Dry?

[LegsOpenedWide]

Does anyone else like to be taken sometimes when they're still dry? Or with little to no foreplay so that he has to work harder to get inside?

 

[JulieAnn42]

Short answer, NO.

 

[legolove]

A big no here.

 

[CarnalGerund]

Yikes, that doesn't sound pleasant from a guy's perspective either.

 

[BabblingBrooke]

No, I cannot say that I do. I tend to be on the too-slippery side, and can't imagine dry sex. I don't want to find out, though.

 

[skin2win]

No, I cannot say that I do. I tend to be on the too-slippery side, and can't imagine dry sex. I don't want to find out, though.

so Babbling Brooke is an accurate name

 

[moocha01]

No the wetter the better

 

[coffeelover5]

No the wetter the better

I so agree squirting wet is best I have heard

 

[moocha01]

I so agree squirting wet is best I have heard

Oh definitely

 

[MmmMadam]

A definite no! I'm in agreement with Moocha.

 

[ReadyOne]

An academic question here since I'm not female...

Lady is totally unprepared, sex is the last thing on her mind, etc... but assume she cooperates a little when the guy come along.

He pulls down her pants/hikes her skirt, pulls the panties off, slathers a massive load of <slippery stuff> inside her labia and over his dick, then enters.

Are there other things (besides getting wet) that happen with arousal which makes penetration go a lot better for the lady?

 

[RossieOregon]

No foreplay, no sex, period!

 

[ReadyOne]

After the first time I took my first wife "cold with lots of lube", she said that it was "different" and that she could "develop a taste for it".

Now she had a thing for "neat pain". She really liked slapping her bottom hard during doggy. We could also rapidly shift to anal (lubed good, no stretching, slow entry), and then some attention to her clit would have her cumming quick and hard and long.

I was never sure where "cold with lots of lube" fell on her scale of "neat pain", but she always seemed to enjoy it when I sprung it on her.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I actually don't mind this... it's kind of like a rare treat for me.
The rare part being that I'm NOT wet and ready, because my panties are usually quite damp through the day.
But say we're fresh from the shower and settling down for the night? Our pre-sleep cuddles in the spooning position almost always get him hard and it'll usually lead to very light foreplay but not quite enough to get me really wet and ready. Usually I'll ease back against him so he knows I'm game and it'll takes a bit of extra force to get in when I'm in such a position with my thighs together and not quite prepared. Hurts a little, but I enjoy it, and after the first few strokes I'm dripping and he's already starting to pick up the pace.

Likewise for this. I'm always usually wet so being more dry is a pleasant change sometimes

 

[Carnevil9]

I know this isn't exactly what you asked, but it is kind of related.

I'm a guy who loves handjobs. Now I realize that conventional wisdom is that handjobs need lots of lube. And they ARE great with lots of lube. But I also like them dry. Of course, the giver has to have a very light touch, but that light, sliding, dry touch can really get me going, especially in the early stages. Of course it's not long before I'm begging for some faster, wetter action, but the dry beginning is extremely pleasurable for me.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

I guess we're just weird ladies, huh? Or maybe just a little masochistic.

Weird has its merits

 

[RaynieJ]

Not even for a second. I've had semi-dry sex before and that's unpleasant enough. Slippery is much more fun!

 

[Joeknoxville]

If you're still dry when we get to that point something's wrong with one or both of us.