I have to agree. Opportunity is the problem.
The Straight Guys that Fantasize about Cock Club! Part 2
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I have to agree. Opportunity is the problem.
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If I could find a hot guy with a clean dick, i would suck and fuck it
Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.
Like most here, I don't think I could disagree with anything you've written.
Question though: I find a HUGE part of my arousal surrounding cock comes from the idea of being humiliated for my 'nasty urges'. I constantly seek out gay porn where the bottoms are truly being used roughly, and like sluts (imagining myself as the bottom), or videos with dominant women insulting and humiliating men for their cocklust (frequent use of the word 'faggot' in very derogatory fashion) - forced-bi, cuckolding, or even just those humiliation joi/cei videos where the woman is just talking to you.
Anyone else?
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Possibly,
But as I am more of an alpha male I would more likely to want to make you pleasure me......
First off, yes please
And second, that would lead to my next question: would more 'straight' males interested in cock consider themselves top, or bottoms with regards to their activities with other males?
I've always felt like my submissive nature is what plays a very large role in my interest in cock at all.
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First off, yes please
And second, that would lead to my next question: would more 'straight' males interested in cock consider themselves top, or bottoms with regards to their activities with other males?
I've always felt like my submissive nature is what plays a very large role in my interest in cock at all.
I would have to agree with what you said. I would be more submissive. Most of my fantasies involve my wife getting pleased by another man
It's a common problem
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First off, yes please
And second, that would lead to my next question: would more 'straight' males interested in cock consider themselves top, or bottoms with regards to their activities with other males?
I've always felt like my submissive nature is what plays a very large role in my interest in cock at all.
Good question...
I am mostly an alpha male. Definitions seem to vary from a Dom to some one who is mostly assertive but can be submissive at teh right moment.
I am intrguied to have a small cock up my bum and to flood my ass with his cream..
That dose not in my opinion make me submissive. But some one who is intrguied to try anal penetration....
Being an Alpha male is a trait, not a look or a uniform...
Why?
Scroll down to read my thoughts in response to the posting immediately below. His was an amazing post.
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Originally Posted by uniqueusername View Post
Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.Quote:
Originally Posted by uniqueusername View Post
Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.
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I am glad to discover that I am not alone in these feelings. I have considered myself straight most all of my life. It took seeing gay sex on the internet to change my feelings. First, I came across shemale sex, which completely aroused me and made me rethink sex altogether. I started to fantasize about being the bottom and pleasing a transsexual. And that led me to start looking at gay sex and enjoying it.
My heart does not pound romantic thoughts about men. I don't hate gays. But I have no such feelings. But watching gay sex totally arouses me. Much as I try to push it out of my mind, I find myself thinking a lot about pleasing other men, about having them cum inside my mouth, and taking every drop of their cum. I have not yet bottomed, in no small part for fear of its potential consequences, but watching bareback sex makes me insane with desire to bottom. It's such a powerful compulsion. If I had a partner who I knew I could trust, I probably would.
In my senior year of college, I used to take term papers to a guy who had a typing service. He was very good-looking and extremely well built. I was suspicious that he was gay, and that was okay with me. This was strictly business. I was indifferent to him, to all gay men, and to gay sex then. One day, as I neared graduation, and stopped by to pick up my final term paper, he totally came on to me. He told me that he had fallen in love with me. I freaked out. I felt terribly sorry for him for being so lonely. And I explained nervously but matter of factly that I had no such feelings and that I was straight. My college was in a small midwestern city, and I urged him to move to a city like Chicago, San Francisco, or New York, so that he could be around a community of like-minded men. I sincerely wished him well, and hoped that he would find the happiness that I could never give.
Years later, when something awakened in me, I wondered what it would have been like to have been seduced by him, to sexually please him, and thought about the what-ifs. Yet, I could never have any romantic feelings. I only want the sex. When it comes to love and romance, that is strictly for a woman in my life. But sex is another story.
Why now? Why has this awakened in the middle of my life? Is it because I am in a loving yet sexless marriage? Or have I always latently harbored such lust for a stiff, hypnotic cock? Is it because deep inside, I am a people pleaser, and the dynamic of sucking cock fills a need that I never knew existed?
Reading your posts has taught me to realize that I am not alone. That what once seemed sick and taboo is more normal than I ever understood. Your messages not only arouse me, but help me understand myself, and for that, I thank you.
I am hoping that I can make some friends here. Perhaps I will be lucky enough to meet some of you. I am not a perv, and don't really appreciate creepy guys. But to have an honest dialogue about something so powerful and so abstract would help me understand the feelings that I have. I hope to hear from you.
Scroll down to read my thoughts in response to the posting immediately below. His was an amazing post.
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Originally Posted by uniqueusername View Post
Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.Quote:
Originally Posted by uniqueusername View Post
Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.
