How often do you get a random pm?

[Lioness]

From a complete stranger who has less than 10 posts on the forum so you have no true way of seeing if this person is real or some freak of nature stalking/trolling?

Is that still a sign of trolling or has it progressed to the new wave of hitting legitimately on someone you might eventually find to be an agreeable partner?

I don't mind them really but I thought this many might be extremely unnatural. I can see one or two occasionally. I've met four new members in the past two days.

I'm not inclined to assume the worse but after so long on the nets, I know better than to assume the best.

Also, I don't know what the "norm" here is now.

 

[yossi]

After I turned on the invisibility feature most of the randoms stopped. A few a month at most, I'd say.

 

[Saint Peter]

You are a lucky duck.

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

From a complete stranger who has less than 10 posts on the forum so you have no true way of seeing if this person is real or some freak of nature stalking/trolling?

Is that still a sign of trolling or has it progressed to the new wave of hitting legitimately on someone you might eventually find to be an agreeable partner?

I don't mind them really but I thought this many might be extremely unnatural. I can see one or two occasionally. I've met four new members in the past two days.

I'm not inclined to assume the worse but after so long on the nets, I know better than to assume the best.

Also, I don't know what the "norm" here is now.

Use an avatar that doesn't portray you as a whore and you'll get surprisingly different results.

 

[Aquagal]

After I turned on the invisibility feature most of the randoms stopped. A few a month at most, I'd say.

This.

Stay out of the Playground...and those stupid benjamin threads.

 

[parodyluvr75]

Almost never, which is fine by me.

 

[pointless]

i have a penis so it's an extremely rare occurrence. when it does happen it's generally some amateurish troll trying to pick a fight behind closed doors, if you will.

or some kissass weirdo.

though, i did get a few nice ones recently that i didn't reply to simply because i was in a very bad mood because of real life stuff. i assume they understand.

 

[Sinny]

Maybe one random message a month. I don't respond to weird flattery, flirtations or questions from anyone with few posts. Most PM traffic I get are from the same five people and it almost always involves cooking. My existence here is dull.

 

[spacekowboy]

Maybe one random message a month. I don't respond to weird flattery, flirtations or questions from anyone with few posts. Most PM traffic I get are from the same five people and it almost always involves cooking. My existence here is dull.

We'll I guess I'll go ahead and delete the stalkery pm I already had on deck.

 

[Lioness]

You are a lucky duck.

Hi! How's Peter? I'm not sure it's necessarily luck but I'm willing to accept your assessment for now.

Use an avatar that doesn't portray you as a whore and you'll get surprisingly different results.

I'm glad we see things differently through different eyes.

After I turned on the invisibility feature most of the randoms stopped. A few a month at most, I'd say.

Ah ha! I think you are onto something and I feel with your avatar, you hold hold more water than Ann.

This.

Stay out of the Playground...and those stupid benjamin threads.

They still have the Playground? Cool.

Almost never, which is fine by me.

I agree. I prefer a clean box.

i have a penis so it's an extremely rare occurrence. when it does happen it's generally some amateurish troll trying to pick a fight behind closed doors, if you will.

or some kissass weirdo.

though, i did get a few nice ones recently that i didn't reply to simply because i was in a very bad mood because of real life stuff. i assume they understand.

Thank you for answering and addressing my question. I truly appreciate it. I can tell by the responses here that is still is a sign of trolling/stalking.

The insight is appreciated folks.

 

[lovetoread]

I get them a lot and read them to Sean.

He just laughs.

Whenever I try to be nice it just ends up with a request for cyber so mostly I dont bother.

 

[Sinny]

We'll I guess I'll go ahead and delete the stalkery pm I already had on deck.

Super wanted to talk about pork with you today.
: pork :

 

[ms_ann_thrope]

Nothing kills a thread better than the old multiquote.

 

[SmileyGirl]

This.

Stay out of the Playground...and those stupid benjamin threads.

Aqua

I'm in the Playground and I rarely ever get random pm's.
I see people complain they get 100's but are all over the 'fuck me'
threads with naked pics! Then they wonder why the pond feeders
come to feed!!! Ugghhh!

 

[Sinny]

I get them a lot and read them to Sean.

He just laughs.

Whenever I try to be nice it just ends up with a request for cyber so mostly I dont bother.

Does Sean ever respond? Because I would read those.
Why do dudes feel safe asking for fake electronic sex with strangers? Baffling.

 

[Saint Peter]

Hi! How's Peter? I'm not sure it's necessarily luck but I'm willing to accept your assessment for now.

It is a big Lit no no to post a PM. I say post 'em. Put those unsolicited PMs out there to be seen by all.

Except mine. Keep those to yourself!

 

[spacekowboy]

Super wanted to talk about pork with you today.
: pork :

It just so happens that I'm handling my sausage.

 

[Lioness]

Nothing kills a thread better than the old multiquote.

You're a ray of sunshine, ain't ya?

I'm glad we took this time to meet properly.

 

[NOIRTRASH]

i have a penis so it's an extremely rare occurrence. when it does happen it's generally some amateurish troll trying to pick a fight behind closed doors, if you will.

or some kissass weirdo.

though, i did get a few nice ones recently that i didn't reply to simply because i was in a very bad mood because of real life stuff. i assume they understand.

^^^^has a pee pee, a penis is 12 inches long and black

 

[Pookie]

After I turned on the invisibility feature most of the randoms stopped. A few a month at most, I'd say.

That did the trick for me. I get the occasional like you do.

 

[Sinny]

It just so happens that I'm handling my sausage.

I heard it had a pretty thick grind.

 

[Lioness]

I get them a lot and read them to Sean.

He just laughs.

Whenever I try to be nice it just ends up with a request for cyber so mostly I dont bother.

Hey!

Yeah, well... I recall it being just like that but I've been mia for so long I wasn't sure if it turned into some new mating call thing or not. It's good to know it's still as it's ever been.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

It just so happens that I'm handling my sausage.

Pic, please!

 

[spacekowboy]

I heard it had a pretty thick grind.

Gives better mouth feel that way. Or so I've been told.

 

[Sinny]

That did the trick for me. I get the occasional like you do.

I wonder if we get so few PMs because we post pics of dicks being mutilated. Perhaps sends the wrong message.