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[SMNaughtywife]

Jealousy I feel comes naturally when you like what you have and frankly, don't care to share it. Cultivating is evil business and highly frowned upon in my book. Some teasing is okay between the both as long as it's not hurting the other and it's part of the playful banter. Keeps them on their toes holding that #1 position.

 

[Suz_anne]

Jealousy. It's probably one trait we all wish wasn't part of us. We all have it to varying degrees. It may be the most irrational of all the emotional responses, and the hardest to fend off. I know people will say that aren't the jealous type but they don't exactly claim to be free from jealousy.

But on the other hand, the person that is the one being jealous upon, always sees it favorably to some extent. (Taking the crazed types out of the equation). We all like that someone likes us enough to be jealous, and sometimes that jealous response is cultivated a bit.

But where's the fine line drawn? What level is healthy? Do you find yourself cultivating?

Like others have said, I also find jealousy to be an unattractive quality. I don't like it when I see it in myself or in others. I will admit, I do have a jealous bone. But... I fight it.

I haven't had a crazyjealousgirlfriend moment since I was in my early 20's. When i feel it rise up, I know how to reason with that little monster now. Logic and reason really do go a long way in that endeavor.

I have a husband who is a natural born flirt. He's easy going, he's funny and warm - so some women are drawn to him. I get it. Those are the things that drew me to him, as well. I try to focus on how lucky I am as opposed to throwing daggers at those bitches.

 

[Mayberrygirl]

Jealousy...Yes, I have experienced it as the jealous one as well as being on the receiving end. I do not like it one little bit in either case.

I hate the feeling of not being trusted. I hate not feeling I can trust. The dynamics of a relationship often dictate the level of jealousy that may exist. If the relationship is strong and truthful, with open and honest communication and a realistic understanding of each other exists, I have found that jealousy has no root to grow upon.

 

[sweetsophie512]

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I have a husband who is a natural born flirt. He's easy going, he's funny and warm - so some women are drawn to him. I get it. Those are the things that drew me to him, as well. I try to focus on how lucky I am as opposed to throwing daggers at those bitches.

Yeah, them bitches.

*snicker*

 

[SweetSam42]

when jealousy becomes a regular fight or argument, then there's a problem. I admit I've never felt much jealousy in my real life relationships, so I was unprepared for it online. He would blame me for another man's attentions, and that was a red flag. Time to move along. Save the drama.

That said, I have found myself a little more jealous in some situations at times. I think it's safe to say that jealousy stems from insecurity, and I don't feel as confident about certain situations and where I stand than I have in the past. That's all very vague, but my point is that jealousy is a sign of insecurity, and I don't find it an endearing quality in myself or in others.

 

[Lord Pmann]

That's all very vague, but my point is that jealousy is a sign of insecurity, and I don't find it an endearing quality in myself or in others.

It is vague. So please provide details and names, please.

 

[ChainedUp]

Motivation. Some days it flows like a raging river, other days not so much. We all have our own boot straps to pull ourselves up but some days it just feels like a "fuck it" day, I'm wearing flip-flops.

I'm not one to panic when these moods hit, just put my head down and get some shit done. It almost always corrects itself and the next day I'm right as rain. But it's that "almost" that gnaws.....

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Does this mean that you're wearing flip flops and we don't get a question?

That's cool, of course. I'm just a little concerned that PM will begin showing us flip books of his royal parts in motion.

 

[ChainedUp]

Fair point. Nobody wants that. So I'll take totally obscure and unanswerable for $50 Alex.....

Ever wonder what sex and an orgasm feels like for the other sex. Men are lucky if they can pull off two, women can be like vending machines, as long as you keep hitting the right buttons, they'll keep cumming. (Uh oh, that analogy could cause me some heat). Are men getting the short stick on this? Are women's orgasms not as intense as men's hence the ability to have more?

Research, dammit, we need research on this...

 

[Lord Pmann]

Does this mean that you're wearing flip flops and we don't get a question?

That's cool, of course. I'm just a little concerned that PM will begin showing us flip books of his royal parts in motion.

You would only be so lucky!!!!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

I need something to get the "Sex and Candy" song out of my head.

I kind of like girl orgasms.. and I kind of like being with men who want to push the envelope and cum more times than they thought they could

and I have my "HAPPY" shirt on today..
but I can wear my "LUCKY" shirt tomorrow!

 

[Endless_Night]

Nope. I’ve never wondered what it feels like to orgasm as a man. I like, like, like being a woman.

However, speaking as one who has only recently learned how to do, ahem, more than one orgasm in a session, I have noticed a couple of things. If I just do one, and it’s a longer drawn out build, the one can be crazy strong. With multiples they’re not usually quite as intense. Presumably it’s the same for men?

