what would you prefer for your first time?

[RoosterRed]

If you could choose the ideal partner for your first same sex experience would you choose a bi person or someone gay?

I haven't had my first time yet and wouldn't rule out either for the right guy, but ideally I would rather be with a gay man. Don't know why, or even if it would make a difference, but there it is.

Just curious what everyone else thinks.

 

[Shavedallover]

My first oral was a straight man. The short story is I went down on him and he loved it. The long story is I did too and did so much more after that.

 

[tonycurinmass]

I think it would just have to be someone safe that I felt comfortable with.

 

[Dreamer110]

I still can't quite decide.

 

[Jenna2641]

I think it would just have to be someone safe that I felt comfortable with.

There you go! My vote exactly!

 

[Wantstotryit]

yes

I'd lime to suck and be fucked

 

[piddlyass]

My first time was with someone I was comfortable with. I didn't feel rushed. There was no hesitation to touch or kiss or lick. I remember when he was inside me he asked if I wanted to swallow, when I said yes he went to the bathroom, washed himself off and I sucked the cum out of him. Our sessions took hours and they were worth it.

 

[carnalcouple]

My first time was with someone I was comfortable with. I didn't feel rushed. There was no hesitation to touch or kiss or lick. I remember when he was inside me he asked if I wanted to swallow, when I said yes he went to the bathroom, washed himself off and I sucked the cum out of him. Our sessions took hours and they were worth it.

Sounds like a great guy for a first time experience, just what you would want

 

[willbethere]

Agree with all safe and comfortable is a must.
Fantasies in the mind are usually much harder to try in real life no matter if it is between a man and women, or guy on guy. With out the comfort and trust level for me anyways there would be to much nervousness and pressure.

 

[Hitchiker69]

I don't care if he's bi or gay, as long as he's passionate, patient, and not forceful or pushy/demanding. Seductive would sum it up in a word. I want to leave his place wanting more, eager to have more sex with him and/or other guys.
I want a guy who will show me how good gay sex can be, as if he were trying to teach me or recruit me into gay life.

 

[J1biboi]

I really didn't choose the one and only guy that I have been with. But he was straight and married and just crazy enough to let me suck his cock one time. If were to get to choose, he would be married and bi, and would let me suck him more than once.

 

[Cuffman]

First time

My first & only experience was with a gay and it was totally amazing
He was real gental with me and just took over.
We didn't fuck, just sucked, played and watched each other wank till we both cum.
He never pressured me, I wish he had, because I feel now I missed out and just want to meet someone gen to take my Virgin arse.
Shame we lost touch.

 

[photobuff56]

I wanted another married Man and preferably someone new at it Like me. And thats what I got, it took awhile to find each other but we did. I think another married man wants the same thing being discreet. Safety was also an issue. We talked for about half and hour and he showed me around his place and then went to his room. We stripped and laid on his bed and he proceeded to explore my penis and then asked if he could suck it.

Unfortunately he couldn't get hard ( ED) but we had a good time sucking and feeling each other then he asked If I wanted to fuck him, I did we cleaned up and we talked and I left.

 

[little cletus]

I think I'd want it to be with someone who identified as straight, but fucked guys when he knew he had power over them. The fantasy is the guy in the gym shower who knows that other men, straight or gay, can't resist themselves around his cock, so he uses that power to make me submit to him. Then he goes home to his wife and his regular life.

 

[PJPenner]

My first sexual encounter with a guy was with a married, bi guy. Over the years, I've been with many bi guys and gay guys. My experiences between the two can be summarized as follows:

• My very best male lover was a married, bi guy.
• While gay guys may have more sexual experience, I found most to be lacking when it came to intimacy. If you want more than a quick suck and fuck, you may be left wanting.
• Bi guys are usually more intimate. (Holding, kissing, etc.)
• I found that most gay guys I was with were looking for a long-term, romantic relationship while most bi guys were only looking for an occasional fuck buddy with no strings attached ... other than friendship.
• Many gay guys were self-centered. They were takers, by nature, instead of givers.
• Many gay guys were totally consumed with cock size ... their own and that of any partner.

Other guys may have entirely different experiences than mine. I'm sure that my selection of men and my geographical location (small city in the Midwest) may have had an impact on my experiences,

 

[AllaFantasy]

Married white bi guy...

I haven't had a first yet, but if/when I do I want to be dressed en femme, like a slut, and I want the guy to be either black, or considerably older...and we'd need plenty of time so I can get my fill...and get filled...

 

[oxfordsea]

Comfortable & Ready

Definitely has to be someone I'm comfortable with, but most likely bi vs gay. As I'd see having a better chance of common desires and interests. But the "comfortable" is the biggest part. So, if my first same sex experience were with a gay man, and we're comfortable in consenting to act on our desires, then I guess it would be fair to say I'm open to considering either way. With my gut hunch being that he'd be bi.

 

[malecasual]

I think I'd want it to be with someone who identified as straight, but fucked guys when he knew he had power over them. The fantasy is the guy in the gym shower who knows that other men, straight or gay, can't resist themselves around his cock, so he uses that power to make me submit to him. Then he goes home to his wife and his regular life.

Your wish is...also mine, care to find a shower that can fit us both?

 

[Dreamer110]

Not quite mine but the shower sounds nice.

 

[Bacton1111]

Someone gentle and nervous just like me who would like to dress up a bit

 

[Samisstout]

I really didn't choose the one and only guy that I have been with. But he was straight and married and just crazy enough to let me suck his cock one time. If were to get to choose, he would be married and bi, and would let me suck him more than once.

This for me too . Could be our little secret .

 

[Dreamer110]

The very nice young man who passed me in the bank a.few months ago. Sigh.

 

[KUJACK]

If you could choose the ideal partner for your first same sex experience would you choose a bi person or someone gay?

I haven't had my first time yet and wouldn't rule out either for the right guy, but ideally I would rather be with a gay man. Don't know why, or even if it would make a difference, but there it is.

Just curious what everyone else thinks.

I was so young at the time, Sex was just sex. No gay or bi thoughts, just sex and men were more likely to give and get. I quit in my twenties because of religion, guilt(Thought I was gay)Now I know its ok to be bi and want to again. Freedom!

 

[klippert]

I think you nailed it...My experiences were similar. Not on any large scale by any stretch...Bi-Married was the preference. The mid-west had nothing to do with it either

My first sexual encounter with a guy was with a married, bi guy. Over the years, I've been with many bi guys and gay guys. My experiences between the two can be summarized as follows:

• My very best male lover was a married, bi guy.
• While gay guys may have more sexual experience, I found most to be lacking when it came to intimacy. If you want more than a quick suck and fuck, you may be left wanting.
• Bi guys are usually more intimate. (Holding, kissing, etc.)
• I found that most gay guys I was with were looking for a long-term, romantic relationship while most bi guys were only looking for an occasional fuck buddy with no strings attached ... other than friendship.
• Many gay guys were self-centered. They were takers, by nature, instead of givers.
• Many gay guys were totally consumed with cock size ... their own and that of any partner.

Other guys may have entirely different experiences than mine. I'm sure that my selection of men and my geographical location (small city in the Midwest) may have had an impact on my experiences

 

[edgrant]

I want to discover with another man who has similar interests. It would be fantastic if he was a virgin too, so we could discover together. I haven't done it yet, but the desire just gets stronger and stronger!!

Safe, discrete, passionate, and willing to take his time. No pain!! Nothing forced, just erotic gay discovery.