______________________________
I am glad to discover that I am not alone in these feelings. I have considered myself straight most all of my life. It took seeing gay sex on the internet to change my feelings. First, I came across shemale sex, which completely aroused me and made me rethink sex altogether. I started to fantasize about being the bottom and pleasing a transsexual. And that led me to start looking at gay sex and enjoying it.
My heart does not pound romantic thoughts about men. I don't hate gays. But I have no such feelings. But watching gay sex totally arouses me. Much as I try to push it out of my mind, I find myself thinking a lot about pleasing other men, about having them cum inside my mouth, and taking every drop of their cum. I have not yet bottomed, in no small part for fear of its potential consequences, but watching bareback sex makes me insane with desire to bottom. It's such a powerful compulsion. If I had a partner who I knew I could trust, I probably would.
In my senior year of college, I used to take term papers to a guy who had a typing service. He was very good-looking and extremely well built. I was suspicious that he was gay, and that was okay with me. This was strictly business. I was indifferent to him, to all gay men, and to gay sex then. One day, as I neared graduation, and stopped by to pick up my final term paper, he totally came on to me. He told me that he had fallen in love with me. I freaked out. I felt terribly sorry for him for being so lonely. And I explained nervously but matter of factly that I had no such feelings and that I was straight. My college was in a small midwestern city, and I urged him to move to a city like Chicago, San Francisco, or New York, so that he could be around a community of like-minded men. I sincerely wished him well, and hoped that he would find the happiness that I could never give.
Years later, when something awakened in me, I wondered what it would have been like to have been seduced by him, to sexually please him, and thought about the what-ifs. Yet, I could never have any romantic feelings. I only want the sex. When it comes to love and romance, that is strictly for a woman in my life. But sex is another story.
Why now? Why has this awakened in the middle of my life? Is it because I am in a loving yet sexless marriage? Or have I always latently harbored such lust for a stiff, hypnotic cock? Is it because deep inside, I am a people pleaser, and the dynamic of sucking cock fills a need that I never knew existed?
Reading your posts has taught me to realize that I am not alone. That what once seemed sick and taboo is more normal than I ever understood. Your messages not only arouse me, but help me understand myself, and for that, I thank you.
I am hoping that I can make some friends here. Perhaps I will be lucky enough to meet some of you. I am not a perv, and don't really appreciate creepy guys. But to have an honest dialogue about something so powerful and so abstract would help me understand the feelings that I have. I hope to hear from you.
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Turn PMs on
Then you'll have at least one man who's happy to chat.
Then you'll have at least one man who's happy to chat.
A fantastic post. Thank you for clarifying what I feel.Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.
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My own personal opinion, in answer to some of your points and questions:
Everyone here's interests are as varied as the individual. We all share at least one thing here: an interest in cock, but not necessarily the guy it's attached to.
I'm sure some enjoy the potential humiliation aspect, while others would rather it was a meeting of equals.
I think a great majority here would love it if a woman were involved in some way, even if it was just sharing in the fantasizing.
I think an almost overwhelming majority here would rather look at a beautiful woman (a definition that varies greatly, as well) than an "equally" beautiful man.
Now, home in on the area below the man's belt, and you've got something. The woman: keep the shot full-body.
As far as top or bottom, I believe many of us, if given the opportunity, would like to give the bottom a try first, primarily because we've all experienced the "fucking and getting sucked" aspect of sexuality, and are curious as to what it's like to be on the other side of that exchange. Not that we wouldn't take the top role if our partner wanted to try the bottom stuff himself...
I don't know the average age of the members of this thread, but if I had to guess, I'd say the majority are probably 40 or older. I think some of us get to an age where we start to question all the strict bullshit we've been raised by our repressed society to take as gospel, and say, "Fuck it." Not that all our attitudes change in a heartbeat, and it isn't that many of us would actually act on our "taboo" interests, but for some unusual reason, we reach a point where adhering to the strict and limited rules of what's considered masculine (in particular) behavior isn't quite as important to us anymore.
You don't really find anybody complaining about a woman who announces that she's also interested in pussy. Hell, hearing that just gets the repressed jerks all hot and horny (hell, it'd make me horny, for that matter). If the announcement goes the other way, it isn't such a rosy scenario. It's why we come to places like this, so we can talk with like minded individuals, and discover that we aren't alone, and that having such thoughts is okay, and actually normal.
My own personal opinion, in answer to some of your points and questions:
Everyone here's interests are as varied as the individual. We all share at least one thing here: an interest in cock, but not necessarily the guy it's attached to.
I'm sure some enjoy the potential humiliation aspect, while others would rather it was a meeting of equals.
I think a great majority here would love it if a woman were involved in some way, even if it was just sharing in the fantasizing.
I think an almost overwhelming majority here would rather look at a beautiful woman (a definition that varies greatly, as well) than an "equally" beautiful man.
Now, home in on the area below the man's belt, and you've got something. The woman: keep the shot full-body.
