Sexual frustrations

[Illinoisguy1980]

I need advice or to vent. I'm with an amazing woman. We have a very healthy sex life. We average once a day sometimes twice if we have the time. She absolutely loves it when I go down on her and when I finger her she calls it "time for my trigger fingers" to do their thing. We fuck great each and every time. She is not bi but is open minded to do wild things if in the name of fun or spice. Here is my dilemma. She is a B cup and they are nice and have big nipples. I'm used to being with large breasted woman. I found myself missing the feel of big breasts. Also I miss getting a good blowjob. She sucks cock but the teeth tend to hurt more than feels good and she doesn't swallow. She licks it like a pro though. So I need opinions and thoughts.

 

[RawHumor]

A) Have her practice her cock-sucking technique, and make her aware that she needs to keep her teeth off the goods.
B) Get over it. If things are perfect in all other areas except that her tits are too small, you've got a pretty good thing going there.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

A) Have her practice her cock-sucking technique, and make her aware that she needs to keep her teeth off the goods.
B) Get over it. If things are perfect in all other areas except that her tits are too small, you've got a pretty good thing going there.

I appreciate your honesty. After reading that it does sound like in being too picky huh?

 

[RawHumor]

I appreciate your honesty. After reading that it does sound like in being too picky huh?

Only you can decide what your priorities are... but if you're wanting the perfect woman, you'll be looking for a while.

Sexual compatibility is important - but more the willingness to do things for the other person and to adjust accordingly. If she won't stop teething on your dick, then I'd break up with her.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Only you can decide what your priorities are... but if you're wanting the perfect woman, you'll be looking for a while.

Sexual compatibility is important - but more the willingness to do things for the other person and to adjust accordingly. If she won't stop teething on your dick, then I'd break up with her.

That seems rather harsh doesn't it. I guess I could always go without getting my cock sucked. It's not the end of the world.

 

[RawHumor]

That seems rather harsh doesn't it. I guess I could always go without getting my cock sucked. It's not the end of the world.

I was actually being semi-serious that time. I realize not every woman is willing to suck her guy's cock, but I would think that her goal is to please you. Be gentle with her... don't just tell her outright that she needs to stop using teeth or get out... LOL

But try to gently convey to her that you'd like more lips/tongue/hand and less teeth... she may have seen it in a video one time and thought guys liked it.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

I was actually being semi-serious that time. I realize not every woman is willing to suck her guy's cock, but I would think that her goal is to please you. Be gentle with her... don't just tell her outright that she needs to stop using teeth or get out... LOL

But try to gently convey to her that you'd like more lips/tongue/hand and less teeth... she may have seen it in a video one time and thought guys liked it.

Sounds like a future conversation. I have just been blaming it on that I'm 6'1" and she is 4'11" lol. I'm not a monster cock but I'm also in no way little either. Just above average is my assessment of myself. Do you think this is something that could be changed or remedied?

 

[RawHumor]

Sounds like a future conversation. I have just been blaming it on that I'm 6'1" and she is 4'11" lol. I'm not a monster cock but I'm also in no way little either. Just above average is my assessment of myself. Do you think this is something that could be changed or remedied?

Penis-reduction surgery? LOL

j/k Hopefully the women will chime in. I've never sucked a dick before.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Penis-reduction surgery? LOL

j/k Hopefully the women will chime in. I've never sucked a dick before.

Hell no to the reduction surgery lmao. I'd sprinkle miracle grow on it if i thought it'd give me something to brag and strut about

 

[MaryanneB]

Hon, do you realize what a great thing you have? Good God, ask most of the men here and I'm sure they would be amazed that you are making any bitch what-so-ever. Most of the men I talk to are happy if they get laid twice a month! Get over it, Pal. Enjoy what you have. Appreciate her and love every minute.

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Hon, do you realize what a great thing you have? Good God, ask most of the men here and I'm sure they would be amazed that you are making any bitch what-so-ever. Most of the men I talk to are happy if they get laid twice a month! Get over it, Pal. Enjoy what you have. Appreciate her and love every minute.

It seems I opened a can of worms with this post.

 

[RawHumor]

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[SwitchMaster]

I get it. She just doesn't tick all the boxes. Most guys would swap places with you in a heartbeat and you aren't likely to get any sympathy from me either but I get it. I'm doing well to have vanilla sex twice a month. One half-ass kinky hour per year is typical.

 

[jezzilee]

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OMG... I Laughed hard at this one!

 

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[tristantrotsky]

Guys Who Suck Cock

I truly believe that the more guys get to suck cock, and maybe get fucked up the bum-hole too, the more they'll learn to be appreciative and considerate lovers to their straight partners… personally, I don't need any encouragement to suck cock, I'm a submissive male cock-sucker by nature, that's what I get most sexual-satisfaction from doing, but why restrict that pleasure…? It's sad that there's so much discontent and unhappiness out there caused by sexual frustration. My Boyfriend tells me his wife would suck his cock before they were married, but now she can no longer be bothered and has no interest in doing it for him. So he comes to me whenever he can and he knows he's guaranteed a richly-satisfying self-indulgent blow-job culminating in a moist spunk-in-mouth. It's such a simple and mutually-pleasing thing. His cock is a joy to me, I can't imagine why anyone would not be delighted to suck it. Why does sex have to be so complicated…? I know, there are creepazoids and weirdos lurking behind some ads who can spring unpleasant pervy things on you, you've got to be careful, but most guys are genuine and on the level and only want some no-strings cock-fun.

 

[Laplaciana]

Make a fun workshop out of it. Tell her that you want to be a good boyfriend, and ask her whether she's happy with your sex life.

Ask her whether there are any things she wants you to do.
Things she particularly likes, things she doesn't like, things that are a personal squick for her.
Tell her that any hint of teeth on your tender parts, is a personal squick for you because you get scared that it'll hurt.

Maybe swallowing is a personal squick for her, or your semen tastes bad. There's a reason they call it a job; it's absolute murder on cheek muscles to keep one's teeth completely away.

Then suggest that you have sex one time, where she tells you everything and exactly what she wants you to do, and vice-versa.

As far as breast size, developing upper-body musculature makes them bigger, but I would shut up about them, if I were you. There are few things that will get you dumped faster, than saying to a woman that her breasts are to small.

 

[SlutAddicted]

In a healthy sexual relationship there should be few limits on what you are willing to do for your partner and little to no room for judging that which cannot be changed.

It is entirely reasonable for her to learn to give a good BJ even if it isn't on the top of her list.

It is entirely unreasonable for you to expect her to do anything about the size of her tits. Accept and get over it or do her a favour and let her practice her BJ skills on someone who accepts her body as it is.

 

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