How often do you get private messages?

[Kantarii]

Granted, I've only been an actual member on this site for a very short time dispite the fact I visited it for years and years to read the stories, I haven't put much thought into reaching out to communicate with other members. I suppose the main reason is the way the profile is set up here. It looks somewhat different viewing a person's profile on the message board as opposed to viewing a profile of someone that has submitted an erotic story. Needless to say, that is one of the main reasons I don't reach out to communicate with many people on this site.Kant

 

[RawHumor]

I'm sure you're getting more now that you've introduced yourself.

I read your profile. You say that you are a "gender bender" but that your bisexual days are behind you... with your username and picture, it's not really apparent if you are, by birth, a man or a woman. In other words, if you are looking for the opposite gender, then what gender might that be? LOL

I'm not trying to hit on you one way or the other, I'm just curious.

And welcome to Lit. The GB can be unkind sometimes. It's not you. It's us.

 

[Disgustipated]

The last time we bended a gender, we ended up with hashtag.

Fuck.
That.
Noise.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

I'm sure you're getting more now that you've introduced yourself.

I read your profile. You say that you are a "gender bender" but that your bisexual days are behind you... with your username and picture, it's not really apparent if you are, by birth, a man or a woman. In other words, if you are looking for the opposite gender, then what gender might that be? LOL

I'm not trying to hit on you one way or the other, I'm just curious.

And welcome to Lit. The GB can be unkind sometimes. It's not you. It's us.

Denny-What he said. Your photo makes me think cross dressing male.

As for the question my wife and I get several PM's most days. So far never a bad one. Often kinky but that's why we're here.

You have to post on threads to be seen.

 

[hobbit.]

I haven't put much thought I don't reach out to communicate with many people on this site.Kant

Fucking sorted!!

Are you REP~U~B or Democrap?

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

The last time we bended a gender, we ended up with hashtag.

Fuck.
That.
Noise.

Denny-------next time try bending IT double.

 

[bronzeage]

Granted, I've only been an actual member on this site for a very short time dispite the fact I visited it for years and years to read the stories, I haven't put much thought into reaching out to communicate with other members. I suppose the main reason is the way the profile is set up here. It looks somewhat different viewing a person's profile on the message board as opposed to viewing a profile of someone that has submitted an erotic story. Needless to say, that is one of the main reasons I don't reach out to communicate with many people on this site.Kant

You tend to get what you give. If you want to receive pm's, send one when you read an interesting post.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Denny---<-----that's me! The male half

You tend to get what you give. If you want to receive pm's, send one when you read an interesting post.

Denny-------------- Exactly. I enjoyed your PM's and we hardly called each other nasty names.

 

[yossi]

Not super often, and then all of a sudden a whole bunch. I've not yet worked out an algorithm to predict it.

 

[lovetoread]

The last time we bended a gender, we ended up with hashtag.

Fuck.
That.
Noise.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

few and far between.

 

[Kantarii]

I'm sure you're getting more now that you've introduced yourself.

I read your profile. You say that you are a "gender bender" but that your bisexual days are behind you... with your username and picture, it's not really apparent if you are, by birth, a man or a woman. In other words, if you are looking for the opposite gender, then what gender might that be? LOL

I'm not trying to hit on you one way or the other, I'm just curious.

And welcome to Lit. The GB can be unkind sometimes. It's not you. It's us.

*******

I am definitely a man even though I may not always dress accordingly I'm used to being hit on. It goes with the territory when one dresses like the opposite sex. When I say my bisexual exploration days are behind me, I have my reasons to put them behind me. Straight to me means I'm attracted to women even though it looks like I'm fishing with the wrong bait. Self identity has a price most people aren't willing to pay.

I'm sure my sarcastic ass will fit in rather well on this board

 

[UrbanBohemian]

Well I get messages everyday but it depends on the day as to how many. I chat with some people so on those days my mailbox fills up fast but other times it's only about a dozen a day. Not that many people PM me but I do get them everyday. Most are from about ten people but I get various PMs from others too. I like most of the messages I get but some I just delete.

I was looking for some cool people to chat with when I first got here and over the next couple of weeks so that's probably why I get more than others do. I'm still looking for cool people to chat with too. I like chatting with people. The internet is so awesome. We can meet people from all over the world so I think we're very lucky to live in this time. So I reach out to certain people to chat with and I know most people don't do that but it's an interest of mine.

So my advice for people who want more PMs is to reach out to some people and see what happens. Worst case scenario they won't want to chat with you. Not a big thing. Just message some people and see what happens if you want to find some people to talk to.

 

[shewantsmore]

I get some most days,some from strangers but most from friends. I do think you have to be friendly and make an effort or you will never get anyway

 

[BotanyBoy]

About once a month I get a PM from someone who has a question about growing their own or an opinion on why their plants look like shit.

An occasional random hi or w/e about 3 times a year, those are nice and I appreciate them.

That's about it.

I'm not complaining or anything, I'm about as blunt as a hammer and an argumentative cuss but shieeeet....you know.

Got nothing but love for the GB......
http://img.pandawhale.com/44088-Jamaica-Homer-Simpson--One-Lov-G3Kw.jpeg

I also fucking hate you....
http://replygif.net/i/826.gif

Wasting all my fuckin' time here and shit....why should I give a fuck??

There are plenty of cess pools like this on the net, why this one? Why the GB?

IDK why it's a sick fuckin' obsession I tell ya......sick.

 

[Mrtenant]

Never.

 

[yossi]

About once a month I get a PM from someone who has a question about growing their own or an opinion on why their plants look like shit.

An occasional random hi or w/e about 3 times a year.

That's about it.

One of these days I'm going to make it to the west coast and we're going to chill.

 

[Disgustipated]

One of these days I'm going to make it to the west coast and we're going to chill.

 

[Penuche]

It varies.

 

[yossi]

Oh, totally!

 

[BotanyBoy]

One of these days I'm going to make it to the west coast and we're going to chill.

We should just get a WC GB event hapinin....preferably with fishing and beer.

 

[BotanyBoy]

Or maybe I'm just baked enough to make fishing and beer sound really good.....


Fuck it I'm goin' fishing.

 

[Disgustipated]

We should just get a WC GB event hapinin....preferably with fishing and beer.

Oh, totally!

Or maybe I'm just baked enough to make fishing and beer sound really good.....


Fuck it I'm goin' fishing.

Word. BB can bring the flower & beer, I'll bring the wax/concentrates and Yossi can bring the fishing gear.

 

[yossi]

Word. BB can bring the flower & beer, I'll bring the wax/concentrates and Yossi can bring the fishing gear.

Can we just like, shove or hand into the water to catch them? Or are we going to be all fancy with sticks and hooks?

 

[Aphro]

Some days, none. Some days, half a dozen. Depends on if I have posted any pictures.