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[Bitesback]

Pandering to the masses, Chained?

Is this your quest to shamelessly seek attention?
Could it be out of confidence in your own power here, or a desperate attempt to get over perceived inadequacies by failing to otherwise engage the masses?

Returning to self imposed exile..
PLEASE someone post after me

 

[Suz_anne]

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. - Marianne Williamson

The first is scary, the second terrifying,for with power comes responsibility. Which do you find more overwhelming, the fear of inadequacy or the responsibility of power?

Fear of disappointing others, of coming up short of expectations is much more of a concern for me than the power of responsibility. I'm a bit of a people pleaser when it comes to my friends and family. Others can fuck off, but knowing I've let a loved one down... it crushes me.

Apparently the place would rather see men kissing than think deep.

So for the masses:

https://d.gr-assets.com/hostedimages/1415998971ra/11874665.gif

I think you're flirting with me, Papa C.

 

[Mayberrygirl]

That question is a double edged sword...power and responsibility...can be an illusion..depends on who is depending on you...If you do not feel inadequate from time to time...then I would send you to the head shrinker for being much too..mmm.. Narcissistic... follow your instincts..

 

[ChainedUp]

This place still somewhat baffles me. Who , how, and what drives interest is a mystery. Yet I've built it and people have come. It's like a relationship you know is good but you can't exactly put your finger on the exact reason why. And usually those are the best relationships, they just are.

What things in your life do you accept without question? Those things or people that just are, without having to dig deep to know why?

 

[Lord Pmann]

This place still somewhat baffles me. Who , how, and what drives interest is a mystery. Yet I've built it and people have come. It's like a relationship you know is good but you can't exactly put your finger on the exact reason why. And usually those are the best relationships, they just are.

What things in your life do you accept without question? Those things or people that just are, without having to dig deep to know why?

I'd say friendships and connections with people are two things I never question. Sometimes it can just be forced. And it's obvious when that's happening.

I've learned to not try to force things. If a connection is there, it's there. If it's not, or if it was and is no longer, then it's best to let it go.

I find that sometimes you talk with people here and it just immediately clicks. Either interests, sexual or otherwise, personalities, sense of humour or whatever are just in tune. I don't question it when that happens. I just smile and go with it.

The ones you try to force generally don't do so well.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Damn, P. Daddy Chained, your gay ass kissing GIFS scared everyone off.

Your question was truly appropriate. These are some unappreciative fuckers.

 

[SMNaughtywife]

I trust my instincts, knowing what is what. I feel I'm pretty good at cutting through the BS of life, people and getting right down to what's important.
I offer myself unapologetically, always genuine and thoughtful.

**pokes Pmann, be nice now you little stick fucker.**

 

[ChainedUp]

Thank God SM saved us Pmann, this was about to turn into you and I sharing thoughts. How scary is that?

 

[Lord Pmann]

Thank God SM saved us Pmann, this was about to turn into you and I sharing thoughts. How scary is that?

I know. It would be like all of our secret PMs on display for all those to read. Although, I don't think we would get steamy like we normally do.

SM came in and became the center to a Pmann and Papa Chained sandwich.

 

[ChainedUp]

Clearly to create a double stuff .....

I know. It would be like all of our secret PMs on display for all those to read. Although, I don't think we would get steamy like we normally do.

SM came in and became the center to a Pmann and Papa Chained sandwich.

 

[Lord Pmann]

Padre Encadenado, I think the slow thread has been caused by this perceived sexual tension between us. The girls got all excited with your wing tips and my lacy bra. And then they wanted more. And that anticipation we gave them, that flip floppy stomach feeling... They've basically been jilling off since about a week ago.

 

[Mayberrygirl]

Eating my popcorn and grinning from the sideline...not a wallflower...I do so enjoy the power of voyeurism...err..I meant to say obsevation..changes channels now.. More entertainment to be found... *Blows kisses to all* Catch ya on the flipside!

 

[Bitesback]

Having proved once that lightening doesn't strike twice, I'll venture another post here (with fingers crossed).

I accept things which I deem to be fate like non-contagious illnesses, death, taxes. Otherwise, as an over thinker, I question lots of things. Not necessarily enough to get all wound up, but I think it's for the betterment of society if we question authority, why we are subjected to so called reforms when it's really change for ideological reasons etc. More personally, I question things like why some people behave the way they do and why I put up with it. I don't always like the answer, and sometimes I work towards a solution or resolution with the outcome likely to be the better for taking that time to question. I'll be more concerned if I stop questioning.

As for this place...it baffles me, too. Yet, I come back.
Pmann, Chained...if you two think you need a third to finally help resolve your sexual tension...try your luck here...
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1233208

 

[Mayberrygirl]

Having proved once that lightening doesn't strike twice, I'll venture another post here (with fingers crossed).

