How to tease a man?

[GFlakes]

This is a dumb question, but my husband wants me to tease him more. He likes exhibitionism and would like me to do things that make me uncomfortable, like flashing my shaved pussy at a stranger in a restaurant. He says he gets turned on by seeing a little more skin than normal, me wearing sexy clothes, etc. He doesn't get turned on by watching me masturbate or play with toys.

Does anyone have good suggestions for teasing a man?

 

[mikendel]

Hubby likes this too. Try sitting separate at a bar. Guys will talk with you. After tell hubby what guy you would have sex with. Role play that in bed buy telling him what you would have done with that guy. Mine loves me wearing tight tops with no bra, jeans and heels.

 

[bluelaser]

GFlakes, I (male, 60-Ish) too like to be teased a lot. Why not let your man go out on a shopping trip with you, and show you the highheels / short skirts he would like to see you in?

A woman recently let me fo this with her, and I loved the tease. We strolled through, first, the shoe store, browsing the lovely highheels that would showcase her legs to their sexy best. I got really turned on, as she would, with other people right nearby, pick up a pair of very sexy highheels and ask if I liked them - letting me pick out the shoes I would be enjoying on her later on.

Then, we went to a clothing store, and she tried on for me any short skirt I liked, and let me buy a tight, and rather short black dress that shows a lot of leg. She has limits about what she will wear for me at home vs. out in public. She will however indulge my lust for her pretty legs by crossing her bare legs for me and letting me stroke and play with her legs.

When she is traveling, she will text me in the morning with what she is wearing, how high above the knee it is, and tell me how she will cross her pretty legs at work, and have to tug her skirt / dress down. This drives me crazy.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

I spent a whole career teased by women.

One supervisor usta (when we alone) lift her skirt above her waist to adjust her panties or half slip. Others had me adjust their bra straps. Plenty of women exposed their pussies to me, one examined my pipe then inserted it inside her vagina. Pregnant women put my hand inside their dresses to feel their tummies and beyond. A few pressed their breasts against my back. One female therapist rubbed my package with her husband watching. The black woman next door once rubbed my ass with others watching.

 

[GiggLeGasm]

It doesn't sound like he gets off on being teased as much as he gets off on pushing your envelope. the teasing things are just the tool to get there. set boundaries.. have fun. don't be afraid to say no if something isn't enjoyable.. and let the things you do like lead you toward what you enjoy together

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Forcing others into your sex life (via flashing for example) is uncool. Most uncool.

I never take it seriously. That is, I believe women who tease get validation or thrills from it, but it isn't intended to be a blatant seduction or invitation for copulation.

I mean, why post cleavage and breast photos unless there's some thrill or payoff from it.

At some level don't you enjoy men wanting you?

 

[GiggLeGasm]

At some level don't you enjoy men wanting you?

I believe that the many "Stupid things I've heard in a PM" threads suggest that people (not just women) appreciate being attractive to the people who they want to attract. Unwanted sexual moves put out there by strangers tend to be frowned upon.

 

[Dreamer110]

I believe that the many "Stupid things I've heard in a PM" threads suggest that people (not just women) appreciate being attractive to the people who they want to attract. Unwanted sexual moves put out there by strangers tend to be frowned upon.

I've been flashed more than a few times and I'm not complaining. As far as I know not one wanted me. This was for them. I was just the lucky recipient.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

I believe that the many "Stupid things I've heard in a PM" threads suggest that people (not just women) appreciate being attractive to the people who they want to attract. Unwanted sexual moves put out there by strangers tend to be frowned upon.

I get the I DONT WANNA ATTRACT UGLY MEN part, and when you show your tits to the world ugly guys hit on you. My mom usta threaten to shoot ugly men who whistled at her on the street, but she always dressed to attract male attention. NEWS FLASH: Ugly guys think theyre hot studs. Ignore their PMs.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

Of course, on some level we all want to be wanted. There is a difference between cleavage and flashing your genitals at unwitting bystanders as part of foreplay though, at least I would think. Not to mention one could land you on a sex offender list in many parts of the world.

My rule of thumb with women is: Unless or until you touch me I don't take the show seriously. I cant read minds. And much of the time I pay no attention to whats said, because women change their minds in an instant. Contact is my signal to become a participant.

