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Hello all, offering hugs and kisses.
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UrbanBohemian
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I have a theory about that. As I just posted, I think our personalities come through in ways we don't even recognize and we somehow learn to pick up on subtle hints. Since you scored very high on the submissive end I think you may have certain writing patterns or use certain words or something that indicate that somehow. The first girl I was ever with way back in high school was submissive and I didn't even know where I fell at that point because I didn't have experience but when she told me she thought about being held down, restrained, etc. I tried it to make her happy but then I kind of discovered that I leaned toward the dominant side. We were both virgins and even then we found each other. Now I'm not a "daddy" or into things like hard degradation or violence or anything like that but I do like some light stuff. And now everyone I've ever been with has been submissive to one degree or another. All of them. I don't think it's a coincidence. And I don't really ask women for their numbers or anything a lot. Most of the time it's a friend of a friend who thinks I'm interesting or cute or something. So they find me somehow too. And it's not just sexual or romantic relationships. The vast majority of my friends are female and again all of them at least a little bit submissive and not one dominant.
I can also tell you I've had a lot of women online want to chat with me sexually, write me stories, or send me pics, videos, etc. Like, a lot. I'm not sure why it happens but it keeps happening. And all of them, again every last one, has been submissive sexually to one degree or another. So I think there's something hardwired in us that attracts the two to one another. Our brains are a lot more complex and capable of a lot more things than most people think they are. It's not psychic powers or anything absurd like that, it's just that our natures assert themselves in all kinds of ways big and small and even if we can't see them someone else usually can.
UrbanBohemian
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I wanted to post this before I took the test. I don't really consider myself that nice a guy, honestly. I can be a dick. I definitely do have some alpha male in me. I'm even a little uncomfortable being called a "nice guy" because people who call themselves that are usually anything but. Those are the assholes who talk about "the friend zone" and all that shit and believe being nice to someone is a reason they should have sex with you or be your girlfriend. I'm not sure I'm comfortable with that kind of baggage. But I'm told I seem like a good person from time to time. Those people might feel differently if they knew me better, I don't know, but I am a bit on the dominant side. I read the article and I'm not sure how accurate it is but it does sound like there's something to it. I'm definitely not a pushover and I will protect what's mine but I do try to be positive and consider how what I say and do affects others. Maybe I'm not into the harder dom stuff because I'm a little bit aggressive and pretty masculine in general. But okay, let's see how I do on this test.
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makemewet69
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My bad, I kind of started it a couple pages back
tnman03
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The Dom/Sub stuff comes up from time to time in conversation. Somehow or another being nice got twisted around after the silly BDSM test was being laughed about. It was all taken in fun and no one took anything seriously.
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UrbanBohemian
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== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
97% Dominant
80% Daddy/Mommy
74% Degrader
73% Master/Mistress
70% Brat Tamer
63% Primal (Hunter)
58% Vanilla
53% Rigger
47% Owner
40% Voyeur
39% Sadist
12% Ageplayer
10% Exhibitionist
7% Non-monogamist
5% Experimentalist
2% Brat
1% Submissive
1% Masochist
1% Degradee
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Girl/Boy
1% Switch
0% Slave
0% Rope Bunny
0% Pet
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1804162
Yeah, not buying it. I don't know where the fuck the "daddy" thing comes from. That is definitely not me. I don't like being submissive or degraded at all. Zero percent. I guess one percent is within the margin of error though. Non-monogamist should be zero too. And I don't know where the fuck the "Ageplayer" thing comes in either. I am attracted to slightly younger women but I don't want to do anything like that. I'm also certainly not a sadist. Anyway, I have a dozen problems with this.
So yeah, sorry. I don't think this is a very good test.
97% Dominant
80% Daddy/Mommy
74% Degrader
73% Master/Mistress
70% Brat Tamer
63% Primal (Hunter)
58% Vanilla
53% Rigger
47% Owner
40% Voyeur
39% Sadist
12% Ageplayer
10% Exhibitionist
7% Non-monogamist
5% Experimentalist
2% Brat
1% Submissive
1% Masochist
1% Degradee
1% Primal (Prey)
1% Girl/Boy
1% Switch
0% Slave
0% Rope Bunny
0% Pet
See my results online at http://bdsmtest.org/result.php?id=1804162
Yeah, not buying it. I don't know where the fuck the "daddy" thing comes from. That is definitely not me. I don't like being submissive or degraded at all. Zero percent. I guess one percent is within the margin of error though. Non-monogamist should be zero too. And I don't know where the fuck the "Ageplayer" thing comes in either. I am attracted to slightly younger women but I don't want to do anything like that. I'm also certainly not a sadist. Anyway, I have a dozen problems with this.
So yeah, sorry. I don't think this is a very good test.
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It looks like you enjoy being a degrader? 
thejabber27
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Oh, those tests are hysterical.
GimpyIntellect
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When does the shit shooting begin?
I'm ready to do this thing...
I'm ready to do this thing...
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GimpyIntellect
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You are already beginning! Yay, you!
Seriously? I've been told I'm an incredibly fast learner. I guess this only proves those remarks.
This is so fun! Shit shooting! Who knew?
Slow Ride469
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Good evening shit shooters.....how's everybody tonight?
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Yes, whoever said that knew what they were talking about. *nods*
It's tons of fun in here.
Stupid tests, LOL.
I already know who I am
Are you my Daddy?
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Hello there. Doing fantastic, how are you?
GimpyIntellect
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This entire time I thought my parents were just placating me, but after visiting this thread, it turns out it's true. Thank you for validating things.
So, do you serve refreshments around here? I've got a bit of a dry mouth.
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sks43
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You just want an allowance
Yeah, I totally didn't want the spanking if I was bad.
*holds out hand*
Slow Ride469
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I'm good,I haven't been around in a while...just dropped in to say hi....nice to see you
tnman03
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Stupid tests, LOL.
I already know who I am
Take a look at the test even if you don't take it, you'll laugh at some of the questions.
Now, SKS wants you to be her daddy so get to work pops...
makemewet69
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Take a look at the test even if you don't take it, you'll laugh at some of the questions.
Now, SKS wants you to be her daddy so get to work pops...
^^^^^
This last sentence, im laughing so hard it hurts lol
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Did your mom say you were the coolest person as well? My mom told me that. I believed her.
I am sure we have something around, lowphat always keeps the liquor cabinet well stocked.
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