First time bottom

[travler99920]

Anyone care to share experiences?

I had come out to my wife, and I had been with a few men doing oral stuff. I met up with a guy who was I town for a few days. I went to his hotel room. We started chatting. He was also married, and like I he was not all that experienced

We played with each other for awhile. When he got hard he asked me if he could fuck me. I had been think about that for awhile. His cock was in bit longer than mine but thinner. I thought it would be a good cock to start exploring being a bottm. I had thought about it but never been asked if I wanted to bottom. I accepted.

At first he did me doggy. Then he put me on my back, lifted up my legs, and reentered me. I liked how it felt. He did not cum in me. He pulled out, removed his condom and came on my face.

I felt very submissive, and I liked the feeling. The submissive feeling never completely went away. In fact I started being rather submissive to my wife during sex. She noticed the difference, but never asked if it had anything to do with my gay encounters.

 

[Jerseyshore]

As someone that has pretty much been a gay bottom most of my adult life I enjoyed your story, Traveler. I found in my late 20s that I much preferred bottom to top, and the submissive element was that major factor. I was fucked for the first time in my teens by a very experienced top and found myself enjoying the feeling of being seduced and taken, surrendering my body for both our pleasures. I "swapped out" depending on the circumstances for several years. Later on I was fucked by an equally experienced top and realized that it was the way I got the most pleasure. there is something quite wonderful about being in a man's strong arms and letting him do you. It doesn't make you any less a man, either...

 

[loborojotx]

Anyone care to share experiences?

I had come out to my wife, and I had been with a few men doing oral stuff. I met up with a guy who was I town for a few days. I went to his hotel room. We started chatting. He was also married, and like I he was not all that experienced

We played with each other for awhile. When he got hard he asked me if he could fuck me. I had been think about that for awhile. His cock was in bit longer than mine but thinner. I thought it would be a good cock to start exploring being a bottm. I had thought about it but never been asked if I wanted to bottom. I accepted.

At first he did me doggy. Then he put me on my back, lifted up my legs, and reentered me. I liked how it felt. He did not cum in me. He pulled out, removed his condom and came on my face.

I felt very submissive, and I liked the feeling. The submissive feeling never completely went away. In fact I started being rather submissive to my wife during sex. She noticed the difference, but never asked if it had anything to do with my gay encounters.

As someone that has pretty much been a gay bottom most of my adult life I enjoyed your story, Traveler. I found in my late 20s that I much preferred bottom to top, and the submissive element was that major factor. I was fucked for the first time in my teens by a very experienced top and found myself enjoying the feeling of being seduced and taken, surrendering my body for both our pleasures. I "swapped out" depending on the circumstances for several years. Later on I was fucked by an equally experienced top and realized that it was the way I got the most pleasure. there is something quite wonderful about being in a man's strong arms and letting him do you. It doesn't make you any less a man, either...

Wow, Both were great reads, I enjoy being a bottom and the submissive element is a major factor for me too and like Jerseyshore being with someone older in my teens help me realize how much I enjoy pleasing a men and myself being on the bottom

 

[Y_Diner]

i know none of us want to think of this.....

I'm a relative newbie, and say that I'm verse, but frankly thinking I'm more of a bottom. Here's what's on my mind:

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/prep/index.html

Anyone here taking PrEP, and wanna talk about it?

 

[Jerseyshore]

Wow, Both were great reads, I enjoy being a bottom and the submissive element is a major factor for me too and like Jerseyshore being with someone older in my teens help me realize how much I enjoy pleasing a men and myself being on the bottom

Some would have said I was abused but I had a terrible crush on the man for two years and I was very receptive to his advances. It was exciting being brought out by an older, experienced man. I had realized that I was "different" for a few years. I loved hanging out with older boys and had crushes for a few years.

 

[njdude7003]

I had a couple of false starts bottoming starting later(44) I had always topped n my bi experiences but played with my ass during Jo. Last guy I have found that pleasure of giving myself to a true top for his pleasure and hearing him and feeling him enjoy are the best.
He fucks me with a condom,I'm not on prep.

 

[Luv2SukMOff]

Mmm...older men!

Some would have said I was abused but I had a terrible crush on the man for two years and I was very receptive to his advances. It was exciting being brought out by an older, experienced man. I had realized that I was "different" for a few years. I loved hanging out with older boys and had crushes for a few years.

My experience was very similar...I discovered a strong and constantly growing sexual attraction for men in my teens and ALWAYS saw myself as the one on my knees, serving other men's pleasure and getting soooo much pleasure by doing it! And as with other's experience, the deliciously degrading submission of putting my mouth on a man's penis, or letting him shove it into my ass, all for HIS pleasure and enjoyment, was just such an incredible turn-on! So, I was truly a "bottom" well before I ever knelt for a top!

But, even more than that, I instinctively knew that men...older men...would make me feel so much more desirable...would be so much more appreciative and far less judgemental of my secret homosexual desire than my peers! That instinct proved to be correct beyond my wildest imagination, too!

Oh, I had some very hot encounters with older boys and had crushes on several of them, as well. But those guys always let me down...breathlessly telling me how wonderful and hot my mouth was as they unloaded into it...and the next day, telling the world what a nasty little queer I was and how they would never sully their manhood by associating with a fag like me! That was pretty depressing, but it was a good learning experience!

Shortly after those less than ideal encounters, I was fortunate to meet the man who I consider my "first love" to this day! A much older man, he had been forced to put my neighbor, his older sister, into a nursing home. He had come up for a month to clean out and prepare her home for sale and needed help. He spoke with my mom and she hired me out...I needed a pocket money job anyway. Long story short, he was homosexual and I fell in love! That guy was so gentle and firm, erotic and creative and helped me become the bottom I wanted to be! I have always had a very dirty mind, but his was amazing and I soon found myself eagerly performing sex acts that I had barely imagined! And I loved every minute of our lovemaking! That was the watershed summer of my life and I'm forever grateful to that wonderful older lover!

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

All I can say is that as a pansexual man, I love to hear from bottoms. The more I hear of bottoms, the better. Personally, I think that I would enjoy both topping and bottoming, but as I've never tried either....yet, I need to experience both to have a better idea.