And…Only 2 more days to Halloween!!!!!!

 

[Suz_anne]

Fair point. Nobody wants that. So I'll take totally obscure and unanswerable for $50 Alex.....

Ever wonder what sex and an orgasm feels like for the other sex. Men are lucky if they can pull off two, women can be like vending machines, as long as you keep hitting the right buttons, they'll keep cumming. (Uh oh, that analogy could cause me some heat). Are men getting the short stick on this? Are women's orgasms not as intense as men's hence the ability to have more?

Research, dammit, we need research on this...

I have always wanted to be a man for just one day. To see what it feels like to have sex, to see how men behave when women aren't around, to see how they're treated in public... okay, mostly it's about sex.

I want to know how it feels to receive a blowjob. What does prostate play feel like? How does it feel to edge an orgasm and then finally find sweet release? Are balls weird? Does nipple play feel just as good as it does for a woman? How does it feel to slide inside a wet and willing vagina? Does anal really feel all that different?

So many questions to answer in one day...

 

[Lord Pmann]

I want to know how it feels to receive a blowjob. What does prostate play feel like? How does it feel to edge an orgasm and then finally find sweet release? Are balls weird? Does nipple play feel just as good as it does for a woman? How does it feel to slide inside a wet and willing vagina? Does anal really feel all that different?

So many questions to answer in one day...

If you ever become a man for one day and you find a woman to let you try all those things out for a day, please give me her contact information.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Fair point. Nobody wants that. So I'll take totally obscure and unanswerable for $50 Alex.....

Ever wonder what sex and an orgasm feels like for the other sex. Men are lucky if they can pull off two, women can be like vending machines, as long as you keep hitting the right buttons, they'll keep cumming. (Uh oh, that analogy could cause me some heat). Are men getting the short stick on this? Are women's orgasms not as intense as men's hence the ability to have more?

Research, dammit, we need research on this...

So I've thought about this long and hard (teehee), what I would do as a woman. I would do the following things, in no particular order:

1. Play with my big, pretty tittaaaaaaays. (I would have Christina Hendricks sized breasts). Likely, I would waste the whole day doing this.

2. Then I would put things in my vagina. Like, anything that would fit.

3. I would find this fabled "clitoris". It's like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow as far as I'm concerned.

4. I'd wait for the first person to say something even just remotely upsetting to me and I would blow the fuck up. Then I'd say, "Sorry, PMS muthafuckas!" And people would just roll their eyes and get away with it. Holy shit I've always wanted to do that.

5. I'd try anal to see if it feels as good receiving as giving.

6. I'd use the shower nozzle on my perfectly constructed vagina because I'm pretty sure that is the best feeling on earth using the high setting.

7. I would have a girl go down on me because I don't really want to fuck a guy because I'm still me and I still like girls.

8. I'd also like to feel the relief of taking my big boobs out of my bra because the way you ladies act, that's as good as a blowjob.

9. I'd speed every fucking where because I'm convinced my boobs can get me out of any ticket.

Yeah. I've thought about this before.

 

[Endless_Night]

Mid you ever become a man for one day and you find a woman to let you try all those things out for a day, please give me her contact information.

LOL! I just snorted TopChico through my nose.

3. I would find this fabled "clitoris". It's like the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow as far as I'm concerned.

9. I'd speed every fucking where because I'm convinced my boobs can get me out of any ticket.

......

 

[SMNaughtywife]

To be aroused, hard and ready to go in 2 minutes?!
This has to be amazing!

 

[Endless_Night]

Today’s question, or something similar, has come up a couple of times. All the answers indicating they’d like to experience a gender switch continue to surprise me. It’s just not something I ever think about. I began to wonder about all the things I like about men and their sexuality. Was I missing out?

How they get excited so easily; hard a moments notice. Just an unexpected glimpse of leg, or how a dress clings to your curves, can bring out a lustful look in their eyes. They’re bigger and stronger, which can be so very exciting when they get aroused, all testosterone and urgent aggression. Sexy, and hot, with just that little dangerous edge of primal need....

Not to mention it’s so cute, how obvious it is when they are…ready to go.

Would it be interesting to experience those things on the flip side? Maybe, but…while I enjoy certain aspects of the male sexuality. A lot. My enjoyment is based on being on the receiving end. So, appealing as men are, I have no desire to live their experience.

Interesting. How differently people view things….

 

[ChainedUp]

One of the things this thread was originally intended to do was to provide information to those on their explorative journey. Hopefully through all the bs that flies about the room that is still happening. So since it's Friday, I'd like to change things up and invite all of you to pose a question you've always wondered about. We don't need to stick with just one topic, so if you pop in later in, you haven't missed your chance. The slate has been wiped clean, and the floor is yours.

