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Lit is a world of alts. How many Lit identities have you posted under?

  • 1

    Votes: 378 78.6%
  • 2 - 3

    Votes: 86 17.9%
  • 4 - 5

    Votes: 7 1.5%
  • > 5

    Votes: 10 2.1%

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Questions will be posted daily at the discretion of Managament.
Also, this is a plead, beg, whine, cajole-free zone.

- Managment
 
Endless, I have only communicated with one member here off board. It was shortly after I joined. It was an experience, to say the least, an experience in just how naive and inexperienced I really was, and possibly still.am, in the online world.

Love, if you stick with people you get to know well, or even just other women it's okay. I'm very tentative about outside communication and I've never had a problem. Perhaps just start with women friends?

Questions will be posted daily at the discretion of Managament.
Also, this is a plead, beg, whine, cajole-free zone.

- Managment

Considers *wiggles* and *lip quivers*, but decides to quite...while she's...err, behind. :D
 
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Life can be full and so enriching it can also be cruel and full of despair. Perception is key. Our time in the physical realm is so short in the whole scheme of things. Look beyond ourselves and deeper into ourselves...feed the soul. I missed the anal context too....dammit...hmmmm...
 
To see a World in a Grain of Sand
And a Heaven in a Wild Flower,
Hold Infinity in the palm of your hand
And Eternity in an hour.

-William Blake

A perfect stanza for a perfect day. Go make it happen.

It's juxtaposed, it can't possibly happen :)
It's all about... imagination

Let me think about that for a minute.

He couldn't possibly know. But ... he did know. Which means you must be his alt? Or he's your alt? Which means that Pman is your alt, not his ...

But I thought you were Collar's alt ???

Collar ... Cuffs ... Chained ... Pmann (poetry man?) ...

My head hurts now. I blame Chained. Or Collar. Or both. Unless they're the same person.

Ughhhh!!!! :confused:

Please refer to my signature line.
It's my fault :p

Holy Cow! I am Chained's alt?

I'm still reeling from the announcement that I am Collar's alt. Her male alt! :eek:

I think I'm having an identity crisis....

Wait a minute. Pmann is Chained's alt?????????? *faints*

I...I...I...am thoroughly confused.

That darn Collar! I say we blame her. :p

<SNIP!>

Pmann is not Chained's Alt. Chained is the embodiment of Pmann's straight Alter Ego - totally different :p :p :p

And you are only my male Alt on Fridays! The rest of the time I am simply unable to keep you in the box!
Now, if I put shoes in the box... ;)
 
Based on your avatar, we'll allow it.

I would say this... They should not make skinny jeans for guys. Unless your dick was blown off in war, you shouldn't wear skinny jeans as a guy.

I found skinny jeans for you.
 
Questions will be posted daily at the discretion of Managament.
Also, this is a plead, beg, whine, cajole-free zone.

- Managment

Pleading and begging does have its uses! But whining....no...

*fades back into the shadows*
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

Did you buy a quote of the day calendar, C Diddy?

I think, for me, I fear inadequacy far greater than the responsibility of power. I find myself to be a rather responsible person. I always look both ways before I cross the street, turn the dryer off before I leave, etc. I do well with power and responsibility. I tend to not let it go to my head. This is surprising, as I have an ego the size of my big black cawk. (See?)

We do carry a large amount of power with us. Our words and our actions can wound. They can also do wonderful things. Power is an amoral figure. It can be used for good or evil. Just like money. With money you can help feed and clothe those less fortunate than you. You can also find ISIS or buy Nickelback CDs.

I would hate to feel inadequate. I think many more people would fear that over power. Maybe I'm off base. But no one wants to feel like they are not good enough. Like they don't meet expectations. I would say, at times, I do try too hard in life to make sure I do measure up. To be the best at this or that. Often times, I'll neglect doing something because I fear not doing a good job.
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?
I'm not afraid of the responsibility of power. I need, though, to feel that I have earned the right to wield that power, and that I continue to maintain that right by using it well (as defined by my own conscience). I don't think that need is any weakness or an inadequacy -- I believe it to be an essential self-dialogue for any bearer of power.

I leave it as an exercise for the reader to determine whether that answers the question. :)
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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

Inadequacy. Always.
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

Neither, really. I think it is a waste of time and energy to fear those things. Instead of focusing on your fears, focus your energy on getting better at what you do. Let go of bad feelings of past or possible future mistakes. Those will paralyze you.

I made it sound easy; in truth, it's not easy to get into that mindset, but possible.
 
:eek: :eek: :eek:

I am trying to get off the board for a short break! Quit doing things that are shocking!

Dang it! :p
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

Well, since the "masses" post sucked me in I might as well answer the question. Dang it! :p

Is it possible that I have a question “habit”? Are there clinics for that? :eek:

So, back to the question. The responsibility of power is scary, particularly the older I get. There is such a discernible shift in my persona when I’m in control for too long. Impatience comes to the fore, my tolerance level diminishes, people begin to aggravate me. More than usual, I mean :rolleyes:. Coupled with these charming little behavioral changes I see an increase in anxiety. The latter is due - I think - to disliking the sense of responsibility control brings. I do not want to be responsible for other people. I am overly scrupulous about monitoring my own behavior as it is, if I have to be concerned about the impact of my actions on others things can get overwhelming fast.

Fear of inadequacy? Meh. I am either adequate, or I am not. Pretty cut and dried….
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

For myself, I don't feel inadequate, I refuse to let dark thoughts of inadequacy do more than try to creep into my mind. I know me...I know what works for me and what doesn't.

However, I like to be in control of certain elements in my life and use that power. It is heady and addictive. Do I want more? Sometimes I do say yes....

And sometimes I like to say "fuck it" and let the control go....just live in the moment, carpe diem, no regrets....:D

So to me, this could end up being a never ending vicious circle....an mentally, exhausting vicious circle. Too much power and then come the questions and then I start to feel inadequate?? Please....let me off the merry go round, I am gonna puke.

And, yes, more pictures for the "masses" would be welcome. :D
 
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?


It depends ..In the world I always have the feeling of inadequacy. If I ever fear the responsibility of power it's because I fear I'm inadequate. ..


Make sense?

However. ...as of late the fear is dissipating....hooray!
 
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