Kinky ideas

[MeekMe]

for may_I_please and MWY.


（ー_ー；）I could have sworn I changed "dose" to "does" before submitting. I wonder if autocorrect was trying to tell me it knows what's best for me by changing it back.

 

[NewDaddyDom]

Thank you everyone. I am new here myself. That's why I continually post questions.

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[La damnee elle la licorne]

 

[NewDaddyDom]

My sub and I are very new to all this, so all the help and advice is more than welcomed

 

[MeekMe]

I'm glad I found somewhere with people like you on it. I'm happy being kinky, I don't want to be rude/amoral/discourteous/ offensive. Meek me, you are such a good compass.

I have only rehashed information that I've gotten from the nice citizens of Lit. So many good people here have relayed important and thought provoking information.

Also, sometimes I get tired of seeing the same public humiliation fantasy posted time after time. I've worked a lot of retail jobs and have found that part of the fantasy seems to include making everyone around them uncomfortable. Especially public service workers that may not know what to do in those situations.

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Seriously, please stop taking advantage of public service workers. The pizza delivery driver doesn't want to see you have an "accident." The fitting room attendant doesn't want to call security when you try to bang in the fitting room, they also don't want to answer you when you ask, "is this too slutty?" The wait staff don't want to know you're being fingered under the table. And I desperately hope that there are no children anywhere near you when this shit happens.

There are lots of people that would be interested in this sort of thing. Find those people and act the scenarios out in the appropriate place.

Ok, end of rant. Sorry about the derailment.

 

[KoPilot]

Yep, if they wanted to be involved in random people's kink while on the job, then they would have become sex workers instead of service workers and gone from making $8/hr to $100/hr. If you can't afford to tip that much, you don't deserve their involvement.

 

[Oldenburg]

There is absolutely No reason to involve the public in your kink. Just because it's a store that sells things of an erotic nature dose NOT mean those people want to be involved in your shit. Grow the fuck up.

Like... Absolutely...

 

[gluttonne]

Communication here is absolutely vital, but just how you and yours communicate can vary wildly. In my case, I've always tended toward dominance and what many folks would call "rough" sex, but I really learned a lot about myself as well as a partner's needs doing a checklist as midwestyankee suggests. Really goes right to the point and a lot of your mutual turn-ons and turn-offs can be brought into the open quickly. I suspect some folks would not enjoy doing a checklist at all - going to the stories section here individually or together would make it easy to say "okay, this sounds pretty hot, but I'm not really comfortable with this", and the more creative descriptions of various kinds of play might inspire you or her more than a checklist.

The best part about communication is that once you open dialogue on a new subject in such a way that you both feel comfortable, you can move on to new but related subjects with far less awkwardness then just blurting "well I really wish someone would set my junk on fire" out of the blue.

 

[Tricktroll]

I always start with a savage beating. After that water sports... Then the fucking begins. (I always finish on the face) after that I usually stab them, every once in a while I'll use a gun, and I have to admit even once I did It with a baseball bat.