1HF's av....

Sex play? Seriously? You think this is "sex play"?

You're a really smart lady and I know you support womens issues. Do you really think what is going on here is sex play?

To me this screams absolutely nothing about sex and about some deep seeded issue that wont allow her to experience joy like other people do, and then.....why?

Sex play?

Fuck yeah, it is sex play. Look, I know how some can see it like you do. In some situations, you would be right. But I know that there are also people that enjoy it as 1HF says she does.
 
I don't mind discussion KS. But you aren't willing to discuss anything at all.

What do you think this is? Its discussion. Discussion isn't winning one side over to the other.

Just because I don't agree with it doesn't mean we aren't having discussion on the topic.

Let me ask you a question then.

Have you ever bled during one of your sessions.

Do you thank the person that does this to you.

Were you close with your father?




These are all very personal questions obviously and I would be surprised if you answered them and no crime no foul if you choose not too. I only ask them to move the conversation forward, to try to understand why, and because you seem to want to discuss this.

I will have follow ups as well if you choose to continue the discussion.
 
What do you think this is? Its discussion. Discussion isn't winning one side over to the other.

Just because I don't agree with it doesn't mean we aren't having discussion on the topic.

Let me ask you a question then.

Have you ever bled during one of your sessions.

Do you thank the person that does this to you.

Were you close with your father?




These are all very personal questions obviously and I would be surprised if you answered them and no crime no foul if you choose not too. I only ask them to move the conversation forward, to try to understand why, and because you seem to want to discuss this.

I will have follow ups as well if you choose to continue the discussion.

I'll answer what questions I choose because frankly, my family, childhood etc has no bearing on this topic.

I said you weren't having s discussion because you aren't engaging in any sort of rational conversation. If you have a different opinion, that's fine. But why do you have a need to attack anyone who disagrees with you?

No I haven't bled, or at least not in a long time. But it may be something I'd enjoy.

Yes, I did thank the person that did what is in my AV. I asked him to do it, and he did. Not saying thank you would be impolite.
 
I thought he was asking if the painters were in.

If I was mistaken, I apologize. Either way, we can stem the blood with a Jaffa Cake.

Not knowing what that is, I'll be Googling shortly. Assuming it's not a metaphor and there's actual cake involved, then color me in!
 
I don't understand how pain equal pleasure. For the life of me, I can't understand it.
 
I thought he was asking if the painters were in.

If I was mistaken, I apologize. Either way, we can stem the blood with a Jaffa Cake.

I probably should read the entire thread before I respond for context, but why act differently than most folks on the GB?
 
Tell it to your daughter when she's in 1HF's boat.

Your best friend, your sister what have you.

Tell it to anyone. Anyone outside of this place and see where it gets you.

This coming from a childless dumbass. You will never have to have that discussion. Praise Buddah for that.

You are eternally single so the marking/bruising kink will never be discussed either.

In other words, STFU about it unless you are genuinely interested in the topic.
 
What do you think this is? Its discussion. Discussion isn't winning one side over to the other.

Just because I don't agree with it doesn't mean we aren't having discussion on the topic.

Let me ask you a question then.

Have you ever bled during one of your sessions.

Do you thank the person that does this to you.

Were you close with your father?




These are all very personal questions obviously and I would be surprised if you answered them and no crime no foul if you choose not too. I only ask them to move the conversation forward, to try to understand why, and because you seem to want to discuss this.

I will have follow ups as well if you choose to continue the discussion.


*face palm*
 
Maybe. All I can think though is if you didn't want it discussed you wouldn't be using the av, and you've had your side of the story well supported, almost coddled.

...aaaand KS crosses over into rape apologist territory.

"Did you see what she was wearing? If she didn't want it, she wouldn't have dressed that way."


:rolleyes:
 
I don't understand how pain equal pleasure. For the life of me, I can't understand it.

This is the point. To be into what she is into, there is a very specific reason she is into it and why her mind responds to this.

Honestly? The why is none of my business even though it's the crux of this whole....discussion.

Theres a why. A big more than likely ugly....why.
 
I don't understand how pain equal pleasure. For the life of me, I can't understand it.

me either; all my bruises at the hands of another were nothing todo with love or pleasure. BUT, just because i don't 'get it', and others here have attempted to explain it to me, doesn't mean i have the right to tell consenting adults that they shouldn't do what they do.

for me, it's about treasuring the other person's body AND mind, and to cause physical damage to it is the polar opposite of that. for someone who finds their pleasure/release through pain, my pov is mine and has no bearing on theirs.
 
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