An attribute of the opposite sex that first draws you in

[Bigcoat]

What is the one attribute from the opposite that you are always first to notice and first to look for?

I shall kick off with mine,

Posture, I like a lady who carries herself well, comfortable,yet strong and proud of herself.

 

[sexnovella]

Boobs

& ass

 

[lowphat]

Her smile. I'm big into smiles

 

[Iceprincess12]

I agree with low

Friendy, genuine smile.

 

[green337]

Friendy, genuine smile.

Precisely this.

 

[may_I_please]

Quiet confidence

 

[walkingeagle]

Quiet confidence

female---

 

[Kinkenglish]

Her thighs

 

[MichaelinChina]

kneecaps

 

[Domsheena]

Warmth and how he respects me.

 

[SheldonDorian]

Creativity, intellect, and lust for life.

 

[The Next Big Star]

Her eyes. Her eyes can say so much to me upon initially locking mine with hers, even before she speaks a single word.

 

[FelicityJohns]

Warmth, ease, and a willingness to engage.

 

[jasonmason]

Breasts, eyes, ass, smile, personality. In no particular order.

Oh and nipples.

 

[AKentuckyLady]

Intelligence, wit, confidence, humor.

A deep sexy voice doesn't hurt, either

 

[Penuche]

The absolute dealbreaker is that they have to be of the opposite sex.

After that, the right chemistry and an attractive personality - something which I'd struggle to define exactly, but you know it when you see it.

 

[johnnieblue44]

Intelligence, wit, confidence, humor.

A deep sexy voice doesn't hurt, either

Tall blondes with glasses

 

[jainarain]

Smile

 

[janeyl]

A certain knowing look...for either sex...

 

[Bigcoat]

Warmth and how he respects me.

Not sure how you would know at first sight if he would respect you until you engaged with him, but would you even engage with him if he, say ,had bad personal hygiene?

 

[Desiretobedesir]

It's all in the smile and the eyes

 

[Bigcoat]

Intelligence, wit, confidence, humor.

A deep sexy voice doesn't hurt, either

Are you able to tell these things from first meeting someone?
Don't you find these out as you go along, maybe apart from the deep sexy voice

 

[Bigcoat]

A certain knowing look...for either sex...

I do agree with you on this one, there are certain looks that you only know about when you see one

 

[quietlylooking]

Are you able to tell these things from first meeting someone?
Don't you find these out as you go along, maybe apart from the deep sexy voice

I agree completely with AKentuckyLady. I don't really get drawn in by a man's appearance. What makes me sit up and notice a man is his confidence, his intelligence, his kindness, and wit. I find those qualities SO much more sexy than muscles or great hair. Not that I have anything against those things.

Having said that: if he physically resembles another man for whom I have a strong attraction, I might feel a pull...

 

[GiggLeGasm]

an ability to see me despite my every attempt to hide