Bi, bi....hello

[settledseas]

As for your last sentence, to be quite honest, I really think that's what bisexual men really are.They aregay. They say they are bisexual because, they just so happen to be married to a woman, or a woman is stupid enough to marry them.Just look at all these threads, and go to your local gay dating app. Most of those so called bisexual men who are married are cheating on their wives with ONLY MEN! And not only that, but most of these men tend to find their true selves once they divorce their wife.

Anyways, a woman deserve to be loved,cherished,and sexually desired by a man that actually wants to be with her

i do agree with you QV. but, with men and women. there are they, that seek to use the other. just cause they are head over heels for the other.
but, alll any of us can do. is make the best choice we can, and hope it pans out.

 

[NateBiDude]

When I hook up with a girl for a one or two time fuck, I don't see any need to tell her I also like cock. If I start seeing a girl more regularly, then I always tell them. If it's a deal breaker, then so be it. I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not. Just not worth it to me.

 

[bi_wanderer]

I recently came out as bi to my girlfriend. She took it surprisingly well! She is very understanding and will let me indulge. So I'm currently looking for that FWB to fill my void, as you put it. Can't wait!

 

[nightjack]

it's tough

I recently came out to my wife after years of trying to hide the fact from her. It didn't go down too well and we are currently trying to repair the damage. At the end of the day I have opened up to her fully. If we stay together then I will have to remain loyal to her. Places like this are the only option I have if I wish to save my marriage.

At least I can now be comfortable I my own skin.

 

[MaryanneB]

I blame many of the problems on organized religion. Being raised in an atmosphere of hatred toward normal natural actions makes for a society of human beings that are trying to be something they're not. No one should have to hide their real identity. No one.

 

[KUJACK]

Amen

Maryanne hits it on the head. Religion made me ashamed of my past for a long time. Finally I am free to feel how I want without guilt.

 

[larrycando]

As for your last sentence, to be quite honest, I really think that's what bisexual men really are.They aregay. They say they are bisexual because, they just so happen to be married to a woman, or a woman is stupid enough to marry them.Just look at all these threads, and go to your local gay dating app. Most of those so called bisexual men who are married are cheating on their wives with ONLY MEN! And not only that, but most of these men tend to find their true selves once they divorce their wife.

Anyways, a woman deserve to be loved,cherished,and sexually desired by a man that actually wants to be with her

We all know that you are a bigoted cunt.

 

[sr71plt]

As for your last sentence, to be quite honest, I really think that's what bisexual men really are.They aregay. They say they are bisexual because, they just so happen to be married to a woman, or a woman is stupid enough to marry them.Just look at all these threads, and go to your local gay dating app. Most of those so called bisexual men who are married are cheating on their wives with ONLY MEN! And not only that, but most of these men tend to find their true selves once they divorce their wife.

Anyways, a woman deserve to be loved,cherished,and sexually desired by a man that actually wants to be with her

This is nonsense. First, bisexual has already been defined--enjoying sex/having sex with both genders. It's not your place to provide a new definition. Beyond that, it's nonsense to relate it only to marriage or only to men. You don't have to be married to anyone to have sex with both genders and women can be bisexual too.

 

[SlutAddicted]

As for your last sentence, to be quite honest, I really think that's what bisexual men really are.They aregay. They say they are bisexual because, they just so happen to be married to a woman, or a woman is stupid enough to marry them.Just look at all these threads, and go to your local gay dating app. Most of those so called bisexual men who are married are cheating on their wives with ONLY MEN! And not only that, but most of these men tend to find their true selves once they divorce their wife.

Anyways, a woman deserve to be loved,cherished,and sexually desired by a man that actually wants to be with her

It is society's intolerance that has facilitated the scenario of gay men masquerading as straight or the more ill defined bisexual. The fact that some men are in fact gay but can't quite admit it doesn't take away from the fact that others really do enjoy both men and women.

Whether we all accurately self identify is a valid question. But I am entirely certain that there are men (and women) who are sincerely attracted to and enjoy sex with both genders. And there are some that are fooling themselves. What is the imperative to lump us all into one simplified definition?

I really do like dick and pussy. I've considered the possibility that I am fooling myself but when I stick to one I crave the other. And I wouldn't try to represent to any partner that I will be faithful and devoted if I don't mean it. Who the fuck are you to tell me that either aspect of my desire is invalid?

 

[klippert]

Just curious about men on Lit who state that they are bisexual. Does your SO/wife/husband or whatever know that you are bi? How do you go about filling the void...so to speak?

I'm in my own category i guess..I haven't told Mrs K about my bi sex (m/m MFM) experiences...with that said. all the joking and innuendos. She has a VERY good Idea that something has gone on in my past

 

[panty wearer]

I tried to tell my wife but she doesn't want to know.