the same one) quite a few times. And the husband knew. Even had a 3some one night.

 

[sarge_97]

I have had a few affairs with other married women. Once when I was 18 with a 39 year old married woman I worked with. Twice in the military, and twice with my current job. They have stood out in my mind as some of the best times I have had.

 

[adorablebaseballgirl]

Yes

I think I would.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I have and still would. It's even better when it's an agreed upon threesome though, and they both suck your cock

 

[Gwanji16]

Yes

Most definitely. There is love and there is sex. Sometimes the two are one and sometimes not.

 

[johnnieblue44]

Is this a trick question?

 

[hotnwetnow]

Hell yeah

Of course! I have, I would, and I will, every chance I get!

 

[sarge_97]

Of course! I have, I would, and I will, every chance I get!

Now there is someone with the spirit

 

[mctex29]

I totally would.

 

[gubernacht]

I would sleep with one woman I know, she is married, but I am definitely attracted to her, we have become semi close over the last few months, she smiles when she sees me, hugs me generally everytime we meet. But I know she is 100% loyal to her husband, so alas I just have to fantasize for now

 

[bear175]

I would sleep with one woman I know, she is married, but I am definitely attracted to her, we have become semi close over the last few months, she smiles when she sees me, hugs me generally everytime we meet. But I know she is 100% loyal to her husband, so alas I just have to fantasize for now

Never throw the towel ... Things come to fruition at the least expected moment.

 

[tiny_tits]

There wasn't much sleeping....

 

[gubernacht]

Never throw the towel ... Things come to fruition at the least expected moment.

Thanks, who knows what will happen I am open to it if she wants it,

 

[ilovetoeat42]

The only time I've cheated was with a married woman...best sex ever.

 

[screwher]

If I were single then yes I'd have no problem screwing a married woman. Having committed herself to her husband the onus is on her to remain faithful. It's on her to refuse my advances or attraction. I owe her husband nothing.

Just as the other man that fucked my wife had hardly a thought or care for me. He had no connection to me. I don't blame him. My wife is a sexy woman, who was way out if his league to begin with. So when she developed an attraction to him, he took advantage of the situation. Now if he was a friend of mine them is be pissed at him.

 

[abm4766]

sleeping with a married woman makes it more hottie

 

[Andrealikessex]

Yes, and have done it quite often.

 

[nyguy1980]

Yes.

We all makes decisions in life.

Better to enjoy life if you ask me.

 

[screwher]

Hmm as a husband who fantasizes about and desires for other men to screw my wife, it's good to read here that a vast majority of men would fuck her if they could.

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Not if the marriage is anything but "in name only." In other words, if they're separated and the divorce is going through or about to then yes. I would probably do that. But otherwise no. And I definitely would not be "the other man."