Hypoxia
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I disagree. I can personally attest to two couples who opened and then closed their partnerships, and stayed together long-term, even unto death. I know because I'm the one they invited to live with them. I left later of my own accord, which didn't involve jealousy, only relocation.Of all the scenarios out there I've yet to find one factual or fictional where a couple engages in a polyamory, swinging, cuckolding, etc. activity. Stop and continue together. Because it can't.
In other cases the openness may be more symptom than cause of relationship failure. My first marriage was young, stupid, disastrous. After we stopped trying to appear faithful, the cliché: spouse ends up with best friend. And they've remained together for four decades. Go figure.
YMMV.