MrHappy212
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- Sep 14, 2015
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I grew up along back roads of small town Texas and I never had the happy home life that other’s take for granted. In fact my childhood ended as I looked through a dusty glass window to see my 12 year old brother hanging from a nylon rope in the closet we shared. Just five minutes earlier he had asked me to play a game. Five days after the funeral I was staying at my uncle’s (dad’s brother) next door and learned what the adults wouldn’t tell me. My first sexual encounter had been bound to a metal table by leather belts .I was just seven years old, but I do not call myself a victim of incest. I am a rape victim and there is no other word for it. I went years looking for help while everyone covered it up, no one wanted to break up the family because of one bad apple.
My father died at the of 60, five days from his 61st birthday. Six months later my mother was in the hospital with colon cancer. I was 13, the bills were piling up and my older siblings had moved away to have lives and families of their own. I was alone and frightened. I knew what would happen and I feared social workers more than anyone else. So I walked down the dirt road looking for work, finally getting hired on a small farm. My employer helped me take care of the bills and gave me transportation when it was needed. I worked for them until sixteen when I dropped out of school, got my GED, and started working two full time shifts at a drive in. Mom was now on disability which barely covered the cost of electricity let alone running water.
It was during this time that I went to the family for help, and was turned away. Either they were in similar financial situations or they simply didn’t want to help me for whatever reason. I did however find help, my mom’s youngest sister had a daughter who just completed nursing school. Mom needed a home nurse, my cousin needed work experience, and we needed the additional income. We solved all three problems.
Two years later I turned 18 and started thinking about myself, never having been on a date before I thought to start out with someone I was already close to -my cousin. One date led to a year long relationship until we eventually separated due to personality conflicts. We’re still close friends, she is now married and lives in Ohio. I however stayed in Texas, married a dragon, and had two beautiful children of my own.
I have seen both sides of incest and I stand firm in my beliefs. Think what you will but sometimes it is just two adults who love each other. It is not always about power and abuse. I also believe that sex with a minor is Rape, no matter if you're related or not and Rape of a child should be punished by painful castration with a rusty pair of scissors.
There, I said my peace...let the flaming begin!
My father died at the of 60, five days from his 61st birthday. Six months later my mother was in the hospital with colon cancer. I was 13, the bills were piling up and my older siblings had moved away to have lives and families of their own. I was alone and frightened. I knew what would happen and I feared social workers more than anyone else. So I walked down the dirt road looking for work, finally getting hired on a small farm. My employer helped me take care of the bills and gave me transportation when it was needed. I worked for them until sixteen when I dropped out of school, got my GED, and started working two full time shifts at a drive in. Mom was now on disability which barely covered the cost of electricity let alone running water.
It was during this time that I went to the family for help, and was turned away. Either they were in similar financial situations or they simply didn’t want to help me for whatever reason. I did however find help, my mom’s youngest sister had a daughter who just completed nursing school. Mom needed a home nurse, my cousin needed work experience, and we needed the additional income. We solved all three problems.
Two years later I turned 18 and started thinking about myself, never having been on a date before I thought to start out with someone I was already close to -my cousin. One date led to a year long relationship until we eventually separated due to personality conflicts. We’re still close friends, she is now married and lives in Ohio. I however stayed in Texas, married a dragon, and had two beautiful children of my own.
I have seen both sides of incest and I stand firm in my beliefs. Think what you will but sometimes it is just two adults who love each other. It is not always about power and abuse. I also believe that sex with a minor is Rape, no matter if you're related or not and Rape of a child should be punished by painful castration with a rusty pair of scissors.
There, I said my peace...let the flaming begin!
