Growing problem. Help wanted.

cal28

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So for the past month I've been way hornier than normal. It wasn't a problem at first but now school has started back up and I find myself becoming... distracted. I'll be reading or writing a paper and I'll just start getting hard and horny then I end up here and/or looking at porn and become distracted.

I thought of several solutions.

1. Schedule in some "me" time each day and put a time limit to it, say one hour. This way I can schedule it around my classes and other obligations.

2. go cold turkey and just stop coming here and if I start getting hard and excited force myself to stay focused on my work.

3. Spend a day watching all the porn I can and try to cum as many times as possible, like really push it and cum a crazy amount hoping this will wear me out for the foreseeable future.

What do you all think? Do you have any other suggestions?
 
What's more important to you? Class or stimulation? Be honest with yourself. Self honesty is the only way you'll really be able to find an answer and make a change.
 
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Number 1 is your best option.

Compartmentalize all of your tasks, and tell yourself that you will stay within the assigned times to do what it is you have scheduled to do during that time. The more you do this, the more self-discipline you will develop, but it will be difficult at first. You can schedule a few times a day for "fun time," as long as you don't make those times so large that nothing else gets done. I schedule multiple breaks during my day. I need them, too.

Good luck. I hope this helps.
 
What's more important to you? Class or stimulation? Be honest with yourself. Self honesty is the only way you'll really be able to find an answer and make a change.

Stimulation, but that come before school. School is way to expensive.
 
Use it as a motivation/reward. Finishing a paper or so many hours of studying = an hour or two of play time. It worked for me, maybe it would work for you.
 
Number 1 is your best option.

Compartmentalize all of your tasks, and tell yourself that you will stay within the assigned times to do what it is you have scheduled to do during that time. The more you do this, the more self-discipline you will develop, but it will be difficult at first. You can schedule a few times a day for "fun time," as long as you don't make those times so large that nothing else gets done. I schedule multiple breaks during my day. I need them, too.

What littlecordelera said.

I do know what your going through. I’m distracted throughout my work day also. I even took my boss to a free lunch today, to make up for my stolen work time, where Ive been emailing, and having quick perusals through Lit. She didn’t know, but still, I was feeling guilty.

What I’m going to try and establish is a routine pattern that will fit in with my day. I have an organized work method, and can push through a lot of work. Use my break times wisely, and I can use a part of my travel time more effectively. So, I need to juggle my life as a mother, wife, ol lover, and a connoisseur of fine Lit postings, and keep every one happy. Hopefully.
 
#1.

As someone else said, use it as a reward for motivation. I can relate from my single days. Try scheduling a block of time at the end of the day after you complete other necessary tasks. Each day will be different, but a typical evening might be: dinner and cleanup, laundry, complete school assignment, and THEN, if you've worked efficiently, you can have any time remaining before 10 PM for yourself.

Time in the morning wouldn't work for me. By noon, I'd be wanting more.
 
So for the past month I've been way hornier than normal. It wasn't a problem at first but now school has started back up and I find myself becoming... distracted. I'll be reading or writing a paper and I'll just start getting hard and horny then I end up here and/or looking at porn and become distracted.

I thought of several solutions.

1. Schedule in some "me" time each day and put a time limit to it, say one hour. This way I can schedule it around my classes and other obligations.

2. go cold turkey and just stop coming here and if I start getting hard and excited force myself to stay focused on my work.

3. Spend a day watching all the porn I can and try to cum as many times as possible, like really push it and cum a crazy amount hoping this will wear me out for the foreseeable future.

What do you all think? Do you have any other suggestions?

Hook up with a girl(guy) to do everything with, the one who loves it all but prefers to do it after the work's done.
 
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