The difference between men and women with regards to sex and regards to porn.

[SusanJillParker]

Women don't watch porn (lol) period. If women watch porn at all, they watch porn to humor their men.

Newsflash. Sorry to write this and sorry to burst your bubble but women aren't interested in sex as much as men are.

There. I wrote it. It is written. You heard it here first at roller derby.

"Women aren't interested in sex as much as men are."

Women play a good game of sex but when the chips are down, they'd rather not have sex than have sex. Sorry but it's true. They'd rather tease and entice than to get naked and do the dirty, nasty thing.

It's all about foreplay with women. It's all about the holding, the hugging, the kissing, and even feeling her through her clothes but that's as far as it goes with women.

On the list of priorities of what women want to do on a daily basis, sex is at the bottom. Whereas on the list of priorities of what men want to do on a daily basis, having sex is at the top of the list and fills most of the men's list, other than drinking and watching sports (lol).

Woman are totally different than men. Sometimes it's as if we are the alien species. Other than having two arms, two legs, and being human, women are nothing like men.

Men are so predictable but women seldom are. All women have to do is to show some tit and shake some ass and men will not only follow them anywhere but also do anything that the woman wants. All a woman has to do is to give her man a few hot nights in the sack and men will support her for the rest of her life.

They'll buy her clothes, jewels, furs, a car, give her trips, and even set her up in an apartment, as long as the man thinks that she's faithful to him while he returns home to his wife every night.

All women need do to keep men obediently faithful is to give them sex. In the beginning, women give men sex multiple times a day, then once a day, that turns into once a week, then once a month, and then never.

More women can abstain from sex much longer than men can. Where men can't go hours without wanting to fuck a pussy and/or have their cock sucked, women can go years without ever wanting to even see a cock. Women don't need and/or want sex in the way that men need and/or want sex.

Sorry to burst your bubble but women have sex for men. Wiling their ways in a man's world, women have sex to survive. Women have sex because they feel compelled to have sex. Women have sex because they must. Women have sex because they feel obligated and pressured to have sex, especially when married or in a serious relationship.

If women didn't have to have sex ever again, that would be fine with them. If men were forced not to have sex with women, aka prison, they'd fuck one another up the ass and/or suck one another. Women don't turn lesbian because they're not having sex but men will turn gay when denied having sex with a woman. Go figure. That sure is telling about men and women.

Everything else, the hair, the makeup, the red lipstick, the high heels, the Wonderbra, the sexy clothes, the wiggle when she walks, and the giggle when she talks (lol) is all smoke and mirrors. It's all bullshit.

Just like you, women would rather laze around the house wearing sweats and sneakers with no makeup while watching chick flicks and eating ice cream.

If you're a man, then you've been fooled. You’ve been had. You've been bamboozled. You've been tricked. You've been deceived. You've been played.

"Boo hoo. Oh, poor you."

With men so willing to believe them, women are the best liars.

"I love you."

Newsflash. It's not about you. It's about her. She was always the stronger one, the smarter one, and the better one. You? You're just a lowly man. Shame on you for even thinking that you're the equal of a woman. How dare you even think that? Who the Hell do you even think you are to think that you're better than a woman? Get down on your knees, lick my boots, and beg for my forgiveness for even harboring the thought that you're better than me.

"Bitch! How dare you? Pussy!"

Men are nothing but pussies willing and ready to be used and abused by women for sex.

Sad but true, when it comes to sex, women are seldom on the same page as men. When it comes to sex, women are the superior sex. When it comes to sex, women are in control. When it comes to sex, women own your ass.

Here's a good analogy. Where men would rather have sex, women would rather go shopping.

The only way to bridge the sexual gap that exists between men and women and to come together as a happy couple is for men to have sex with women at the mall (lol).

"Honey? You said after I bought you all of these clothes that you'd blow me," said Roger. "Right? You're still going to suck my cock, right? You said that if I bought you all designer clothes that you'd allow me to cum in your mouth too, right?"