As far as top or bottom, I believe many of us, if given the opportunity, would like to give the bottom a try first, primarily because we've all experienced the "fucking and getting sucked" aspect of sexuality, and are curious as to what it's like to be on the other side of that exchange. Not that we wouldn't take the top role if our partner wanted to try the bottom stuff himself...
I don't know the average age of the members of this thread, but if I had to guess, I'd say the majority are probably 40 or older. I think some of us get to an age where we start to question all the strict bullshit we've been raised by our repressed society to take as gospel, and say, "Fuck it." Not that all our attitudes change in a heartbeat, and it isn't that many of us would actually act on our "taboo" interests, but for some unusual reason, we reach a point where adhering to the strict and limited rules of what's considered masculine (in particular) behavior isn't quite as important to us anymore.
You don't really find anybody complaining about a woman who announces that she's also interested in pussy. Hell, hearing that just gets the repressed jerks all hot and horny (hell, it'd make me horny, for that matter). If the announcement goes the other way, it isn't such a rosy scenario. It's why we come to places like this, so we can talk with like minded individuals, and discover that we aren't alone, and that having such thoughts is okay, and actually normal.
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Like many here I:
- am not attracted to men. (I never see a guy and think "damn, I'd do him in a heartbeat." But see a hot woman and I can't get her off my mind.)
- gained my appreciation for cock later in life (in my late 30's/early 40's)
- fantasize about sucking and fucking nice cocks. Not "guys," but their cocks.
- have kept my (relatively few) cock-sharing encounters a secret from my wife.
- would love to have my wife or another woman share in my cock-sucking/fucking escapades, but dare not bring it up.
- would do more cock if I weren't scared of diseases.
- watch more gay/bi porn than I'd like to admit
- frequently masturbate to cock sucking/fucking fantasies.
- would enjoy chatting with like-minded men who just want to be able to talk about it with someone who understands.
It is almost as if I wrote this myself, it's precisely how I feel except that I have not had any experience. It remains strictly fantasy for me.
Unique, I would happily chat with you or anyone else about this. PM me anytime.
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Hi all,
Those who are destined to keep their fantasy a fantasy, why?
I know seeing a shemale escort, and sucking on her cock, and making her cum was the perfect release that I needed.
But STDs is an issue with escorts, but so can be with another!
Hi all,
Those who are destined to keep their fantasy a fantasy, why?
I know seeing a shemale escort, and sucking on her cock, and making her cum was the perfect release that I needed.
But STDs is an issue with escorts, but so can be with another!
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For me it is simply that I can't bring myself to cheat on my wife. I want to experience cock but with my wife's participation or at least encouragement.
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I can appreciate that...
But I had to make my own move, otherwise the curiosity would have driven me insane...
Be difficult to be much more in agreement with this than I already am, especially the part about this being something that comes on a lot for men in their 30s and 40s. That was certainly the case with me.
Also agree with the idea of it's almost not even about sexuality as much as it is about us reaching a point in our lives where we realize how ridiculous and uptight the mores and conventions surrounding sexuality are in our culture. To which we start saying: "Fuck it. This is something I'm comfortable exploring, regardless of all the nonsense and paranoia surrounding this topic in our society."
In other words, I think most of us realize it just isn't that big of a deal.
I agree with the (admittedly, somewhat obvious) notion of the double standard regarding how our society views two women going at it compared to two men doing the same thing.
But there are lots of women out there who are really into gay porn and men on men. I think I speak for the lion share of men on this thread when I say I find women like this spectacularly exciting! And I know we have at least a few threads dedicated to them here on lit.
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I strongly agree. I have had this thought myself. Guys like me who have gotten so much pleasure from masturbation see our cocks as a great sex toy. I think that this is particularly true for guys who post on this thread. The fist cock I wanted to suck was my own.
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I want my first experience with another guy to be like this one.
http://m.xhamster.com/movies/3310499/amateur_bisex_twin_cock_sucking_homemade_mmf_threesome.html?pb
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Yes.
Exactly.
Exactly.
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I think for many of us, this is the situation we find ourselves in. This is precisely my attitude on the subject. That, as well as: I think I like it more as a fantasy than actually making it a reality. This is primarily because of the general premise of the thread: cock, not men. To go through with it, there needs to be a person attached to the cock (yes, I know, glory holes, but... well... ew), and the ego and all the baggage that comes with that.
I'd venture a guess that there are a bunch of us who are more interested in the idea of sucking cock and getting fucked, moreso than having an overwhelming need to go through with it.
That's not to criticize those of you who have actually been able to get over that hurdle. I'm not here to say my way is better than anybody else's, primarily because I'm not any of you. That's not a good thing or a bad thing. We all have our limits. And that's not a good thing or bad, either.
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I think if most of us could have managed to suck our own cocks, we'd probably never have left our rooms growing up...
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Lol but some how very true!
Having just very recently received consent from my wife to try sucking cock I am, albeit very nervously, hoping to find Mr Right and realising my fantasy without the guilt of betrayal and telling her all about it. Telling her about the experience is the only restriction to her consent. She wants to know.