 

[xblazex]

I used to tease hubby back in the day by eating a popsicle in a suggestive manner. Once teased a friend by licking up and down the side of a bottle of Miller Genuine Draft. I have not done either of those things in a long time though.

 

[STRC]

I used to tease hubby back in the day by eating a popsicle in a suggestive manner. Once teased a friend by licking up and down the side of a bottle of Miller Genuine Draft. I have not done either of those things in a long time though.

My question to you is .....why haven't you..? Put it on here or PM me if you choose!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Wear revealing Clothes

My hubby and I have spent a lifetime getting me to tease strangers and many friends. The comment about flashing not being cool apparently means I've been very uncool for over 55 years of my life.
My husband just joined this forum in hopes to add our many stories over the years. In those you can read how I've flashed and teased in so many ways it amazes even us.
I actually stopped wearing revealing clothes several years ago because of my age. Hubby and many frinds begged me to go back to being me. I guess I'll show my ass and boobs as long as one man is still going to look. Yes it's teasing but also fun for almost everyone we've met for 60 years.
No panties, no bra, a mini or hot pants, and tops as low as I can get by with. Teasing, you bet!

 

[amofiga]

Long ago, I had a girl friend that, while we were riding in the car, hike her skirt up while not wearing any panties, and put her feet up on the dashboard. She kept telling me she hoped for a trucker to pass by. I suppose your hubby might like that but hopefully there won't be a pile up on the freeway.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

This is a dumb question, but my husband wants me to tease him more. He likes exhibitionism and would like me to do things that make me uncomfortable, like flashing my shaved pussy at a stranger in a restaurant. He says he gets turned on by seeing a little more skin than normal, me wearing sexy clothes, etc.
Does anyone have good suggestions for teasing a man?

Dollie--------- I answered but this thread died. I'd like to see what others have to say about us women showing ourselves for husbands. The two things I darked are two fun things we enjoy many places. That and wearing a top low enough to make a boob to seem to fall out accidentally.

I'm far from a model but I've been doing these things to please my hubby for over 50 years and may never stop.

It's how we dress and how we feel about our selves that make it happen. No one or no place is safe from me!

 

[PattiJolene]

no undies maybe...ask him to play for you. It will turn you both on.....

 

[GiggLeGasm]

well.. naked certainly qualifies as "a little more skin than normal"

I would hope that I can walk around and consider myself safe but I could be wrong. It's not that I consider it indecent or immoral.. I just don't want to be a part of the public thrill without warning or consent.

 

[Misshotndeep]

This is easy. Say yes in every non-verbal way possible. No touching and then say no with your words. lol

 

[hpycpl]

candaulist

It seems that your hubby may be a "Candaulist" ... One who gets pleasure from exposing/showing off their mate. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candaulism

I myself enjoy the teasing and encourage my wife to dress sexy/revealing when we go out. It's a rush when you catch someone staring or turning their head to follow her walk by.

it is usually reserved for when we travel out of town so that we don't have to worry about running into anyone we know. Neither one of us would want to have her get a reputation.

It's a real turn on mostly for me but also for her in that she gets off on exciting me!

she has worn some sheer tops under a blazer or sweater, that way she can choose when and how much she shows. also some button up tops with one or two many buttons "accidentally" undone.

you can PM me for more ideas...there are many many more!

 

[Zeb_Carter]

Wanna tease me...

Buy a pizza and lock it in a bullet proof clear case. Then put the key in you vagina and run away. I have to catch you to get the key and the pizza.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

Dollie------------I hope my husband don't read this. He'll call his pizza loving friends then hide the key himself.
He has enough silly ideas. Stop this!

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

D-!

for when we travel out of town [/B]so that we don't have to worry about running into anyone we know. Neither one of us would want to have her get a reputation.
she has worn some sheer tops under a blazer or sweater, that way she can choose when and how much she shows. also some button up tops with one or two many buttons "accidentally" undone.

D-!-----Our favorite games the past 50+ years

 

[Cumference]

Wanna tease me...

Buy a pizza and lock it in a bullet proof clear case. Then put the key in you vagina and run away. I have to catch you to get the key and the pizza.

You forgot the part about having your hands cuffed behind the back.