Married Ladies - Does your husband know you are sometimes intimate with a woman?

[Putt88]

If you are Married, is your husband okay with you eating pussy?

Okay ladies, a reversal of that recent question to the bi husbands about their wives knowing about their interests...

Does your husband/partner (male) know you sometimes like to eat pussy? (Just wanted to phrase it similar to the way the question was presented to us guys.)

Feel free to share some of the details?
- Where did you find your "diversion?"
- Is it a regular thing?
- Is it just mutual masturbation, masturbating each other, or the whole enchilada?

Looking forward to the responses and, hopefully, some of the sorted details.

 

[Putt88]

Bumping

Hoping maybe some of you ladies might respond. . .

 

[Leigh81]

With only one gal & he's involved too

L

 

[LincolnDuncan]

With only one gal & he's involved too

L

Leigh, Would you like to have a girl to yourself?
Are there girls that you want that you can't have?

 

[amyforfun]

Yes...we share.

 

[blowit]

I am very aware that my wife is bi curious and has been for a long time. She has my consent to have a discreet girlfriend but is too shy/scared to realise her fantasy and most certainly too scared to initiate a liaison. She would, I think, respond positively to the right lady. I wish she would.

 

[bunny4med]

he encourages my exploration of my sexuality. plus i share some of the time.

 

[Putt88]

Difference to the Men

Thanks for the replies so far! Already see that the women are different then the men with regard to their openness to homosexual activity.

 

[Leigh81]

Leigh, Would you like to have a girl to yourself?
Are there girls that you want that you can't have?

I do get her to myself. It evolved to where my husband is part of it sometimes.
In reality I don't want anyone else, but sure I fantasize sometimes about other gals & also guys. Not going to happen though.

L

 

[coffeegirl]

My husband would LOVE it if I had a girl on the side. As long as he's aware and gets to hear all about it after, and maybe entertain the possibility of joining in some day. The problem is finding someone. I'm SUPER shy in person...

 

[newcouple1128]

My husband would LOVE it if I had a girl on the side. As long as he's aware and gets to hear all about it after, and maybe entertain the possibility of joining in some day. The problem is finding someone. I'm SUPER shy in person...

Same exact situation for my wife and I. Would love for her to have someone, and maybe get to watch from time to time. Just can't find anyone.

 

[coffeegirl]

Same exact situation for my wife and I. Would love for her to have someone, and maybe get to watch from time to time. Just can't find anyone.

I wonder what the chances are that you guys live close by...

Feel free to PM me.

 

[Celticgirl51]

My husband asked me to be with another woman with him involved. I was appalled and refused.
I asked him if he would like me to watch him with another man. He was indignant.
I now am curious about being with a woman and think about it so often.
Reading stories on this site almost daily. Some are so well written, many are laughable.
On with the chase !

 

[ga400us]

Thanks for the replies so far! Already see that the women are different then the men with regard to their openness to homosexual activity.

IMHO, homo or bi-sexuality for women is far more accepted by society (always exceptions) than for men. My guess is that there will be far more men that are "OK" with the wife having a girlfriend than there will be women "OK" with their husband having a boyfriend.

 

[blowit]

My husband would LOVE it if I had a girl on the side. As long as he's aware and gets to hear all about it after, and maybe entertain the possibility of joining in some day. The problem is finding someone. I'm SUPER shy in person...

Exact same here. My wife has my consent but too shy/scared to initiate a liaison. Strange though that she is aware of my own bi curiosity and, whilst she understands and is okay with it, she hasn't reciprocated her consent for me to have a boyfriend. She doesn't outright say no but sort of winks and subtley changes the subject. So sort of tacit consent possibly. But possibly is still risking a major problem if I'm wrong. And to be fair it isn't uncommon for a man to misunderstand his wifes messages lol.

 

[Putt88]

Perception

IMHO, homo or bi-sexuality for women is far more accepted by society (always exceptions) than for men. My guess is that there will be far more men that are "OK" with the wife having a girlfriend than there will be women "OK" with their husband having a boyfriend.

Absolutely agree.

IN GENERAL, homo./bi men are still viewed as being somewhat immasculine and male homosexual sex as coarse, gross and immoral. While F/F sexuality is not viewed in the same light at all; it is even seen and treated as provocative and sensual (ie - Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct).

Think of how many times you have said or heard other guys say: "I wish my wife/GF was bi." How many times have you heard the same remark from a woman about her husband/BF?

 

[luv2chat4u]

My wife doesn't know I know

Absolutely agree.

IN GENERAL, homo./bi men are still viewed as being somewhat immasculine and male homosexual sex as coarse, gross and immoral. While F/F sexuality is not viewed in the same light at all; it is even seen and treated as provocative and sensual (ie - Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct).

Think of how many times you have said or heard other guys say: "I wish my wife/GF was bi." How many times have you heard the same remark from a woman about her husband/BF?

I've known my wife has had a lesbian lover for years. She has been having this discrete secret relationship for years yet she often says I don't know how women can fancy women as a smoke screen.
I think ifs really lovely and I'm very happy for her. Her friend an ex work colleague is such a beautiful person. I find it very arousing. Jim

 

[Katieb_38]

I told my hubby when we got together that I was bisexual, we introduced it into our sex life and he loves watching me with another woman then joining in. He is also ok with me meeting a woman on occasions on my own.

 

[bibethhotwet]

Yes. He knows and joins in. I have my women only times as well. No secrets between my husband and I