Am I bi-curious or bi-sexual and is there a difference?

[susancranfield]

I ,as of now do consider myself bisexual for the simple reason that I have bisexual tendencies. I have had 2 bisexual experiences in my life and I know that I want to experience that again so those 2 experiences obviously did not satisfy that curiousity. I do believe that the settings and reasons for those experiences were all wrong at the time. But I definitely want to go there again, and because of that, I doubt that I am still just curious. If anyone could give me some feedback on this , I would appreciate your imput and opinions.What do you think?

 

[stickygirl]

"Bi women in relationships with men are still bi.

Bi women in relationships with women are still bi.

Bi men in relationships with women are still bi.

Bi men in relationships with men are still bi.
Bi people in relationships with any other people remain bisexual for as long as they identify that way.

Bi people: your relationship does not decide your sexuality."

It seems the hardest part of being bisexual is understanding yourself in a cisgender, heteronormative world. If you're looking to those around you for guidance the chances are they'll just confuse you more, but we all crave that affirmation.

 

[sandles_nosocks]

Thank You.

"Bi women in relationships with men are still bi.

Bi women in relationships with women are still bi.

Bi men in relationships with women are still bi.

Bi men in relationships with men are still bi.
Bi people in relationships with any other people remain bisexual for as long as they identify that way.

Bi people: your relationship does not decide your sexuality."

It seems the hardest part of being bisexual is understanding yourself in a cisgender, heteronormative world. If you're looking to those around you for guidance the chances are they'll just confuse you more, but we all crave that affirmation.

 

[susancranfield]

Bi sexual

Thank you both so much for your feedback and it helped alot.

 

[stickygirl]

Thank you both so much for your feedback and it helped alot.

Welcome
I find both sexes attractive... I find people attractive and sometimes their bodies too. I can't imagine what it must be like to not find someone of your own sex attractive. Does it really matter if we end up acting on those feelings as far as our sexuality goes? Nope. But prepare for all the usual criticism if you do.
Maybe bi-curious is what we call ourselves when we've not had the opportunity to put it into practise or have simply been to frightened to act on our impulses. I hope bi-curious also means you don't criticise people who do!!

 

[dacoach44]

Interesting. My wife died suddenly, and I found myself with a sissy. I loved it, dont want to marry or even go steady. I travel with a dame, 72, who fucks me silly. We do weekends. But she knows I am free to date, and so is she. Guess what I date? CD's. And I love it. So I am bisexual. Discovered this at 70. In the middle of nowhere, I have to travel to Chicago or St Louis for a CD date. And, I dont think of myself as gay, dont go to gay bars, etc. This may confuse others; it is what I love and want.

 

[dacoach44]

And of course, take care of the marriage. I talk to a lot of CD's, who love their femme side. I date one several times a year, and love it as well. How did I know I was bisexual? When a pretty CD was riding me, her cute hard cock was right there, and I just had to kiss it. Love it. And, I am not gay. To me, CD's are women.

 

[Suburbia]

If I had to shorten it to a sweet little easy to understand bit it would be something like this:

Bicurious is: I think I want to try that.
Bisexual is: I have tried that and I like it.

 

[VeronicaMerlin]

Interesting. My wife died suddenly, and I found myself with a sissy. I loved it, dont want to marry or even go steady. I travel with a dame, 72, who fucks me silly. We do weekends. But she knows I am free to date, and so is she. Guess what I date? CD's. And I love it. So I am bisexual. Discovered this at 70. In the middle of nowhere, I have to travel to Chicago or St Louis for a CD date. And, I dont think of myself as gay, dont go to gay bars, etc. This may confuse others; it is what I love and want.

See, when they tell us to "do something that we love"? They ain't just Whisltin' Dixie!