I accept things which I deem to be fate like non-contagious illnesses, death, taxes. Otherwise, as an over thinker, I question lots of things. Not necessarily enough to get all wound up, but I think it's for the betterment of society if we question authority, why we are subjected to so called reforms when it's really change for ideological reasons etc. More personally, I question things like why some people behave the way they do and why I put up with it. I don't always like the answer, and sometimes I work towards a solution or resolution with the outcome likely to be the better for taking that time to question. I'll be more concerned if I stop questioning.

As for this place...it baffles me, too. Yet, I come back.
Pmann, Chained...if you two think you need a third to finally help resolve your sexual tension...try your luck here...
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=1233208

Well done...*applause applause...*

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Clearly to create a double stuff .....

http://thefilmexperience.net/storage/2000s/savage3some.gif?__SQUARESPACE_CACHEVERSION=1424779736643

 

[ChainedUp]

I'm just going to assume that SM is laughing with us not at us

Which brings me to one of my favorite topics - perception. SM's gif is a great example, if she's laughing with us the moment is full of life, enjoying the moment and all life has to offer. If she's laughing at us, our laughter is an attempt to diffuse our own feelings of inadequacy brought on by the laughter. And regardless of truth, perception becomes reality.

I know the "cool answer" will be "I act how I act, without regard to perceptions" but deep down inside do you change your actions/reactions to how they are perceived? Ever join into laughter because everyone else already is? Ever hold anger or jealousy back because you don't want to show the emotion? We all want to say we act however we want but the truth of it is that I think we all act more out of perception than we realize.

 

[photobuff56]

It depends ..In the world I always have the feeling of inadequacy. If I ever fear the responsibility of power it's because I fear I'm inadequate. ..


Make sense?

However. ...as of late the fear is dissipating....hooray!

Sometimes people fear success so much they decide not to succeed.

 

[ChainedUp]

Sidebar Friday

If you wear them, I will cum.

https://nakidmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/tumblr_nmo6jkzd0q1rvnsnmo1_1280.jpg

 

[SMNaughtywife]

Laughter is damn near impossible for me to hold back. Whether it's the hysterical laugh that seems to go on forever or the nervous giggle, these jaunty bursts make themselves known regardless of where I'm at. Yes, I've been embarrassed a time or two when the uncontrollable one surface for the craziest of reasons, but I've never peed my pants, so all is good in my world.
Now on the flip side, I'm very good at hiding my disappointment and irritation. Not in the sense of tucking it away and letting it brew, creating a seething pot of anger. Nope. Issues that strike a cord, I'll pipe up expressing my opinion of 'what the hell'. Other times I'll bite my tongue, rationalize it some how in my head and forget about it. Oh it's hard, don't get me wrong. But something's aren't worth getting feathers ruffled over.

Now that gif.... I'm laughing with you two goons. The best part of an Oreo is the frosting, right?!

 

[ChainedUp]

Now that gif.... I'm laughing with you two goons. The best part of an Oreo is the frosting, right?!

I tend to be partial towards cream fillings myself

 

[Suz_anne]

I know the "cool answer" will be "I act how I act, without regard to perceptions" but deep down inside do you change your actions/reactions to how they are perceived? Ever join into laughter because everyone else already is? Ever hold anger or jealousy back because you don't want to show the emotion?

Yes, on a daily basis. I don't like confrontation and will go to extreme lengths to avoid it to feed into the perception that all is well. It's also a family trait, so basically I come from a long line of little boiling pots of seething rage.

Okay, I'm exaggerating a bit. But it is true that my whole family avoids confrontation. So when something does bubble over, it is often something that has been simmering for months/years and becomes a much larger issue than it should be. I actively try to prevent this in my marriage, but I'm not always successful. Not taking out the garbage turns into WWIII on occasion because at the time, I acted like something he did 6 months ago was no biggie, but I'm still pissed. It's a work in progress.

 

[Suz_anne]

If you wear them, I will cum.

https://nakidmagazine.files.wordpress.com/2015/07/tumblr_nmo6jkzd0q1rvnsnmo1_1280.jpg

Didn't Pmann tell us that he has these pants, but with sheep embroidered on them? I think I recognize his undies.

 

[Lord Pmann]

^^^^
Suzanne, you wish I had those pants. Mine are much more stylish than that.

I tend to be partial towards cream fillings myself

Oh I see what you did, C Daddy... You made that dirty.

 

[ChainedUp]

Oh I see what you did, C Daddy... You made that dirty.

Bismarcks, I tell ya. I'm an angel, wings and all

 

[Jamicurechickie]

Bismarcks, I tell ya. I'm an angel, wings and all

Yeah.....

And your horns are there just to hold up your halo...right???