"I have more things to try on and to buy first but yes, I'll blow you and you may cum in my mouth in the car and on the way home," said Susan. "Okay?"

 

[LustKnight]

[Personal attacks and trolling prohibited per our Forum Rules]

 

[GoldenMaia]

no no no no no...uuurrrmmml...no.

...no...

I completely disagree. I think it's quite arrogant that you feel you can speak for 'all women'. You clearly don't have all the facts and view the world through a twisted lens.

I'm not sure who you are trolling here but this whole post is like you're tossing out bait for someone. Aside from stirring up an argument, what are you babbling about?

 

[SusanJillParker]

...no...

I completely disagree. I think it's quite arrogant that you feel you can speak for 'all women'. You clearly don't have all the facts and view the world through a twisted lens.

I'm not sure who you are trolling here but this whole post is like you're tossing out bait for someone. Aside from stirring up an argument, what are you babbling about?

No trolling. No bait. No stirring up shit.

I'm just giving my personal opinion as a women who has spent a life being sexually used and abused by men.

My ex even coerced me to participate in the swinging lifestyle for a few years. Then, when I received more attention from men than he received from women, pulling the plug, while calling me a whore (lol), he wanted to quit.

 

[SusanJillParker]

...no...

I completely disagree. I think it's quite arrogant that you feel you can speak for 'all women'. You clearly don't have all the facts and view the world through a twisted lens.

I'm not sure who you are trolling here but this whole post is like you're tossing out bait for someone. Aside from stirring up an argument, what are you babbling about?

Sorry. Forgive my manners but I haven't had my coffee yet.

I'm sorry that you feel my post was trolling bait.

Thank you for your post. Have a wonderful day.

 

[jomar]

Huh, I thought you were a dude...BFW.

Anyway, you make some sweeping off the cuff generalizations there. You might want to do some research on this.

 

[TxRad]

Huh, I thought you were a dude...BFW.

Anyway, you make some sweeping off the cuff generalizations there. You might want to do some research on this.

Another baiting thread. Not much unlike his bragging threads, which are baiting threads of another type.

A broad brush paints a weird painting. It's all in the details and every person is a detail.

 

[elfin_odalisque]

Huh, I thought you were a dude...BFW.

Anyway, you make some sweeping off the cuff generalizations there. You might want to do some research on this.

'She' is a dude aka boston fiction writer. He is playing with you since he tried to reincarnate himself as a female.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Huh, I thought you were a dude...BFW.

Anyway, you make some sweeping off the cuff generalizations there. You might want to do some research on this.

Sorry for your confusion but the "Dude" is a lady.

Off the cuff generalizations are more than that. As confessed to me by my friends and women that I've talked to through the years about sex, about porn, and about men, "my off the cuff generalization" are more specific than that.

Thank you for your post. Thank you for stopping by to make your comment. Would you like a cup of coffee before you go?

 

[Lori_the_Hoosier]

But the original question posed remains; how can you possibly speak for all women when your opinion is formed by the narrow perspective of your singular experience?

Your whole statement is the most childishly obvious type of syllogism: 'this was my experience, I am a woman, and this is how I feel, therefore these are the experiences of all women, and all women feel this way'.
I think it's arrogant and narrow to claim you know all women feel a certain way, because you are not all women, and your perspective is formed by you and how you view the world. How other women feel about and regard pornography, sex, love, and just about everything else is not given to you to know, not if you are the only yardstick you've used; all you can reasonably claim to know is yourself.

I actually resent you making assumptions about me based on what you've experienced, you have no idea how I view porn, sex, love, men, because you haven't asked me, or anyone, just made sweeping, unfounded statements based on your own acute, tunnel-vision prejudices. Sorry lady, but you don't know me, and you don't speak for me, so go cast your troll-bait elsewhere.

