Bi, bi....hello

MaryanneB

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Just curious about men on Lit who state that they are bisexual. Does your SO/wife/husband or whatever know that you are bi? How do you go about filling the void...so to speak?
 
Yes, she knows. She doesn't like it and chooses to ignore it. I guess we have a don't ask don't tell policy. I've only filled the void a few times since we've been together. I'm looking for a regular FWB now.

Nice bong.
 
Ex wife never knew i hid it for 15 years my fuck buddy knows because i started with her and her hubby.
 
My exwife knew I was/am...she liked watching and joining in. I got the same pleasure from watching her with her girlfriends
 
her idea

I was always curious, and She had me locate someone online who would let her watch me explore. She wanted to watch him suck me, then it got hot and I had to suck him also. Oh, it didn't take much convincing to get me to do it.
 
It's always best if they know. But I realize that isn't always possible.
It's easier to tell her in the beginning of the relationship. It gets so much harder as the years go by.
 
told her last year

Just curious about men on Lit who state that they are bisexual. Does your SO/wife/husband or whatever know that you are bi? How do you go about filling the void...so to speak?

Yes,
I confessed to her that I was bi.
We have not shared a man yet.
She knows I want to.
Curiousus
 
Yes she know but she also knows that my interest is minimal and conditional. She knows what I do on Lit and is o.k with it. She calls me Linky Dunky.
 
Oh, she totally knows about my preferences, and I know hers. We enjoy checking out guys and girls together, especially when we find the same person attractive. I know that if she were ever to find a romantic partner on the side, it would be a girlfriend, and she know I'd be more likely to have a boyfriend. Neither of us has ever been with anyone else, but we both enjoy the fantasy.
 
No, my wife never knew about my bisexual desires. If she did, I'm pretty sure she would have divorced me. However, in the later years, I think maybe she started to suspect something.
 
Yes, she knows. She doesn't like it and chooses to ignore it. I guess we have a don't ask don't tell policy. I've only filled the void a few times since we've been together. I'm looking for a regular FWB now.

Nice bong.

also look for a divorce.or at least tell your wife too do so.
 
She knows I fantasize about it. Sometimes I point out I guy I found hot, and we talk about him and what we would do to him. It's a turn on, but I'm certain she'd never go for it in real life. I'm not sure if I would either, but I'm getting more and more curious.
 
Just curious about men on Lit who state that they are bisexual. Does your SO/wife/husband or whatever know that you are bi? How do you go about filling the void...so to speak?

She certainly knew at one time, as she introduced me into it. Not sure she knows how long it continued off line.
 
Bi

I told my current wife what I had done in the past but have nt taken that path since we got married many years ago. It would be nice to try again with her directing us, that would be super hot, plus we would not forget her! :)
 
I think my ex suspected, but, to my knowledge, she never knew what I acted on.
 
Sucking-OffMarried Guys

My recent Boyfriends were married, they had stable respectable lives - one was a solicitor, but they were only too happy to use me as their cum-bucket, and I was only too happy to be used. All they wanted was a moist warm hole to shoot spunk into, and I was conveniently complicit. Their wives lived in blissful ignorance of their devious infidelity. Because it was a guy they were mouth-fucking, they didn't even consider it adultery, it was just recreational sex. A form of therapeutic relief. They went home happy. I'm not saying there wasn't any kind of emotional bond or those finer feelings, but the sex was addictive and I got to crave the taste of their fresh spunk. I admit that I'm feeling a little messed up by it all. A little hurt. But at the same time, if the situation arose again, I know I'd be there obediently on my knees with a new married-man's cock saying hello to my tonsils. I'm a fool to myself, but I'm a submissive cock-sucker, it's what I do...
 
Thanks all. I was just wondering about it and the same question could apply to anything outside the so called normal or vanilla type of marital actions. When i was growing up in San Francisco I remember gay friends of my parents talking about men who would marry and keep their sexuality from their wives. Even in San Francisco men were frightened by the stigma. I always thought that was wrong because I couldn't understand why anyone would stop liking someone because of what they did in their own bedroom....I was so innocent and dumb.
So, what about gay husbands who keep up an act?
 
Thanks all. I was just wondering about it and the same question could apply to anything outside the so called normal or vanilla type of marital actions. When i was growing up in San Francisco I remember gay friends of my parents talking about men who would marry and keep their sexuality from their wives. Even in San Francisco men were frightened by the stigma. I always thought that was wrong because I couldn't understand why anyone would stop liking someone because of what they did in their own bedroom....I was so innocent and dumb.
So, what about gay husbands who keep up an act?
Mary Ann, you are never innocent and dumb you've always been smarter than the average. You just ask questions that were obvious but others couldn't see. you are right though when I was giving b******** in my teens I was ashamed of it because I was told by my religion that it was wrong. Now I want to do it again with a vengeance. someday soon I hope I will
 
Mary Ann, you are never innocent and dumb you've always been smarter than the average. You just ask questions that were obvious but others couldn't see. you are right though when I was giving b******** in my teens I was ashamed of it because I was told by my religion that it was wrong. Now I want to do it again with a vengeance. someday soon I hope I will
Growing up in San Francisco was like being on another planet. Everything was different. I really couldn't understand intolerance. So, I went out into the "real world" and was shocked at the way people were treated just because their lifestyle was different.
 
No one should be bringing home STDs to unsuspecting partners.
That goes without saying. Every sexual relationship has a certain level of responsibility which includes disclosure of prior relationships. You need to protect yourself and that gets to your own responsibility.
 
Thanks all. I was just wondering about it and the same question could apply to anything outside the so called normal or vanilla type of marital actions. When i was growing up in San Francisco I remember gay friends of my parents talking about men who would marry and keep their sexuality from their wives. Even in San Francisco men were frightened by the stigma. I always thought that was wrong because I couldn't understand why anyone would stop liking someone because of what they did in their own bedroom....I was so innocent and dumb.
So, what about gay husbands who keep up an act?

As for your last sentence, to be quite honest, I really think that's what bisexual men really are.They aregay. They say they are bisexual because, they just so happen to be married to a woman, or a woman is stupid enough to marry them.Just look at all these threads, and go to your local gay dating app. Most of those so called bisexual men who are married are cheating on their wives with ONLY MEN! And not only that, but most of these men tend to find their true selves once they divorce their wife.

Anyways, a woman deserve to be loved,cherished,and sexually desired by a man that actually wants to be with her
 
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