Kinky ideas

[NewDaddyDom]

Earlier today my wife/sub informed me she wanted to start getting kinky. I am more than happy to accommodate my babygirl's request. However I don't know a lot of kinky shit ideas. Told her I am more than happy to get kinky as hell with her. Am wondering if I could get a little help, and asking for your ideas and tips. Thanks in advance.

 

[TheMalevolence]

This is easy to do and always gets me going:

Step 1: Put your penis in her vagina
Step 2: Take your penis partially out of her vagina
Step 3: Repeat

This is known as "Sex"

Hope that helped!

 

[may_I_please]

Start reading lit stories together, find out what she finds hot, what makes her squirm. Do not try to replicate but it should give you areas to explore together

Remember one persons kinky is another's turn-off and yet another's BTDTso you need to discover together

 

[may_I_please]

This is easy to do and always gets me going:

Step 1: Put your penis in her vagina
Step 2: Take your penis partially out of her vagina
Step 3: Repeat

This is known as "Sex"

Hope that helped!

You would do well to calm down a little, keep your joking around to the playground it is not well appreciated on the more serious boards

 

[NewDaddyDom]

Thank you

 

[NewDaddyDom]

There's just so many posts and threads to go thru, thought maybe it would be easier to ask for ideas. We're open to anything right now

 

[seela]

Have you asked your wife what she meant when she said kinky? She must have something in mind, given that she's the one who brought it up.

Just because you're the dominant one in your relationship it doesn't mean that you have to do all the work and come up with all the ideas.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

She had nothing in mind yet, just decided were getting away from vanilla and wants to start getting kinky. I've given her permission to look up stories or find any ideas she would like. Daddy is open for any idea

 

[CutieMouse]

There's just so many posts and threads to go thru, thought maybe it would be easier to ask for ideas. We're open to anything right now

Here's the thing, though - everyone has a different concept of "kinky". It really does boil down to doing your (own) homework.

For example, I was recently involved with someone who thought anal sex was kinky; I don't qualify it that way. Same for interracial sex - he saw it as "taboo" (and thus kinky); I didn't. At this stage of my life, I have made enough peace with my sexual proclivities, that I actually have a hard time defining anything I do as "kinky".

 

[midwestyankee]

One of the easiest ways to get ideas is to review the options on a thorough BDSM checklist. Here's a link to a google search I just did on the subject: checklists. One of the advantages of using a checklist is that you'll almost certainly find activities listed that neither of you would do in a million years. That makes some of the ideas that might otherwise seem a bit too kinky for you seem less threatening.

Some couples like to fill out their own checklists individually and then compare and others have reported that it's fun to fill one out jointly.

 

[Kashmeer]

Role playing can be a lot of fun...teacher...maid...cop...puppy...think Halloween

 

[NewDaddyDom]

Thank you midwestyankee

 

[KoPilot]

Reading erotica always helps in developing a direction you might like to go in (and can help you figure out what things you're definitely not into). Good luck!

 

[SpunThings]

Earlier today my wife/sub informed me she wanted to start getting kinky. I am more than happy to accommodate my babygirl's request. However I don't know a lot of kinky shit ideas. Told her I am more than happy to get kinky as hell with her. Am wondering if I could get a little help, and asking for your ideas and tips. Thanks in advance.

She needs to be more specific about what this means. I suspect that she has an idea, but maybe she thinks everyone agrees on what "kinky" is? Either way, you can't know what she's interested in unless she tells you. If she has a hard time discussing it, I agree pointing you to stories might help, or her writing down some ideas.

How can you know if you like kinky if you don't know what it is? I've heard some refer to doggy-style as kinky and to me that's just sex.

One of the tough things about doing this kind of stuff is that you've got to get creative. You've gotta put some brain power to it. However maybe it will prevent you from getting Alzheimers in old age

 

[NewDaddyDom]

I understand everyone has their own idea of what the term kinky means to them, but I'm curious of what you personally think of as kinky?

 

[gorgeous_grl]

I agree with Cutie. Not in a sense that we've been doing it a while and therefore feel like its hard to call anything kinky, but that what we do with each other is the norm for us. I like tit torture, so hitting and nipple play drops me right into subspace. He likes leaving marks and watching me squirm under strikes. We use nipple clamps, floggers, riding crop, his open palm, but I don't feel like that's kinky, it's just what we like. I greatly enjoy bondage, he doesn't always incorporate it into our play. We both also enjoy play rape sessions of different scenarios. We've recently been dabbling in anal play and just started using a beginners butt plug. But we're also just starting to be honest about what we really want and exploring BDSM. So there's so much more we haven't tried yet.

 

[SpunThings]

I understand everyone has their own idea of what the term kinky means to them, but I'm curious of what you personally think of as kinky?

She might not like what I or anyone else likes. I would be very surprised if she doesn't already have some idea in her head of what kinky means. Your most valuable resource is going to be her.

 

[subwannabe]

Boy am I naive. I would think that if you were in a dom/sub relationship then you are already "kinky". Good advice so far so I'll just add to it. I recommend tying her up spread eagle to the bed and tease her until she is horny as hell. It's better than truth serum. Once she is horny then make her tell you her darkest desires. Once she claims she has told you all of them then tease her some more until she tells you the rest. Don't stop until you are 100% sure she has told you everything.

Another piece of advice I learned from this site is to make special events linked to the senses which will cause her to remember the event forever. For instance, if she wants to be spanked then set up the event and have a certain smell present such as oranges (or whatever). Maybe have her blinfolded so the sense of smell is heightened. Then spank her. After that whenever she gets a whiff of oranges it will stimulate her memory of the experience. Another example is that my wife ordered me to buy a big hair brush that she was going to use to spank me with. Now every time I see her brushing her hair with that brush I remember the night she spanked me with it.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

Thank you for those ideas

 

[schoolszone]

march her into a porn store and have her pick out a whip, collar, and large butt plug. Make sure to leave the store with the collar on her and make sure to talk about the products where others can hear....Like compare the size of the butt plugs.

Make her pick out a slutty outfit as well

 

[nittfagm]

http://mojoupgrade.com/ looks interesting for this - each partner fills out the questionnaire on their own and then they are compared. It cuts down on the "I'd like that but am afraid to say I'd like that".

 

[MeekMe]

march her into a porn store and have her pick out a whip, collar, and large butt plug. Make sure to leave the store with the collar on her and make sure to talk about the products where others can hear....Like compare the size of the butt plugs.

Make her pick out a slutty outfit as well

There is absolutely No reason to involve the public in your kink. Just because it's a store that sells things of an erotic nature dose NOT mean those people want to be involved in your shit. Grow the fuck up.

 

[midwestyankee]

There is absolutely No reason to involve the public in your kink. Just because it's a store that sells things of an erotic nature dose NOT mean those people want to be involved in your shit. Grow the fuck up.

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[may_I_please]

There is absolutely No reason to involve the public in your kink. Just because it's a store that sells things of an erotic nature dose NOT mean those people want to be involved in your shit. Grow the fuck up.

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[midwestyankee]

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And we like your being here. It's posts like the one that Meeks put down and her reply that have lea to the sense that we don't like newcomers around here. Actually, we do. We just don't do suffer idiocy well here.