 

[SusanJillParker]

'She' is a dude aka boston fiction writer. He is playing with you since he tried to reincarnate himself as a female.

Sorry Elfin but you're mistaken. No matter, I forgive you for making your "off the cuff generalization" without having any proof to support your allegation that I'm a man and not a woman.

Thank you so very much for your post.

How about a piece of apple pie before you go? I just made it.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Another baiting thread. Not much unlike his bragging threads, which are baiting threads of another type.

A broad brush paints a weird painting. It's all in the details and every person is a detail.

Sorry Mr. TxRad but your mistaken. This thread is not a baiting thread by my personal opinion. You have as much right to disagree with my opinion as I have the right to write my opinion.

Thank you for making a comment to my thread.

Would like a cold, frosty one before you go? Or how about a beer?

 

[SusanJillParker]

But the original question posed remains; how can you possibly speak for all women when your opinion is formed by the narrow perspective of your singular experience?

Your whole statement is the most childishly obvious type of syllogism: 'this was my experience, I am a woman, and this is how I feel, therefore these are the experiences of all women, and all women feel this way'.
I think it's arrogant and narrow to claim you know all women feel a certain way, because you are not all women, and your perspective is formed by you and how you view the world. How other women feel about and regard pornography, sex, love, and just about everything else is not given to you to know, not if you are the only yardstick you've used; all you can reasonably claim to know is yourself.

I actually resent you making assumptions about me based on what you've experienced, you have no idea how I view porn, sex, love, men, because you haven't asked me, or anyone, just made sweeping, unfounded statements based on your own acute, tunnel-vision prejudices. Sorry lady, but you don't know me, and you don't speak for me, so go cast your troll-bait elsewhere.

Ah, that's your problem. I don't speak for all women. I speak for myself. What I do write is what I've noticed over the years.

For me to speak for all women would be quite impossible, don't you think, being that they're are billions of women in the world. I dare say that your allegation that I speak for all women, is a much worse supposition than mine for making my "personal" comment regarding women, sex, and porn.

"Chill. Why are you so angry?"

How about a brownie. Would you like a cookie before you go.

Thank you so very much for stopping by to add to this conversation. You are...swell.

 

[GoldenMaia]

But the original question posed remains; how can you possibly speak for all women when your opinion is formed by the narrow perspective of your singular experience?

Your whole statement is the most childishly obvious type of syllogism: 'this was my experience, I am a woman, and this is how I feel, therefore these are the experiences of all women, and all women feel this way'.
I think it's arrogant and narrow to claim you know all women feel a certain way, because you are not all women, and your perspective is formed by you and how you view the world. How other women feel about and regard pornography, sex, love, and just about everything else is not given to you to know, not if you are the only yardstick you've used; all you can reasonably claim to know is yourself.

I actually resent you making assumptions about me based on what you've experienced, you have no idea how I view porn, sex, love, men, because you haven't asked me, or anyone, just made sweeping, unfounded statements based on your own prejudices. Sorry lady, but you don't know me, you don't speak for me, so go cast your troll-bait elsewhere.

I agree with this statement completely.

There is a cry for help here and I've seen many other messages that just scream out for attention and a need for help. This isn't the place to get the help you need. Counseling. There's no shame in it.

 

[GoldenMaia]

Ah, that's your problem. I don't speak for all women. I speak for myself. What I do write is what I've noticed over the years.

For me to speak for all women would be quite impossible, don't you think, being that they're are billions of women in the world. I dare say that your allegation that I speak for all women, is a much worse supposition than mine for making my "personal" comment regarding women, sex, and porn.

"Chill. Why are you so angry?"

How about a brownie. Would you like a cookie before you go.

Thank you so very much for stopping by to add to this conversation. You are...swell.

Because this snide comment isn't bait either. I see.

 

[SusanJillParker]

I agree with this statement completely.

There is a cry for help here and I've seen many other messages that just scream out for attention and a need for help. This isn't the place to get the help you need. Counseling. There's no shame in it.

