Question for women 50+

[MrBates2]

What is dating like after the age of 50+

I know, you're mature, smart and competent. The last thing you want at 50 is to wake up in the morning with flashbacks to your days as a 20-something, right?

Most people want to find a friend or a life partner, but what about the sex?

 

[albertaboy]

My wife just turned 50 and other than the recuperation period from the surgery she just had, I would say she craves sex as much or more than ever.

 

[MrBates2]

One comment? Young crowd here I be guessin.

 

[bronzeage]

One comment? Young crowd here I be guessin.

The over 50 crowd saves Sunday afternoon for uninterrupted sex. They'll be online soon.

One of the strangest conversations I ever had was with my father, a few weeks after my mother died. They had always had a healthy, vigorous, and loud sex life, at least they did when I still lived at home.

He thought he had become permanently impotent because of diabetes and this greatly depressed him. There were quite a few women who were waiting a respectful time period for mourning, but all had made it clear they wanted to see him, once the mourning was over. I had no real advice, but I tried to be a sympathetic ear.

A few months later I stopped by in the middle of the day. I expected to find him watching TV or working in his office. Instead I heard a familiar noise. The bedroom door was closed, so I left. I saw him the next day. He looked great. All the grief and depression of my mother's death seemed to be lifted off of him. Whatever problems he had with diabetes seemed to be relieved as well. He later married the woman who had been with him that day.

Up until now, that was all I could tell you about with 50-something women. After 8 years of being a 50-something man, I can say that sex is important to 50-something women and you can expect them to check that out before making a commitment.

 

[Noor]

Where is the choice that sex is as important as it always was?

 

[neci]

I know where I'm not wanted.

 

[Noor]

It's usually guys with the lower sex drive I find.

 

[Beco]

Id be curious myself. I think it depends on the woman. Some have high sex drive after 50, others maybe not.

 

[Busybody]

women in th e50's love and need sex

wives of that age.....dont