 

[Lord Pmann]

One of the things this thread was originally intended to do was to provide information to those on their explorative journey. Hopefully through all the bs that flies about the room that is still happening. So since it's Friday, I'd like to change things up and invite all of you to pose a question you've always wondered about. We don't need to stick with just one topic, so if you pop in later in, you haven't missed your chance. The slate has been wiped clean, and the floor is yours.

Papa Chained... We thank you for the thread. It's one of the few threads on the PG where there is intelligent life present. Kudos to you for maintaining a good thread and coming up with good questions every day.

Quiet, people! C Diddy and I are having a moment.

I'll pose a question:

Most of you are PG posters. Do you navigate to other parts of the forum? If so, what parts? If not, why?

 

[ChainedUp]

A hush falls over the room......

I'm pretty much a PGer. I will wander AmPics, Fetish & Sexuality (if that's even the right name) once in awhile, and on the rare occasion will stroll the halls of the GB. Why? The PG is active, many of the other places move at a snail's pace. The nature of the GB just doesn't fit my style. The PG just works for me. Am Pics? Well, boobs, of course

Papa Chained... We thank you for the thread. It's one of the few threads on the PG where there is intelligent life present. Kudos to you for maintaining a good thread and coming up with good questions every day.

Quiet, people! C Diddy and I are having a moment.

I'll pose a question:

Most of you are PG posters. Do you navigate to other parts of the forum? If so, what parts? If not, why?

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'll answer my own... I used to be a How To member, but I quit going there. Now my time is exclusively split between here and the GB. I spend more time at the GB as it is less syrupy than the PG. There are some assholes there. But if you put like 5-10 people on ignore, the place brightens up. And the political threads mostly disappear when those people go on ignore. There are some great people there though. Some horrible ones too.

The one thing I dislike about the GB is that they politicize everything. There is a thread about math over there right now that has been turned into a liberal/conservative battle somehow. Yes, math.

Occasionally I stroll through the Am Pics section when someone recommends a pic or a thread to me. Or when I get on a trail of stalking, but that doesn't happen too often.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I have ventured off the playground when no one was looking. Sometimes to AmPics, or Fetish, or word games at Author's Hangout, BDSM. I don't go there looking, but they pop up in the NEW POST, and if it interests me, I will go take a look. Even the GB, which is a terrifying place, has managed to annoy me enough to post!

 

[GiggLeGasm]

Most of you are PG posters. Do you navigate to other parts of the forum? If so, what parts? If not, why?

I post mostly here and How To. I enjoy the GB; but I'm more of a lurker there because I don't always feel as up to date on subjects of interest and so I mostly enjoy the reading. That being said, the couple of threads I've initiated in GB have been filled with thought and interest. If I had more time to kill there, I'd probably enjoy it. PG affords me the opportunity to come and go without becoming too involved in any particular topic.

I'll add a question..

As PM mentioned, there are posters who can choose to make anything a battle. It happens on the GB with politics. It happens on the PG in the name of self-righteous indignation. It even happens on the How-To board every time some virgin asks about sex with his mother.

Where do you stand on public debate? Do you engage in them only if they're intellectual? Do you enjoy a good rally that pulls people to a higher ground? Do you find yourself in PMs to complain about other posters?
Do you find yourself more/less impacted on internet forums than you would be in real life.. because of distraction.. or courage.. or something else?

 

[Lord Pmann]

As PM mentioned, there are posters who can choose to make anything a battle. It happens on the GB with politics. It happens on the PG in the name of self-righteous indignation. It even happens on the How-To board every time some virgin asks about sex with his mother.

Where do you stand on public debate? Do you engage in them only if they're intellectual? Do you enjoy a good rally that pulls people to a higher ground? Do you find yourself in PMs to complain about other posters?
Do you find yourself more/less impacted on internet forums than you would be in real life.. because of distraction.. or courage.. or something else?

As a rule, I don't tend to get caught into toooo many debates. However, I've been on a few here. However, the problem, particularly on Internet forums debates, comes from the overuse of fallacies and poor debate tactics. When two people can't agree on the premise of an argument, it becomes impossible to have any sort of debate at all. And I find that when it comes to politics, specifically on the GB. People are hard lined republicans or hard lines democrats and the two cannot agree that the colour red is red. And many of them are very smart, just blinded by their prejudices.

Also, my other pet peeve in those debates is the ease with which people call each other bigots. The definition of bigot, according to Internet fame, is anyone who disagrees with you.