Counseling? My therapy is my writing. After being raped by seven men, six were my relatives, I've had physiological therapy for years. Yet, thank you for suggesting counseling. That was very kind of you.

Would you care of a home made cookie before you go?

Thank you so very much for your post and for adding to the discussion, even if you did go off tangent.

You are very nice.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Because this snide comment isn't bait either. I see.

Snide? Bait? Surely you jest.

Having just completed the Donna Reed course of comportment, I can assure you that my comment was sincere, my dear.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Thank you one and all for taking the time out of your busy day to post to my thread. I feel honored. I'm so touched.

Suddenly I feel as if I have a wealth of friends. Whether you agree or disagree with me, that doesn't matter. It is just so very wonderful to be so loved that you would actually make a comment, whether informative, nasty, or rude to my thread.

"Wow!"

I'd like to reiterate that I don't speak for all women. I speak for myself and the women that I've known over the years.

The post that started this thread is just my personal opinion and if I have insulted anyone in any way, I apologize. Please forgive me. I'm only human. I'm just a humble woman and a dumb blonde at that.

Please have some cookies before leaving my thread and please sign your support to elect Hillary as our next president.

"Women power! Go Hillary!"

 

[Lori_the_Hoosier]

Ah, that's your problem. I don't speak for all women. I speak for myself. What I do write is what I've noticed over the years.

For me to speak for all women would be quite impossible, don't you think, being that they're are billions of women in the world. I dare say that your allegation that I speak for all women, is a much worse supposition than mine for making my "personal" comment regarding women, sex, and porn.

"Chill. Why are you so angry?"

How about a brownie. Would you like a cookie before you go.

Thank you so very much for stopping by to add to this conversation. You are...swell.

Every statement you made in your little diatribe is about how 'women' (note the plural), are, what they need, what they want, what they'll do, what they'll take; not once did you say 'this is about me and what I want, what I like, what I'll do', so if you were only talking about yourself, perhaps you should have said so upfront, as I am neither psychic, telepathic, or clairvoyant, nor, I suspect, are any of the other readers on this thread.

You made a string of assertions about women in general, and now you're back-pedaling and claiming you were talking in the abstract personal; read your post, lady, perhaps you should have said so clearly and I would have taken it as just the narrow but valid (for a given value of 'valid') viewpoint of a single, unrepresentative sample of current womanhood and passed along.

However, the general tone and tenor of your assertions indicate to me that either you're so damaged and warped by your alleged experiences that supervised, structured therapy in large doses is what you urgently need, or you're an alt for a misogynistic male whose low-level contempt for women and his 'women are takers and whores' subtext is plain to see. Either way, I do feel desperately sorry for you.

And I'm not angry; I don't do anger.

 

[SusanJillParker]

Every statement you made in your little diatribe is about how 'women' (note the plural), are, what they need, what they want, what they'll do, what they'll take; not once did you say 'this is about me and what I want, what I like, what I'll do', so if you were only talking about yourself, perhaps you should have said so, as I am neither psychic or clairvoyant; you made a string of assertions about women in general, and now you're back-pedaling and claiming you were talking in the abstract personal; read your post, lady, perhaps you should have said so clearly and I would have taken it as the narrow but valid (for a given value of 'valid') viewpoint of a single, unrepresentative sample of current womanhood. Oh, and I'm not angry; when I do get angry, rest assured, I'll let you know,...

I apologize for your confusion. My fault. My bad.

I should have posted a warning, "Intended for mature readers" or a disclaimer,"The views asserted here are those of the author."

Thank you so very much for pointing out my mistakes. You are too kind and very gracious to do that with such aplomb and without losing your temper, I might add.

I'm going to put you on my list for a fruitcake this Christmas? Do you like fruitcake? Everyone loves fruitcake. I bring a fruitcake every year to the insane asylum.

Be careful of the stairs. Oops, sorry. I didn't mean to push you down the stairs. my bad. I was just trying to take your arm. Are you okay? Nod your head if you don't have a concussion.

Sorry about my thread being on the fourth floor. It makes me wish that I had an elevator but all of those stairs keeps my ass firm and tight, just in case a man wants to pinch my ass and/or make a pass at me.

Bye! Have a wonderful day. Stop, look, and listen. Look both ways before crossing the street.

"Oh, gees, that truck nearly hit her. I guess she didn't take my advice to look both ways before crossing the street."

 

[HandsInTheDark]

Sorry for your confusion but the "Dude" is a lady.

I keep hearing debate on this point. It seems to me five minutes with a webcam would settle it forever, and that would be a good thing.

My contention is, everyone posting anything sexual on the internet is male until I see them with their shirt open on a webcam. So you're male. And I've seen males play at being female better than you. If you care to claim otherwise, the aforementioned proof is trivial.

I know women who watch porn. I know women with high sexual drives (we used to call them sluts, until guys figured out that a high sex drive in a woman had advantages). That you generalise in this incorrect fashion just reinforces the belief you're not female, and not all that successful in getting females interested in you. So if you can't lick them, join them?

But you are an attention whore, and I fell for it, so I'm putting you back on ignore. (Bye!) Someone else can do the proof with you; I'd recommend pilot and LC, since they don't agree on much and anything they do agree on is probably accurate.

(I do not understand the phenomena of males pretending to be females, but it's become rampant in chat rooms. Seems to me there's a lot of sexual confusion out there; maybe some sort of reaction to a shifting of social and economic roles in society, but what do I know. I just know it creeps me out. )

 

[SusanJillParker]

I keep hearing debate on this point. It seems to me five minutes with a webcam would settle it forever, and that would be a good thing.

My contention is, everyone posting anything sexual on the internet is male until I see them with their shirt open on a webcam. So you're male. And I've seen males play at being female better than you. If you care to claim otherwise, the aforementioned proof is trivial.

I know women who watch porn. I know women with high sexual drives (we used to call them sluts, until guys figured out that a high sex drive in a woman had advantages). That you generalise in this incorrect fashion just reinforces the belief you're not female, and not all that successful in getting females interested in you. So if you can't lick them, join them?

But you are an attention whore, and I fell for it, so I'm putting you back on ignore. (Bye!) Someone else can do the proof with you; I'd recommend pilot and LC, since they don't agree on much and anything they do agree on is probably accurate.

(I do not understand the phenomena of males pretending to be females, but it's become rampant in chat rooms. Seems to me there's a lot of sexual confusion out there; maybe some sort of reaction to a shifting of social and economic roles in society, but what do I know. I just know it creeps me out. )

Thank you so very much for making such and articulate post on my thread. I'm adding you to my list of Christmas fruitcakes.

I just don't understand why I'm compelled to prove anything to anyone on this site when no one has taken the time to prove anything to me about anything other than being rude, nasty, and judgmental to me whenever I post a thread.

Yet, that's neither here nor there. The fact remains is that we are all good friends and are all having fun.

Happy Veteran's Day. I thank all of the veterans for their service. Every veteran especially those who served overseas in a combat role are my heroes.

 

[TxRad]

So, everyone who disagrees with you deserves a fruitcake.

Uh huh. Maybe you need to reserve a large one for yourself.

Have a nice day, Freddie.

 

[sr71plt]

...no...

I completely disagree. I think it's quite arrogant that you feel you can speak for 'all women'. You clearly don't have all the facts and view the world through a twisted lens.

Susan is a guy named Freddie. He doesn't speak for any women. Yes, he's just trolling again. Has done so for years.

 

[R. Richard]

I hope that you will excuse me, but your sentence is one of the worst that I have ever seen.
"Every veteran especially those who served overseas in a combat role are my heroes."
The sentence seems to confuse the singular and the plural and lacks commas.